Weight training: 5 times per week 75 minutes per session
Cardio training: 4 times per week 30 minutes per session
Sports I like: Basketball, Bodybuilding, Cycling, Football (American), Martial arts, Racquetball, Skating, Volleyball, Weight training, Wrestling
Other sports I like:
HIV status: HIV -
I'm originally from Louisiana. Also lived in Texas for a few years. I miss the food from home!
New category: Worst movies ever made (that I've seen) What Dreams May Come The Fifth Element Moscow on the Hudson Grand Canyon King Solomon's Mines Event Horizon Blair Witch Project (somebody beat that whiny girl to death already)
Friends are very important to me. I have some very good ones, but they are spread across the country and moving further apart all the time. I would like to have a group of friends who I can do things with more regularly and who like each other (not necessarily true with all of my friends). Loyalty is very important to me. I have a few really close friends I would do anything for, and I think each of them would do the same for me. No reason the list can't expand. I never count out a possibility. Never know where you might meet somebody who becomes very important to you. I also don't look for anybody in particular. My friends are pretty different, and I judge every experience and every person separately. I also don't have a type, for the same reason. I never know what might attract me to someone, either as a friend or as something else.
Wrote this a while back on Myspace and copied it to here:
I have a friend who got divorced a few years ago and got remarried pretty quickly. I didn't understand how he could rebound so quickly and thought he was making a mistake, but they are still together years later and very happy. After a recent relationship, I understand now. Once you've been through it, you know exactly what you want.
Somebody who doesn't lie, who follows through on what is said and who wants me and needs me and only me. I want somebody who can't wait to call me when something happens -- good or bad -- and who can't wait to hear from me in the same situation.
I want somebody who can disagree with me and still love me. Even if we don't believe what the other person believes, we can still believe in each other. I want somebody I can have a knockdown argument with and still know nothing is going to change between us.
I want somebody who answers the phone when I call or calls me back as soon as possible. I want somebody who, even if something important is going on at work for example, is itching to answer the phone and talk to me even if it's not possible.
I want somebody who will let me give a lot of affection and who is willing to give it back. I love to give affection, just touching or whispering something encouraging or private between us, even in a crowd. I want everybody else in the room to have no doubt we are together and we are intimately attached.
I want intimacy. And I don't mean sex. Sex is great, but intimacy -- being one with each other and sharing everything -- is so much better it isn't even close.
I want somebody who knows that a relationship is not 50-50. It is 100-100. Both people have to give everything, be willing to give up anything within reason and to have no secrets.
I want somebody who tells me when something is wrong or when something bad happened, even when a mistake that might hurt me was made. I can forgive, but I don't want secrets kept from me.
I want faithfulness and I want somebody I don't even have to think twice about whether it exists. I want somebody who can let me have my time, either alone or with friends, and who I can do the same for, without worrying what might be happening. That comes from trust, and it takes time.
I want somebody who wants to be WITH ME more than with anybody else.
I want somebody I can share the world with, showing things I've already seen and watching the joy on the other person's face or discovering something new together.