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- Member since: 09/17/11
- Last active: More than a week ago
- Age: 57
- First location: Woking, Surrey, United Kingdom
- Relationship Status: Single
- Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Hookup, Training Buddies, Online Chat, Web Cam
My Stats and Info
- Build: Average
- Height: 5' 8''
- Weight: 196 lbs
- Waist: 34 inches
- Chest: 43 inches
- Hair color: Brown
- Eye color: Hazel
- Ethnicity: White
- My gym:
- Weight training:
- Cardio training: 5 times per week
35 minutes per session
- Sports I like: Cycling, Martial arts, Skating, Skiing, Snowboarding, Surfing, Swimming, Water polo, Wrestling
- Other sports I like: Aqua aerobics twice per week for 45 mins each. I've now started swimming lessons and excercise daily.
I'm also really keen on exploring Brazilian Jiu Jitsu as and when circumstances allow perhaps a little later this year. If you don't know Brazilian Jiu Jitsu it involves massive amounts of full body contact.
I'd love to take up body boarding/surfing/wind surfing but since I don't live near a beach that's off the table for the time being.
- HIV status: HIV -
- Safer sex?: Always
I'm a tender, sweet natured and sensitive masculine Caucasian guy. I'm a 100% homosexual g0y (G Zero Y G0Y) so please check the meaning before contacting me. Try G0ys.org. If that's not your thing then that's fine and so let's just move on with good grace and goodwill if that's an issue.
Perhaps the first thing to say is that as a very passionate person if I am serious about you and I can assure you I will be completely transparent in letting you know and if you are genuine and the feeling is mutual I will treat this relationship very seriously indeed even if for various reasons it remains non physical. Humility and friendship is everything to me.
I'm finally getting into the whole way of life of healthy exercise as a way of creating a beautiful body that I can then offer as a gift of love to a ravishingly handsome guy whose heart and soul is as beautiful as his handsome looks. Right now I'm in some turmoil due to the fact that my super healthy diet, regular exercise and a few other things in raising my sex drive to that of a 16 year old and I realize that I have an incredibly deep need to bond with guys physically, emotionally and psychically/spiritually.
On the surface you probably think that just what the hell is holding this guy back? Well one or two simple little things. The Brazilian people and way of life forces me to confront the reality that I truly and deeply want to live in a warm country with warm people, warm seas and live a super healthy life in all ways and fully immerse myself into traditional Brazilian musical culture which to me is utterly beguiling and divine. In the meantime I'm stuck in Blighty living far from the beaches of the south west English Channel coast as well which doesn't really help all that much either.
Ultimately if I don't behave with integrity and respect for my new found mates on this site everything will turn to shit. Of course love changes everything and if I encounter the love of my life on this website maybe I'd settle for life in Bournemouth/Poole or Torquay/South Devon. Still, it still has to said that I find our 9 months of British winter an absolute trial and having to live during that time with so few flowers breaks my heart every time true winter sets in. So what's the solution?
The solution is for me to be transparently honest with my new found friends and definitely not sleep with them if it's going to lead to heart ache on either side. Perhaps I can convince them to embrace the Brazilian way of life just like me and emigrate with me to Rio de Janeiro (ground central for Brazilian musical culture) or somewhere within an hour of Salvador da Bahia (think year round warm seas and low rise beach communities close to the big city). There certainly are things that I'd miss about Blighty but the British winter and the paucity of flowers during that time certainly isn't one of them. Fancy swimming, body boarding, Surfing, Windsurfing in warm waters year round and enjoying beach sports and activities all year round? And what about Brazilian culture that contains all the glories of European culture plus the delights of Choro/Chorinho, Samba, and Bossa Nova. Traditional Brazilian architecture has a grace and charm beyond belief that perhaps only Bath and the New town of Edinburgh can hope to rival in Britain itself. The British climate ensures that most of our time is spent indoors sheltering from the cold and damp and trying to keep warm. How about eating alfresco all year round in a beautiful garden whilst the local wild life scampers happily through the trees above. Would you enjoy a country with more varieties of super healthy tropical fruit than anywhere else on the f...ing planet? Are you beginning to see the light?
I'm a profoundly passionate and spiritual person who uses the muscly light of the universe to create the life of my dreams. Yes, it requires a lot of inner work on myself to get out of my own way and oodles of practical worldly action but it really is worth it.
The bottom line for me is that respect for my friend/lovers heart must completely overrule any selfish desire for physical self gratification at any price. You see once deep hurt has been done both respect and real love fly out of the window and you're left with absolutely nothing at all. It's not at all easy but it simply must be done. If I fail to respect you in any way then I've quite simply failed in my mission to love you without reservation in a way that isn't going to harm you. This might mean spiritual love rather than sensual love. You see there's is such an infinite variety of different types of love, all equally valid in their own way. If we can both love each other for what we are and not for what we'd like each other to be then real love blossoms really quite easily in heart centered guys and is thoroughly life enhancing and life transforming.
