A little about me. I've lived in a multitude of different places growing up which has allowed me to be well rounded, and feel comfortable in different environments.

I grew up with a family full of simple values and morals on a farm in rural Ontario - moved onto Montreal, then to Toronto and have settled (currently) in Richmond Hill.

Life experience with different types of people and situations have helped mould me into what I am today. So I'm comfortable at formal dinners/events (where there are lots of cutlery) likewise, in the middle of a park picnicking :)

Since January, I have worked really hard and put a lot of effort into my fitness regime. And to be transparently honest, in the beginning, 1/2 of it was because I found myself single again after 8 years, and 1/2 of it was to see if I could achieve a goal that seemed so far fetched at the time. As time wore on, it became apparent to me that it was achieving the fart-fetched goal that was much more important than the former, and the ratio soon reflected that.

I've also had a wide variety of employment that has allowed me to really see the human side of folks. The job that has most shaped who I am today in terms of my twisted sense of humour and really being able to read and empathize with others was at the Funeral Home. Yah - you may cringe and say EWWW ... Bring on the 6 Feet Under Jokes ... but it was an experience I wouldn't trade for anything.

There's nothing like having to see someone walk through the door, and size up their mood and their reactions to you in the first 10 seconds :) But usually with a smile, and a few choice words, they can be disarmed.

Did I mention the calming affect my voice has on people when I speak to them? Voice talent was also part of my recent worklife as well, doing recordings for company's phone menus. :)

This space is apparently for information on the guys I'm looking to meet, so I guess I should like some sort of criteria.

I'm not looking for a hook up.... so if that's your sole reason for messaging me, think twice, because you'll either get a chilly reception or no response. (Well ok - unless your unless you are hot models, rich and from sexy foreign countries! then its all up in the air - JUST KIDDING!)

My "ideal" guy - I would have to say was someone of substance, someone who loves their family, but can also be part of mine, and vice versa. He should be sensitive to situations, and not necessarily have blinders on to what's happening around. He needs to be caring, attentive, and loving. He needs to be able to be independent when those times arise. He can show a little jealously but not too much :)

In terms of his appearance, I don't have a type set in stone. I've surprised myself in the past at the kind of guys I went for - they weren't my physical type - but something about them - once I got to know them, was a powerful attraction.

However, Mr. Ideal should take care of himself, and have a good focus on being fit and healthy. I do not want to have to try to juggle my goals with someone who is trying to derail me, because he just wants to sit at home tonight in front of the TV and cuddle with a piece of cake. :)

Although this hasn't given much guidelines, if you want to know more, feel free to ask!

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