I've been on RJ since the end of May '11, and am still loving it! Have only run across fakes and d-bags in single-digit quantities during this entire time, but plenty of awesome guys and naturally hundreds who get the - uh - blood pumpin'.

MY PRIVATE PIC: It's a totally G-rated mug shot which I have no problem "unlocking" when asked. I'm on the DL here mainly because of having had to contend with a con artist a while back - theft, fraud, harassment, that kind of fun stuff. He's a member here too but hopefully without success in scamming.

BACKGROUND:: Born & raised in Ohio, return regularly; 3 years in Japan; most of adulthood in Massachusetts. Never served in the military, but have blood that runs olive drab. My Suth'n roots are deep.

I'm quietly and confidently "out" but respect needs for "discretion." Being seen with me says nothing about how you roll in the bedroom. All kinds of people (mostly straight, at that) are in my existence.

All ages (not in sexual pursuit of anybody much younger than 40 unless they're cool with it)
Bros, nerds, musicians, activists, non-activists, jocks, weekend warriors, city guys, country guys
Height between 4'10" and 7'9" as well as any weight, built anywhere between anorexic and morbidly obese
"Curious" to "out for days"
...in other words, I'm "open-minded." :D

I HOTLIST BASED ON PROFILE CONTENT AS WELL AS LOOKS. Among other things, here's what arouses the big head:

A love for Japan born from experience living there or through education (yoroshiku onegaishimasu!)

Disdain (NOT contempt) for gay-life conformity: leather fetish gear, gayborhood living, overcrowded clubs with cranked Euro techno tribal house trash music, sh!te like that.

***WRESTLING*** - Good times, awesome workout. Fascinating to me on all sorts of levels - technical to, naturally, sexual - from an early age. Just about every variety from "folkstyle" to Naked Kombat.

Geography: Japan (see above), Eastern New England, the Carolinas, or the OKI Tri-State.

Preference for "classic" rock/funk/R & B tunes, appreciation for country/classical/etc. Spare me club mixes and most hiphop though.

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