Weight training: 4 times per week 60 minutes per session
Sports I like: Basketball, Boxing, Cycling, Running, Sailing, Snowboarding, Surfing, Swimming, Tennis, Water polo, Kayaking, Volleyball
Other sports I like: Rafting
HIV status: HIV -
Safer sex?: Always
I'm not a fan of talking about myself but... I'm a flawed but worthwhile person, complex in the layers of my character yet simple in my general personality and easy to get along with on a day-to-day basis. Focused and determined to achieve goals, conclude achievements and exceed expectations I set for myself...I can sometimes focus so much on a goal that I neglect the everyday enjoyments of life. Always having possessed this characteristic, I am still learning to bring more balance into my life. My best friends are usually those that can get me to take a step outside of my goal oriented world and break for appreciation of time spent just being "simply" Blair with those I hold close to me.
Although success in career and personal goals is important to me, what's more important are the people I hold close to me. The few that I allow "into" the real Blair may be a small number but they find that I will reward them for their patience and understanding of me with undying loyalty, commitment and love. A natural giver, I'll do just about anything to make someone I care about happy, to compliment their lives and enrich their life experience.
The "real Blair" as I refer to it, isn't the salesman, the happy, perky and always helpful character I play in real estate. Afterall, nobody wants to buy or sell real estate through someone who is unenthusiastic, boring and/or droll. The real Blair has deeper, significant, meaningful thoughts, experiences and feelings and although generally happy, perky and helpful there are the deeper layers that the aforementioned few get to know.
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
What I have found in life is that most people, men or women, don't care to invest the time or energy to get to know that deeper side or they find it unappealing. They are more attracted to a "character" played out in order to sell or be liked/loved than they are a "real" person. I certainly do not claim to be wise beyond my years or the expert in any area involving the human species but my life experiences have led me to conclude that much. As a natural giver, seeking to positively compliment others' lives in a general sense (afterall you can't *always* be a positive in someone else's life) I have found that characteristic exposes me to those who take advantage or take for granted the care that I share.
I do, however, still have the faith that there are truly amazing and exceptional people out there and if I find just a handful of them I consider myself to be a rich and fulfilled person. Material things do not provide for long-term fulfillment or true satisfaction in life, the relationships you build with those you care about and hold close to you are what make myself, and others I believe, happy, fulfilled, loved and loving.