- Vote him Man of the Day
- Member since: 03/12/10
- Last active: More than a week ago
- Age: 41
- First location: Defiance, Ohio, United States
- Second location: Chicago, Illinois, United States
- Relationship Status: Single
- Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Training Buddies, Online Chat
My Stats and Info
- Height: 5' 9''
- Weight: 170 lbs
- Waist: 33 inches
- Chest: 42 inches
- Arms: 16 inches
- Hair color: Brown
- Eye color: Blue
- Ethnicity: White
- My gym: LA Fitness Grandview Yard & Title Boxing Grandview
- Weight training: 4 times per week
45 minutes per session
- Cardio training: 5 times per week
45 minutes per session
- Sports I like: Bodybuilding, Boxing, Gymnastics, Kickboxing, Lacrosse, Martial arts, Running, Swimming, Volleyball, Weight training
- Other sports I like: Men's Gymnastics
- HIV status: HIV -
- Safer sex?: Always
I'm definitely a "meet the day, don't let it meet you", "the only guaranteed 'no' is the one you assume", "I'm listening", "Sure, let's give it a try", "Why not?", "Let's go" kind of guy. My yes is yes, my no is no and I've got a "can do" attitude backed up with a "will do" determination.
My friends say I make them laugh while actually not intending to be funny, which to them makes it even more amusing. Seriously... you could put 29-thousand normal people in a stadium with me and then introduce one crazy person and you can bet that I'll be the one the crazy person finds. What can I say? It's a gift... I actually got hauled up on stage during a live theater production and thrown into a square dance... I've never square danced but thought "Oh what the hell? Let's do this!" and had a BLAST.
Being physically fit and active is really important to me. I'm very disciplined in training at the gym, including weights, kickboxing and boxing. I've got a lot of other pursuits outside of the gym though, including (but not limited to) spontaneous day trips, cooking out with friends, craft cocktails, all things aviation, history, exploring new neighborhoods, classic tv & movies, reading (mostly non-fiction) and music - classical, 60's to 80's, and love newer too. (WILCO, Foster the People, U-2, Red Hot Chili Peppers to name a few). I especially like meeting new people and learning from things they like.
So...why would I make a good date? The answer to that depends on you. If you like lively conversation on a variety of subjects, someone who will not only accept, but appreciate "you for you" and someone who, if things go well, isn't afraid of a second date without the expectation of it, then I might be your kind of guy.
What else can I say? Here's your invitation to find out more. I've invested a lot to be a great, quality, if imperfect guy. I'm not trying to be perfect, not looking for perfect - I'm just looking for or looking to be found by that one guy with a sense of self, a sense of curiosity and the "Why not, let's give it a shot" attitude to make it happen.
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
Several years ago, I made a commitment to find something to appreciate in people and damned if life didn't get much more interesting. If I write and pay you a compliment it's just that - something I appreciated about you. The world is too full of negativity and rudeness today. Call this my little effort to deny those things an audience. (Hey, I want to make you smile - OK?!)
I find guys who are confident, fit, disciplined, mature, energetic, open-minded, different and proud of it and generally successful and with a sense of humor to be most attractive. I like a guy who is creative enough to think through a good date (hint: it does not have to be over the top or expensive) a guy who has class enough to say hello back, or better yet - has courage and curiosity enough to say hi in the first place.
I've been single for a few years and am in no hurries to change that, but am open to it with the right person and in the right time. Even if dating isn't a "go", what's wrong with being friends?
|Your dating personality profile:|
Wealthy/Ambitious - You know what your goals are and you pursue them vigourously. Achieving success is important to you.
Athletic - Physical fitness is one of your priorities. You find the time to work athletic pursuits into your schedule. You enjoy being active.
Adventurous - Just sitting around the house is not something that appeals to you. You love to be out trying new things and really experiencing life.
|Your date match profile:|
Athletic - You aren't looking for a couch potato. You seek someone who is active and who keeps his body in top shape.
Outgoing - Shy and timid people are not who you are after. You need someone with a vibrant personality to breathe life into a relationship.
Practical - You are drawn to people who are sensible and smart. Flashy, materialistic people turn you off. You appreciate the simpler side of living.
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