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- Member since: 03/08/06
- Last active: This week
- Age: 35
- First location: Des Moines, Iowa, United States
- Relationship Status: Open Relationship
- Looking for: Friends, Training Buddies, Online Chat, Web Cam
My Stats and Info
- Build: Muscular
- Height: 5' 11''
- Weight: 195 lbs
- Waist: 32 inches
- Hair color: Brown
- Eye color: Hazel
- Ethnicity: White
- My gym: Aspen Athletic Club
- Weight training: 5 times per week
60 minutes per session
- Cardio training: 5 times per week
40 minutes per session
- Sports I like: Bodybuilding, Boxing, Hockey, Kickboxing, Martial arts, Running, Weight training
- Other sports I like: Weaponry...they should put that on here
- HIV status: HIV -
- Safer sex?: Always
Well lets see…where does one begin when asked to talk “about me”? In short, a lot has changed for me in the past few months. I used to give in to perceptions and stereotypes, which is never healthy in any situation. In the recent past I have discovered a great deal about myself, who I want to be and where I want to go. In short, it’s been an amazing, if not enlightening journey.
First of all, some of you will notice that my profile says ‘bi’. This is not me pretending to be bisexual so I will fit into society more. This is me being bisexual because there are certain, if not rare, kinds of women that I’m HEAVILY attracted to. I know a lot of people, both guys and girls are heavily uncomfortable with that, but it’s who I am and I am not going to apologize for it. I’m a lot happier now then I was and if I end up with a woman, great. If I end up with a guy, great. If you have a problem with it…great. Don’t bother me with pedantic statements of “who do you think you are fooling?”
It is true, I used to cruise around online looking for tricks, but that’s behind me now because, 1) I suck at hook ups and 2) I’ve outgrown it and don’t need it anymore. Things are better now as a result. I’m ALWAYS up for making new friends and I do like to cuddle and watch movies. Believe it or not, you CAN do that in a close and friendly way that doesn’t end in sex, and sometimes can leave a MUCH better taste in your mouth…so to speak.
Currently, I’m a working musician and I play keyboard in a regional l band. I prefer metal and hard rock as a performer, but I like almost every style of music except rap (because I don’t understand the point of using samples of other peoples work and calling it your own) and country (because my IQ drops 20 points when I listen to it). I would suggest everyone come check out our bands website www.17candle.com. Granted...I'm not on the website JUST yet (still the rookie) but will be soon.
I’m also a Comic Book writer, currently working for Bluewater Comics based out of the Pacific Northwest. I’ve worked with some of the most talented artists in the industry, some new and up-and-comers, and some established artists. You can check out more of my work at my myspace;
I’m also heavily into the gym. I work out with an awesome trainer out of West Des Moines who really knows his stuff. If you guys need a trainer, hit me up and I’ll be happy to give a recommendation. The cool thing about him is he has his own studio so you aren’t out with all the meatheads feeling like an idiot if you aren’t quite where you wanna be.
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
Well lets see…I think a better entry would be who I DON’T want to meet. I don’t wanna meet people looking for something quick because I’m lousy at it, and I’ve outgrown it.
I want to meet people who KNOW what they want out of life, and I REALLY want to meet people who’s lives extend OUTSIDE the realm of what they see in front of their faces…I.E...one thing I found is there is a LOT more to life then “gay”. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not ashamed of who I am, but I definitely get a lot more out of life then just focusing on “gay” or “bi”, and I wanna meet people like that. I wanna meet people who like to go out for a good time and wanna listen to a good Guns & Roses power ballad or some Disturbed (their version of Land of Confusion ROCKS) instead of ONLY techno or pop. I wanna meet people who care just as much about cancer patients as they do about people who live with HIV and AIDS. I want to meet artists who want to expand their creative ability to include ALL walks of life. The one thing I have learned in the past few months is there is SO much out there to do, so much to see, and so much to experience.
Go out there and LIVE!
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