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- Member since: 03/12/10
- Last active: More than a week ago
- Age: 44
- First location: Defiance, Ohio, United States
- Second location: Chicago, Illinois, United States
- Relationship Status: Single
- Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Training Buddies
My Stats and Info
- Build: Average
- Height: 5' 9''
- Weight: 180 lbs
- Waist: 36 inches
- Chest: 43 inches
- Arms: 16 inches
- Hair color: Brown
- Eye color: Blue
- Ethnicity: White
- My gym: YMCA
- Weight training: 5 times per week
45 minutes per session
- Cardio training: 5 times per week
45 minutes per session
- Sports I like: Bodybuilding, Gymnastics, Kickboxing, Running, Swimming, Weight training, Wrestling
- Other sports I like: Men's Gymnastics
- HIV status: HIV -
- Safer sex?: Always
If you're anything like me, you've probably agonized over how to begin this narrative. Maybe you've researched it, and, perhaps even "over-thought it" (guilty as charged here). So, I decided rather than struggle with it, I'd just have some fun.
So, what do you really want in a guy? I mean, we all know what we want, but throwing perfection, which doesn't exist aside, what's REALLY important to you?
Consider... I'm the kind of guy...
... Who isn't content managing the few days I have as an existence. I choose to live a life. (And a pretty darn good one at that).
... Who doesn't believe in "spending time" with someone. Why would I do that, when instead there are memories to be made and shared?
... Who is driven enough to be professionally successful, but disciplined enough to know work is not an end, but a means to many ends.
... Who can enjoy the finer things in life, such as a cocktail at the Signature Room, but can and does find joy in simple things like a county fair or street festival.
... Who thinks that rather than knowing it all, learning it all is much better.
...Who's buttoned down enough to enjoy the theater, but adventurous enough to get naked on a nude beach.
... Who's been tested by an abusive past relationship, but found out he has what it takes to be an amazing boyfriend.
... Who's basically a kind, open minded, challenging, sometimes mischievous, affectionate, loyal, compassionate, shamelessly erotic and mostly a charming, infuriating scoundrel at heart who will make you smile, can make you sweat and would make you breakfast.
And without getting all "down in the weeds esoteric" (I just hate that) I'm the kind of guy that's inspired by others, who's general attitude is "what can I do to help?" with a determination to make each day a little better than the one that came before it. I'm engaged enough to genuinely care about others, bold enough to not be afraid of liking someone or loving them, uninhibited enough to shag your brains out and strong enough to put my arms around you when the day "just plainly sucks".
Am I perfect? Hell no. And I have no interest in trying. Instead, I'll find joy in the "pretty damn good" part of life.
So tell me all about you? If you were to pick one song from the 60's 70's or 80's as the theme to your life and one as the theme to your dreams, what would those songs be?
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
Several years ago, I made a commitment to find something to appreciate in people and damned if life didn't get much more interesting. If I write and pay you a compliment it's just that - something I appreciated about you. The world is too full of negativity and rudeness today. Call this my little effort to deny those things an audience. (Hey, I want to make you smile - OK?!)
I find guys who are confident, fit, disciplined, mature, energetic, open-minded, different and proud of it and generally successful and with a sense of humor to be most attractive. I like a guy who is creative enough to think through a good date (hint: it does not have to be over the top or expensive) a guy who has class enough to say hello back, or better yet - has courage and curiosity enough to say hi in the first place.
I've been single for a few years and am in no hurries to change that, but am open to it with the right person and in the right time. Even if dating isn't a "go", what's wrong with being friends?
|Your dating personality profile:|
Wealthy/Ambitious - You know what your goals are and you pursue them vigourously. Achieving success is important to you.
Athletic - Physical fitness is one of your priorities. You find the time to work athletic pursuits into your schedule. You enjoy being active.
Adventurous - Just sitting around the house is not something that appeals to you. You love to be out trying new things and really experiencing life.
|Your date match profile:|
Athletic - You aren't looking for a couch potato. You seek someone who is active and who keeps his body in top shape.
Outgoing - Shy and timid people are not who you are after. You need someone with a vibrant personality to breathe life into a relationship.
Practical - You are drawn to people who are sensible and smart. Flashy, materialistic people turn you off. You appreciate the simpler side of living.
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