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  • May 28, 2017 - 10:35 PM


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    About Me

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    • Member since: 12/12/10
    • Last active: More than a week ago
    • Age: 56
    • First location: Richmond, Virginia, United States
    • Travel location: Outer Banks, North Carolina, United States
    • Relationship Status: Single
    • Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Hookup, Training Buddies, Online Chat
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    My Stats and Info

    • Build: Beefy
    • Height: 5' 10''
    • Weight: 220 lbs
    • Waist: 38 inches
    • Chest: 42 inches
    • Arms: 17 inches
    • Hair color: Brown
    • Eye color: Blue
    • Ethnicity: White
    • My gym: Downtown or James Center Y
    • Weight training: 4 times per week
      90 minutes per session
    • Cardio training: 7 times per week
      30 minutes per session
    • Sports I like: Basketball, Bodybuilding, Cycling, Football (American), Golf, Hiking, Kayaking, Kickboxing, Martial arts, Sailing, Skiing, Soccer, Surfing, Swimming, Tennis, Volleyball, Weight training, Wrestling
    • Other sports I like:
    • HIV status: HIV -
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    First off, I am 55 and pics are current. I, like anyone, love compliments, but it's genetics and I haven't done anything to assist, other than never smoked, only drink socially except sometimes wine with the right meal, and although I love the sun, I don't go overboard. Also, young at heart and that probably helps the most. If you think I do look 51 or maybe even older, simply ignore this first paragraph. Ha! Have a great sense of humor, strange at times, and like that a lot in others.

    At 29, I was diagnosed with genetic CAD (coronary artery disease) as had my Mom, Dad, and Sis. I won't bore you with the details, but I do not let it define me, although it's tried many times to. Shit happens and you either give up or keep on moving, and I choose the latter. About 9 years ago, I was forced onto disability by my doctor(s) and that sucked but I deal with it. Most say you'd never know to look at me that anything was wrong and it's pretty true I guess, but my endurance is a lot less than "normal". Also, I tend to push myself way pass what I should, but I'm living life, not drifting through it. About 4 years ago, after gaining up to my highest weight of 272, I busted ass and went to the gym, watched my carb intake and ate a bit better and got down to a muscular 185 in about 3 months. My only weight issue has never been food but inactivity which my heart issue lends to. I love being active in mind body and soul, and don't get me wrong, I love my chill time too. As positive-thinking a person as I am, if I get around and hang out with negative and unmotivated people, I get caught up in it and get in a rut. But I tend to identify it eventually and do what has to be done. This has happened in the last year and half and I am back up to 260. But, it's time to get off my ass again and get the job done. Just had a physical this month (Dec '10) and other than heart issue, I am 100% healthy. My one issue had to be the BIG one and genetic. But, trust me, I will die doing something I love, that's for sure, and not sitting on my ass.

    I am a member at the Downtown Y, and Golds Gym (Willow Lawn & Fan) but also bought a Weider Total Bodyworks 5000 for home (much like a Total Gym, but better, in my opinion and on Amazon was about $135 with free shipping). Once I get going I am good to go and dedicated, but I definitely would be up for having a buddy to train some with. Locally near where I live in West End (Legacy@Mayland) would be great. Even if just some encouragement for each other or sharing tips and spotting, etc.. We can run through a routine at my place on the machine or if it's a good motivation match, hit the gym. Free any time of day or evening.

    I'm a pretty nice guy, probably too nice, or so I've been told. Before I call a person a friend, I have to know it and feel it. And once I do, they tend to be real true friend for life. I do not react well to games but at the same time I understand shyness and people trying to figure out other people that are not as communicative as myself.

    I was in the IT field when I had to quit, but I wouldn't call myself techy or a nerd, although I possess some of those qualities. I love sports but, as with most, I don't get to participate as much as I'd want to, mostly due to heart issues, but also time and convenience. However, if you wanna throw down for a wrestling match in the middle of the floor suddenly, I'd go for it. I love camping, hiking, beach, mountains, biking (road and mtn) travel, arts, volunteering, reading, movies, dinner out, dinner in. I am a great cook and excellent at healthy meals. I am not much of a sweet or junk food eater, but an occasional one is cool. I love water and drink gallons of it.

    I am a very adventurous guy and way too many interests to list. I can tell you that if you bring up a subject, I'd probably be interested in it to some level.

    Guys I'm Looking To Meet

    Definitely looking for a workout bud to train some with (see above).

    Friends are always cool. As far as relationships, my mantra is that you can't make those happen, they just happen. So, see how it goes. I have had two major ltr in my life, one for 12 years and one for 5 years and although we called it quits, they are both my very best friends. So obviously, I do not take "love" lightly either.

    As far as sexually, I am a very sexual person, but also very picky. While I have a variety of "types" I like, it really depends on the guy. Same goes for what I'd be "into" with them. In other words, it'd be hard to wrap me up and slip me in a specific slot. And guys, it's about attraction (not just physical), so do not take it personal, I don't. I have met a few guys in my life that I thought physically were...well...gods lol....but they got ugly real quick either with a lack of personality, or no humorous side, or just by asshole to people, which I do not tolerate...of course, unless they do something to deserve it. I have also met some not so "god-like" guys that ended up being some amazing people, and I feel honored to know them and call them friends.

    I love a guy in plain white t-shirt and shorts or jeans. I am definitely more into a guy that wears Fruit of the Loom or Hanes boxerbriefs or briefs or thermals when it's cold or a jockstrap...than ones that wear designer panties.


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