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Amor vincit Omnia
June 2009 Lookin' proud, but of what? 05/2009 June, 2009. New haircut! 03/2009 You wanna piece of me...huh...huh???? Athens, Greece, 2009. 05/2009 On tour Wide, white tie....WUT THE HELL WUZ I THINKING???? I hate suits and ties.....I'd rather go naked! As nude as one can be! Lol! Somewhere... BOOOOOOO!

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Member since: 06/01/08

Last active: 11/18/09

Profile updated: 11/06/09

Direct link: http://www.realjock.com/TomiR1

Age: 29

Location: Helsinki, Southern Finland, Finland

Relationship Status: Monogamous Relationship

Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Hookup, Training Buddies, Online Chat

MY STATS AND INFO

Build: Muscular

Height: 6' 3''

Weight:

Waist: 32 inches

Chest:

Arms:

Hair color: Black

Eye color: Blue

Ethnicity: White

My gym: Gold's 24/7, Home

Weight training:

Cardio training:

Sports I like: Boxing, Cycling, Kickboxing, Martial arts, Running, Sailing, Skating, Skiing, Snowboarding, Soccer, Surfing, Swimming, Tennis, Triathlon, Weight training, Volleyball, Wrestling, Rowing

Other sports I like: Krav Maga (level 3) teach it also, Nude wrestling (oiled, on a waterbed with no sheets on..), Beach volley.

HIV status: HIV -

Safer sex?: Always

ABOUT ME



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-Info of gay bars, clubs and restaurants in Helsinki: (copy and paste to your addressbar)

www.finnguide.fi/finlandbars/nightlife_venues.asp?cat=1&t=4

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My motto: 'You can see clearly only with your heart. What is truly important is invisible to the eyes'
(A quote from 'Le Petit Prince' by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry)

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"...Before you can read me, you've got to learn how to see me!
I say:
Free your mind and the rest will follow.
Be colorblind, don't be so shallow....."

I was born and raised in Northern Finland, in Rovaniemi. Moved to Helsinki to study and work at the age of 16. Started working as a model a year before, at the same year my parents divorced. My dad is finnish and my mom is greek, from Crete.
At school I was teased all the time because of my foreign looks and for my accent, that's one of the reasons I wanted to continue my studies in Helsinki. Needed a fresh start with a chance to live my life as myself, without the burden of previous experiences at school and without the small-town pressure among other traumatic events. They couldn't kill me, only made me stronger.
So, now you know how my life was as a kid, at least some parts of it. If you continue reading, you'll learn more of me, if you're interested enough.

>>>>>>NOT A CAMMER>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

At first I apologize beforehand, if some of my messages, IMs or forum posts seem offending or blunt,....english is my 3rd language of 7, finnish and greek being on the top 2. Misinterpretations, grammar mistakes, etc. may and will happen, you can count on that! Lol! I'm not here to purpously hurt anyone's feelings, quite the opposite. Hope y'all remember that. Basically I'm a nice guy to know. Feel free to ask wtf I mean, I'm doing the same all the time.

Yes, as to an answer to many questions....I have been a model, since I was just a kid, 15 yrs old. Stopped last spring ( 2008) , runways, shows, photoshoot sessions, being on cover of mags or catalogues...or on pages of them mostly, constant traveling...not as glorious life as most would think. Hard work. Frustration, exhaustion, losing the touch on real life....etc...13 yrs of that + studying, even I have limits. And the reason why I do not look like a stereotype of a blue eyed, blond Scandinavian is because I'm 50/50 Greek/Finnish (Oops, sorry, already mentioned that). And no, I do not shave or wax my bodyhair (only trim pubes and shave armpits) I'm naturally smooth, despite of my mediterranean genes (Greek guys are usually quite hairy...).
If you like Greek cuisine, especially Cretan, welcome to my home, I'm an expert (my mom and my grandma have taught me). I'll make you a dinner you won't forget. Dessert will be served separately in my bedroom ;-)

******still not a cammer******

Thank God I studied at the same time...finished high school, continued to achieve degrees from College; RN (ER,OR,ICU) to Int'l Univ.degreee of an NP ( Nurse Practitioner) Damned proud to be one! And work now as a head nurse of a surgical clinic and the trauma unit of a exclusive private hospital in Helsinki. At my age!!!!! Over achiever, I admit. AND YES heard /read all the jokes about being a GREAT HEAD NURSE...Lol!