A case in point is when a few years ago my 10 year relationship with an absolutely lovely Indonesian man came to an end due to various inadequacies on my part. Despite this my ex partner's steady love continued and continues to this day despite that fact that he is now married with a wife and child. Alwi's love for me has transformed my life and made me into the kind of person that I am now and that's no bad thing! Obviously I absolutely adore him and yet am mature and loving enough not to want to destroy his happy new found family life.
By the way I really don't want kids. I think that I might have the capacity to love well behaved kids with all my heart but I just don't want that particular responsibility and would be only too happy to hand them back to their parents when I've had enough. I absolutely adore Alwi's sweet young son and he's an absolutely wonderful kind loving father so I know that I do have the capacity to love children for short periods, ha, ha!!
Social couple dancing to choro/chorinho, samba, and bossa nova is an absolute delight and dream that I'd love to share with you and is also great exercise and just wonderful romantic fun.
My super healthy eating plan is working like a dream and I've already lost about 5kg in four months whilst never ever going hungry and have completely mastered control of my blood sugar (zero sugar cravings ever - how good is that?). I'm almost in great shape, just a tiny, tiny bit overweight so in another 6 to 12 months or so I'll be able to honour you with my body without the tiniest bit of shame or embarrassment.
I think that the more we share the better. What do you think? If we can't enjoy being together outside of the f..ing bedroom then our relationship will be an absolute unmitigated disaster!
In terms of social interests music is like breathing to me. The kind of music that moves me is music with a gentle or kind beat and rich soaring melodies. Don't get me wrong rhythm can be intoxicating but the problem with too much rhythm is the annihilation of melody. Example: I used to dance salsa many years ago and which is undeniably tremendous fun but I can't recall let alone whistle a single tune!
I love: Choro/Chorinho (highly sophisticated and rich sweetness and joy), traditional Samba (can be incredibly moving and joyful) and Pagode (at it's best simple happy samba), Bossa Nova (the epitome of refined casual elegance), The Great American Songbook (the music of the first 50 or 60 years of the twentieth century) and traditional Broadway musicals, operetta, 19th and 20th century classical music, film scores, opera, ballet.
Some of my favourite films: The Mission, Malena, Era Uma Vez (one of the most searingly beautiful love stories I've ever encountered. The sadness of it had me crying like a child but somehow it summed up all of the absolute joy, beauty and sadness and pain of Brazil in one movie - simply breathtaking -don't worry if you don't understand Portuguese because the story is so beautifully told cinematically you will understand practically everything!)
Favourite (internet) radio station: Sophisticated Easy Sounds (which is just filled with rich lush emotional traditional pop melodies mostly from the Great American Songbook which pretty much reflects the emotional and spiritual richness of my interior life. How blessed am I?
My ideal lifestyle will always be a classical or traditional mansion (Brazilian style)in a lovely garden by the beach. Apartment/flat living really isn't for me unless it comes with a beautiful garden and or grounds for us and our dog(s). I do hope you like dogs as much as I do as for me they're really child replacements but so much easier to look after (they're not burdened with complicated psyche's in adolescence and adulthood) with just terribly simple loving and uncomplicated hearts that totally melt me. Although my true heart lies by the sea I'm still incredibly blessed to be living in a house, yes a house not a flat within 30 minutes of central London by rail. How lucky is that?
Religiously speaking I'm a very poor humble guy. I have no religion. My religion is love.
If my values of love, truth and beauty resonate with you then I'm sure we'd get along.
Woking is less than 30 minutes by rail from central London and the trains run literally every few minutes until 01.00am so I'm easy to visit from central London. Woking really isn't very photogenic but it is VERY relaxed and easy going and as the vast majority of homes there come with gardens it's pretty green and leafy which I very much appreciate being as I'm a great lover of (fine) gardens. I'd be more than happy to meet up with you in London but my humble job, astronomical food bill (all that gorgeous healthy unprocessed food), and wholistic medicine health bills and e-commerce coaching bills absolutely annihilate my disposable income ensure that London trips are frustratingly largely off the menu on a regular basis - isn't that such a pain, ha, ha, ha!!!
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
Handsome men of African origin or descent, mulatos, morenos and mixed race brown peeps of all the beautiful shades from very rich and dark to paler and everything else in between. Listen, of course I'm an absolute sucker for a young handsome face initially. However what maintains my interest is the light of love, tenderness and sweetness shining out from their eyes. Now that combination is absolute dynamite and will sustain my love for them till the end of my life and theirs if they die before me.
I'm really only into guys that are as much into me as I them. If you've a young handsome face or are at least attractive AND have a heart of gold then YOU are just perfect for me! If you're a heart centered guy with a humble and sincere heart then I'm going to fall for you in a big way! If you're into marriage then you're the type of guy I want to hear from. If you're not then you're not right for me and I really don't want to get involved with you.
Esta Bem (OK)
Que esta tudo pra agora mesmo (That's all for right now)
Abracos meu caro amigo (Hugs my dear friend)
Um grande beijo (A big kiss)
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