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- Member since: 09/04/11
- Last active: More than a week ago
- Age: 43
- First location: Atlanta, Georgia, United States
- Relationship Status: Single
- Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Training Buddies
My Stats and Info
- Build: Muscular
- Height: 5' 9''
- Weight: 190 lbs
- Waist: 34 inches
- Chest: 44 inches
- Arms: 15 inches
- Hair color: Brown
- Eye color: Blue
- Ethnicity: White
- My gym: LA Fitness - Spring & 5th
- Weight training: 3 times per week
60 minutes per session
- Cardio training: 2 times per week
30 minutes per session
- Sports I like: Racquetball
- Other sports I like:
- HIV status: HIV -
- Safer sex?: Always
I'm at the point in my like that I know anything in life worth keeping is worth fighting for to keep it once you find it. Most gay guys don't know how to deal with conflict in a relationship or are looking for the next best thing to satisfy their thirst for the hunt or to feed their insecure egos. The thing I have to say about the grass is greener on the other side is maybe you should water your own grass and see how it will grow. So much energy spent negatively in this life, why not try being more positive? You liked each other in the beginning, find it again.
If people would just put as much energy in to their relationships that they waste on websites and apps like this it would have huge impact on our community. Most of all I would be able to concentrate on the 20% of the guys on here that are really single. I don't want a suitcase of emotional baggage showing up at my door or me being your next best thing.
Unlike most guys I am very comfortable in my skin and a very much "like me for who I am" and don't try to change me. At this stage in our life we all should know that people do very little changing. It's a balancing act as you really have to weigh the good with the bad. How much you like the good compared to the to stuff you don't like that make up both parts of that person. Beauty is only skin deep and fantasy is... just fantasy.
Some people don't want someone just like themselves to date. I actually think just the opposite, I want someone just like me to date with the same morals, etc. How big of a compliment is it to look at yourself in the mirror knowing all your issues and say to yourself I would date him. You would be surprised how many people would not date themselves, they seem to have a lot to offer eh?
I also know from experience if you have to ask for something more than once or twice it wasn't yours in the first place. As I start to get closer to 40 I'm proud of myself that I can still have such a great outlook on relationships and how I haven't let my past experiences in dating ruin my future of what is next to come.
I have old fashioned values and prefer a traditional type of relationship (isn't trying to be in a relationship with just one person enough work)? I believe you can be gay and have a healthy relationship. I'm a romantic (very few of a dying breed in the gay world) even thou everyone throws that term around a lot. I always hope that my next first kiss will be the last first kiss I ever have to have.
I'm more a actions speak louder than words type of a guy. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Communication is huge in a relationship and that is why so many relationships fall apart. You will never have to worry about what is on my mind, you will know it. You would never have to hear me tell you that I love you because you would feel it and know it. You only get one chance at this thing called "life" so you better enjoy it and live everyday like there is no tomorrow. The first and last breath don't matter, it's all the ones that are in-between. Ok now everyone will know I'm a sugarland fan. :)
I want to meet someone that is not afraid to give their heart to someone else over the course of time. I try to view new relationships (friends/dating) thru a kids point of view (very innocent) while I get to know the person. I really like taking the time to get to know someone for who they really are.
As far as interests, I like going out to the movies, bowling, concerts, rafting, working out at the gym, hiking, staying in and cuddling on the couch watching a movie, taking walks down by the river or walking on the sand at the beach and finally sweat dripping off brow sex... Now I got your attention keep reading.
A very wise and respectable woman once gave me some advice. She surprisingly told me in order to keep your man happy that you have to be someone presentable during the day and be a hoe in the bedroom at night. Not sure I can argue with that, but mother it does explain why I have four brothers. My preference in the sack is to be more the pitcher (top) than the catcher (bottom). However with saying that if I needed to compromise and be more versatile (50/50) I would. Both people have to be sexually satisfied or the relationship will eventually end. I'm a realist even thou I started my profile with somewhat a fairy tale ending.
I prefer a masculine guy that goes to the gym to stay in shape from a health perspective, but he doesn't need to be a body builder for me to be attracted to him. For some reason I seem to go out on a lot of dates with divorced guys that were once married to a woman. Just a observation, not a requirement.
Here are a few words that describes the attributes of the person that I'm usually attracted to. (masculine, shy, honest, muscles, caring, funny and stable).
I'm looking to build something more solid and deeper with someone that will outlast the physical aspect over time. I used to be a shy guy, but with getting older I have overcome that and these days I'm very direct with someone that I'm interested in. Why play games? I know what I like when I rarely find it.
Honestly I believe everyone has a person that is out there for all of us and finding them just takes a while.... and hopefully having the wisdom of recognizing them when they come along. I would prefer wasted time over missed opportunity.
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