Yes, I'm 100% gay, but still a man. You don't find me screaming after gayrights at gaypride demonstrations waving a rainbow-flag, impersonating a woman or drinking pink coctails with my little finger pointing up and talking girltalk. I am a man and act like one. And I prefer guys who are the same.


/////STOP ASKING FOR CAM2CAM J/Os! PLEASE!//////
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WAIT FOR HIM....

Wait for the guy, who thinks you're beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who stays awake just to watch you sleep.

Wait for the guy, who kisses your cheek, who wants to show you off to the world when you're wearing sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Wait for the guy, who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you, and how lucky he is to have you.

Wait for the guy, who carries you in his arms when you’re sick or tired.

Wait for the guy, who turns to his friends and proudly says:... "That's him!"


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You Are An ISFJ

The Nurturer

You have a strong need to belong, and you very loyal.
A good listener, you excel at helping others in practical ways.
In your spare time, you enjoy engaging your senses through art, cooking, and music.
You find it easy to be devoted to one person... a partner who you do special things for.

In love, you express your emotions through actions.
Taking care of someone is how you love them. And you do it well!

At work, you do well in a structured environment. You complete tasks well and on time.
You would make a good interior designer, chef, or child psychologist.

How you see yourself: Competent, dependable, and detail oriented

When other people don't get you, they see you as: Boring, dominant, and stuck in a rut
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Your dating personality profile:

Liberal - Politics matters to you, and you aren't afraid to share your left-leaning views. You would never be caught voting for a conservative candidate.
Romantic - You know exactly how to melt your date's heart. Romance comes naturally to you and is an important component of any relationship you have.
Big-Hearted - You are a kind and caring person. Your warmth is inviting, and your heart is a wellspring of love.
Your date match profile:

Funny - You consider a good sense of humor a major necessity in a date. If his jokes make you laugh, he has won your heart.
Romantic - You need someone with a traditional understanding of romance. A true romantic is a must-have in any potential date.
Athletic - You aren't looking for a couch potato. You seek someone who is active and who keeps his body in top shape.
Your Top Ten Traits

1. Liberal
2. Romantic
3. Big-Hearted
4. Funny
5. Athletic
6. Adventurous
7. Wealthy/Ambitious
8. Religious
9. Outgoing
10. Sensual
Your Top Ten Match Traits

1. Funny
2. Romantic
3. Athletic
4. Practical
5. Outgoing
6. Religious
7. Adventurous
8. Sensual
9. Big-Hearted
10. Conservative

Take the Online Dating Profile Quiz at Dating Diversions
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What Superhero would you be?
Your Result: Spiderman
 

Like Spiderman, you are cautious and aware of danger. You like science and fear rejection, inadequacy, and loneliness. You would have powers but you would also like to use your intelligence to outsmart opponents.

Wonder Woman
 
Superman
 
Batman
 
Invisible Woman
 
Marvel girl
 
Aquaman
 
Mystique
 
What Superhero would you be?
Quiz Created on GoToQuiz

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Your Personality is Very Rare (ESFCP)



Your personality type is playful, charming, open minded, romantic, loyal, caring and energetic.

Only about 5% of all people have your personality, including 9% of all women and 5% of all men

You are Extroverted, Sensing, Feeling, Caring and Perceiving.

How Rare Is Your Personality?


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You Are a Natural Flirt

Believe it or not, you're a really effective flirt.
And you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting.
Your attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt.
And the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!

