I'm a fit, friendly, well-educated professional who is looking for a younger, fit, professional male up for becoming friends first and foremost .... getting to know each other, having drinks and dinner, spending some quality time together. I'm in good shape, a non-smoker and healthy -- and I'm hoping you're the same.
I tend to be attracted to guys who take life and healthy living seriously, but who aren't afraid to relax and be happy in the moment.
But most guys I've chatted with are from faraway places, and they almost immediately ask if I will come visit their town so they can show me around. I mean, immediately. And then after a few messages back and forth, they just up and disappear. So don't think I'm buying a plane ticket for you. haha (But if you offer to buy me a plane ticket, then I know you seriously want me; I've never considered taking any guy up on that offer, but I may if something you say clicks for me. So have at it. :) I have no clue what to think about guys who are thousands of miles away thinking I'm desperate to completely change my geography. If you live in a mansion on the west coast, a chateau in the south of France, or are otherwise loaded with money, and you want me to move in with you, I may surprise you and consider it. So have at it. tee hee
I ignore: - Appeals from guys with no profile or pics. - Nigerian scam artists. What is it with that country? - Guys who aren't muscled and/or lean. This is a jock site after all. - Guys who ask me for more pics. The 25 I have in my profile are more than enough. My stats are real. - Requests to unlock from guys who haven't unlocked for me. - Guys who've obviously not read this far in my profile.
If you want me to unlock and you have pics too, unlock first. I keep my pics locked for strange locals, but I'll gladly unlock for anyone who I'm attracted to.
A great sense of humor and a good heart are the quickest way to my heart. I love to joke around and if the chemistry's there, it's combustible for me. :)
Physically, I'm into fit, lean, muscular guys. But I want someone to love much more than someone to give my body to. Hookups are about lust, which is short-lived and unsatisfying. I'd rather have an average fit guy than one who's in love with himself or otherwise has an extremely high opinion about himself. A happy life is about balance and nurturing each other.
I like younger guys. But even more, I prefer someone I can really be myself with. And that takes time to figure out. I like decisive men; most guys don't follow through and time chatting with them seems more like a job interview than a conversation. Frustrating as hell. I also think it's extremely hot when a guy has quotes in his profile that show him as insightful and tender-hearted.
I try my best to look my best and I hope you like the results.0D