I think I'm pretty heterononormative. That's my new word. I identify as masculine first and gay is somewhere down the list. I'm probably most like Kevin James in terms of build and attitude. I like food, but I also want to stay in shape, so there's this constant war inside me. I have a degree in English, so I like to read. I'm an adjunct college instructor. I'm pretty happy with my life as it is. I'm not trying to uproot myself--I'm trying to build on what I have.