What Kind of Flirt Are You? - http://www.tinyurl.com/2knls4
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Ehem......so I'm a gay genius....is that good or bad thing? I'm a masculine kinda guy, a real macho (at least I'd like to think so, lol!) damn it! Lol!
Wanna find out your GayQ? Then click on my pink result and follow instructions, it's kinda fun!
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Take the quiz:
What is Your Personality Profile?
You are a Giver! Givers put a lot of effort and enthusiasm into their relationships. To some extent, the giver defines themself by the closeness and authenticity of their interpersonal relationships, and are highly invested in the business of relationships. They have very good people skills, and are very affectionate and considerate. They're also warmly affirming and nurturing. They excel at bringing out the best in others, and warmly supporting them. They expect responding affirmation from their relationships, although they have a problem asking for it. When a situation calls for it, the giver may become very sharp and critical. After having made their point they will return to their natural, warm selves. They may have a tendency to smother their loved ones, but are highly valued for their genuine warmth and caring natures. They are naturally compatible with: idealists and artists.
Take the quiz

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I am 62% gay.
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I'm a Talent!

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You're a risk-taker, and you follow your passions. You're determined to take on the world and succeed on your own terms. Whether in the arts, science, engineering, business, or politics, you fearlessly express your own vision of the world. You're not afraid of a fight, and you're not afraid to bet your future on your own abilities. If you find a job boring or stifling, you're already preparing your resume. You believe in doing what you love, and you're not willing to settle for an ordinary life.

Talent: 59%
Lifer: 33%
Mandarin: 56%

Take the Talent, Lifer, or Mandarin quiz.



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You Are Extremely Sexually Powerful


Your sexual power is obvious - you don't do anything to hide your sexuality.

In fact, if there's such a thing as a person with too much sexual power, it's you.

Your life and thoughts are dominated by sex. And while it's good to be sexually liberated, you're starting to have a one track mind.

You don't always have to use your sexual power. There's more to human interaction than getting naked!

Are You Sexually Powerful?



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AMOR VINCIT OMNIA - Love Conquers All:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. Love conquers all.
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WHAT I KNOW OF LIFE....

Don't give less, and don't settle for less. Be happy with your lot in life, or work to change it. I know you can do anything if you try, and keep trying. No one is perfect, mistakes are expected. Our mistakes give us character, if you aren't making mistakes then you aren't living up to your full potential. When things don't go your way, look for what you could have done different, because that's the only thing you fully have control over.


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You Are Cyclops



Dedicated and responsible, you will always remain loyal to your cause.

You are a commanding leader - after all, you can kill someone just by looking at them.



Power: force beams from your eyes

Which of the X-Men Are You?

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Something to Ponder:
Love is the greatest emotional sensation one can find
Sex is the greatest physical experience one can have
Headspace is the greatest mental journey one can take

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GUYS I'M LOOKING TO MEET

Looking for loyal friends, down-to-earth guys. Also TRUSTWORHTY guys capable of loving me as I am, BF or even husband, if possible. I believe in monogamy. AND Please be sane!

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DEFINATELY NOT INTO promise-breakers, cheaters or the unfaithfull ones! Burnt my fingers far too many times, too many fresh wounds and scars in my heart still waiting to be healed...

