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  • Jun 19, 2018 - 12:57 PM


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    About Me

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    • Member since: 04/11/11
    • Last active: More than a week ago
    • Age: 38
    • First location: Richmond, Virginia, United States
    • Relationship Status: Single
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    My Stats and Info

    • Build: Muscular
    • Height: 5' 9''
    • Weight: 185 lbs
    • Waist: 32 inches
    • Chest: 44 inches
    • Arms: 18 inches
    • Hair color: Brown
    • Eye color: Green
    • Ethnicity: White
    • My gym: Total Fitness
    • Weight training: 5 times per week
      90 minutes per session
    • Cardio training: 3 times per week
      60 minutes per session
    • Sports I like:
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    • HIV status: HIV -
    • Safer sex?: Always


    I'm originally from the Boston area, but my family moved to Virginia when I was 13, and I had been there since. Over the past 11 years, I've lived several places including Norfolk, VA, Charleston, SC, Boston, MA, and now Washington, DC.

    With all the moving, I've had the chance to meet a lot of great people, and I'm on here looking to meet new people, and make new friends.

    At this point, I'm also looking to find a great guy, and start a life together. Here's hoping!

    So what kind of guy am I? Well, I'd like to think I'm a normal (I know that's a relative term) guy, who just happens to like guys instead of girls. I like doing just about anything outdoors--fishing, camping, hiking, etc. One of the best times of my life was my last summer in college, when my buddy from work and I spent pretty much every day for 2-3 months fishing, regardless of the weather, in the New River. It was quiet, we'd wade around, drink beers, cast out and reel in, sing country music, tell stupid jokes. (If I had to think of a happy place, that would be it.) Other than that, when the summer rolls around, you'll definitely find me out on the beach. I'm always up for trying new things, even if I'm no good at them, although sometimes I just need an extra push.

    I'd like to think I'm relatively outgoing--I'm in advertising sales after all, so it's not something you can do if you're shy or timid. But there are times, when in a group setting, I love to just sit back, listen to people, and watch how they interact. I used to travel a lot for work, and I used to love people-watching in airports. It takes all kinds of people to make the world go 'round, and if you're willing to embrace that, and just observe, you learn a lot.

    When it comes down to it, I'm just your t-shirt and jeans wearing kind of guy. On the weekends I like my beer, my pizza, and shooting some pool at the bar around the corner. I'm very loyal to my friends, and I'm alright with having only a handful or two of close friends. I don't need to be the center of attention, or be a social butterfly. It's the stronger, long-lasting friendships that have always meant the most to me.

    Family is definitely important to me, and I'm not just talking about those who share your blood or DNA. My parents divorced 12 years ago, and I'm now very close to my step-mom and step-siblings. Our blended family is amazing, and we always have a great time around each other. I also have people in my life, who have been there since birth--friends of my parents, and their children, who I consider to be my aunts and uncles, and cousins, though technically, we aren't related by blood or law. They are the most amazing people, who have been there forever, and I couldn't imagine my life without them.

    So perhaps that gives you an idea of my views on family...

    What else...

    Well, I'm not perfect. I don't even try to be. It's too exhausting. I have faults, and I'm aware of them, and I am always trying to better myself, not only for myself, but for those around me. But overall, I'm a pretty easy-going guy, who prefers to do little things to make people laugh, rather than make life difficult. It's all too short, and that's one thing that I was fortunate enough to learn from the passing of my best friend a few years back. Everyone is different, everyone has faults, and everyone has a story. If you take a minute to listen, you never know what you might learn.


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