gay/geek/jock/masc/mech, mix a dozen metaphors & acronyms and sun dry for two hours. my day job is computer/network security engineering. i've done fire/rescue since 1987. i can change the block on my own car, frame a doorway, rewire a bedroom, & lay a sprinkler system.

i cook.

i have a boyfriend.

if you want to contact me, please see http://blue-labs.org/~david/contact.php.

i DO NOT smoke & avoid places & people that do, it's disgusting. now that i've been blunt about my opinion on it, here's a fact on it. i'm allergic to it. no drugs, no alcohol, i get plenty of fun out of life & get to remember it. :D i can't dance for sh*t rhythm to be honest, but i try and get laughs ;) i enjoy a wide variety of music so punt the hate whether i'm listening to country or rock.

i must be online. my 7x5 inches seems to be below average. sadly i missed the bus when everyone else got a 12 inch tool. oh that's right, you measure from your tail bone. i thought your 12 inches of rock hard heavy meat was a bit larger than life. you do know that the average is 5.5 inches, no? speaking of average, "average" isn't a 40" waist with a 60" tummy sporting DD cups :-X

btw, if you've read this far and haven't laughed, you should have. enjoy ALL of life.

p.s. i don't follow the boat of safe sex, i believe in safer sex. i wear condoms with others but it's still possible to catch something. i believe in the concept of "best practices", i.e. good personal hygiene of all involved, no drunk fucking, no anonymous hole in the wall fucking, etc. ask questions, politely defer intercourse if someone has something communicable. you can get your rocks off elsewhere.

oops. i used that wicked horrible word masculine. some people think it's offensive and derogatory to describe a person as manlike, of the male sex, used by man, having the qualities of a man, not of a female. having the characteristics of a man, not effeminate or feminine.

it's a crying shame that some people thing it's horrible to describe yourself as masculine, or that you are attracted to someone that is masculine. further, the use of feminine or effeminate is also apparently derogatory.

it is my contention that such people are looking to create drama and divisiveness. the segregation or division of groups as set by the term masculine is no more derogatory or harmful than stating you are a guy who snowboards and you want a guy who is also into snowboarding. or, you like grape flavors and you are interested in other guys who are into grape flavors. in like manner, effeminate in and of itself is no more derogatory than espousing a lack of interest in thin men, chubby men, tall men, short men, or men that don't like grape flavors.

i have no hate or animosity toward effeminate men, drag queens, "bitches", transgender, or any other "non masculine" type of person. you should never assume someone who is "masc4masc" has any hate or condescending attitude for non-masculine people. unless someone clearly expresses a derogatory statement, you are at fault for making up such shit, and you are the source of division and insinuation of condescension.

as far as that other bad word, flamers, full stop again. a gay flamer is perceived as someone that "the gay" glows so bright they don't need lights at night time. my life doesn't revolve around my sexual orientation. I don't have twenty pin on buttons of rainbow apparel nor am i wearing rainbows from head to toe. if you put me in the middle of a crowd, i don't stick out as strikingly as a watermelon in a pile of cherries. now, nothing in what i have said is any indication, directly or between the lines, that flaming is bad. it is a representation of the intensity a person uses to indicate their sexual orientation.

i don't hang around politicians who are still identifiable with your eyes blinded and ears muffled. i have no interest. nor do i hang around a football fan who reflects his loyalty to his team in every item of clothing he wears or carries about him. these people are flamers in the same train of thought as the gay flamer. i've said nothing negative, nor do i spit on the ground they walk on. it's just not a characteristic that appeals to me and i've no interest in being overshadowed by such intensity. thusly you won't find me surrounded by gay flamers. still, no hate or derision, nothing derogatory or untowardly divisive.

how about people with strong body odor? is a person to be called hateful and derogatory, even divisive, if they say they have good hygiene and are looking for another guy with good hygiene? silly people.

i am drawn toward masculine guys. i normally have no interest in effeminate guys, flamers, or drag queens. if you're offended because i'm not into you, suck it up. not every guy is into me, but i'm not trying to make an issue out of it and force him to like me.

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