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Testimonial left on 11/5/2009
As the rising sun crosses the flickering speckled water so does thy love. With every morning and every night my love grows stronger. For the only entity between us is the large vast waters, separating the masses. You own my heart, my love, my soul. You keep it safe and in lock and key within your heart. We are one, we are forever, we are absolute.
Testimonial left on 9/11/2009
Lets see...... You are absolutely stunning and and completely and utterly thoughtful. Your smile is like the sun glistening on the flickering water at dusk. It lights up the see to guild your lost lover back to you whomever he may be. You should be cherished and love all the same as you are the type of guy that deserves the best that everyone has to offer.
Testimonial left on 8/19/2009
um... TomiR is Extremely Sexually Powerful! He's a Nurturer. And he's Cyclops! XD. I know I know. I just reiterated the results of the quizzes on his profile. LOL. Don't be self-conscious being Finnish-Greek. You're the sum of the best of two cultures. :)
Testimonial left on 7/27/2009
Hei Tomi! Oletko edelleen jenkeis? Vastaisit joskus mun puheluihin......HALUAN SUT! Vai ootko vielaki umpirakasrunut Joshiin? Vaihtaisit muhun!
Testimonial left on 7/6/2009
You're pretty damn super cute also. Would love to chat with you more.
Testimonial left on 6/29/2009
Don't let the pictures fool you. Underneath the model good looks is anything but a stereotypical shallow model personality, instead you'll find a sensitive, intelligent person.
Testimonial left on 6/23/2009
Hey sexy miss u xo Patrik
Testimonial left on 6/8/2009
Hang in there, and don't forget to put yourself first once in a while!
Testimonial left on 4/27/2009
I see you as the kind of man who is not afraid to show his feelings and thats why i like in a man.I like you because I feel that you are the kind of man I would spend the rest of my life with.
Testimonial left on 4/25/2009
I can testify that he's the best looking, most hung stud here. Say yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Testimonial left on 4/22/2009
You are an amazing person! Don't ever forget it!
Testimonial left on 4/15/2009
This guy is something really special.
Testimonial left on 4/10/2009
Hey mr. SNARKY! :)
Testimonial left on 4/6/2009
Hey hottie.. hope you had a great weekend.. what's going on w/ you!?
Testimonial left on 2/23/2009
Thank you for the chat tonight. I look forward to more and getting to hang out... Take care
Testimonial left on 2/11/2009
Thanks Tomi! You're a permanent high scorer in every way!
Testimonial left on 2/3/2009
thanx for the advice - am already planning: in pre-med school @ college
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Testimonial left on 1/23/2009
Hey My Finnish Lova!!! Good to hear from you.... I really miss our chats too!!! Come to aus already hehe... And I would love you to bump into me on the beach in my aussie bums haha I can't say I would behave myself :P hehe.... Anyway good to hear all is well and talk soon mr Miss you heaps!!! xoxo Patrik P.s I know as if my parents didnt teach me anthing!!!
Testimonial left on 1/22/2009
Hey there ;)
Testimonial left on 1/19/2009
Hey there stud, I hope your having a wonderful 09!
Testimonial left on 1/3/2009
we will cross that bridge when we get to it
Testimonial left on 12/28/2008
Tomi is gracious, personable, clearly a hard worker and good looking to boot (don't worry, I know you're taken;)). What an all-arounder!
Testimonial left on 12/11/2008
This guy is so sweet. Anyone would be lucky to have him.
Testimonial left on 11/18/2008
This man has made me the happiest person in the world.... he has spent hours listening to me whine, complain or just carry on yet only has found joy in my words. He has peered into the depths of my soul and seen the heartache and pain that is my life and found only love.... the love I hide from the world yet have for it, and the love I have for him that grows with each passing hour- and that has filled me with happiness and joy, bringing a completion to my life I never found possible before. He knows all my weaknesses and faults, yet covers them with his perfection. And men he is perfect- he has every quality and trait a man, a true man, has. Strength of conviction. Love that overwhelms the soul. Joy that permeates the corners of every heart he touches. Compassion towards those less fortunate. Humor and a smile to brighten any day, no matter how bad. There is so much to say about this man, Tomi, that I could go on and on. But the best thing I can say is he loves me, even during the bad times.
Testimonial left on 10/25/2008
Tomi is the man! Tommy
Testimonial left on 10/21/2008
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Testimonial left on 8/19/2008
Cute, hot and with attitude what else can you ask in a guy
Testimonial left on 6/3/2008
Testimonial left on 3/25/2008 This man has made me the happiest person in the world.... he has spent hours listening to me whine, complain or just carry on yet only has found joy in my words. He has peered into the depths of my soul and seen the heartache and pain that is my life and found only love.... the love I hide from the world yet have for it, and the love I have for him that grows with each passing hour- and that has filled me with happiness and joy, bringing a completion to my life I never found possible before. He knows all my weaknesses and faults, yet covers them with his perfection. And men he is perfect- he has every quality and trait a man, a true man, has. Strength of conviction. Love that overwhelms the soul. Joy that permeates the corners of every heart he touches. Compassion towards those less fortunate. Humor and a smile to brighten any day, no matter how bad. There is so much to say about this man, Tomi, that I could go on and on. But the best thing I can say is he is mine and I love him, today, tomorrow, and for the rest of my life... I love you Tomi.... your joshie