Italian-American Fitness Trainer. I specialize in teaching guys and gals which are the best exercise to use for their body type. I take the mystery out of weight training by using my skills in biomechanics, yoga and pilates. I make weight training into a science. No wasted time in the gym!

I've had a few plays produced and am currently working/studying feature films.

UPDATE: Now obsessed with Country Western Dancing!
2 step, Waltz, East Coast Swing, Barn Dance, Line Dances, Shadow...I do it all!
It is the most functional activity I've ever done with a group of men. (and some women) LESS cattiness. At Sundance, (in SF) everyone has to dance with whoever asks. Gets rid of the clique nature of human interaction. I love it.
If you are in SF, and want to dance, let me know.

I will NOT date/search/whatever for a guy that I think LOOKS right for me. 'looks' are important...at least for a while...who knows how your point of view of their looks change as you get to know the person? This all takes practice and patience.

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit."
-Aristotle

I used to say: I'll go by 'chemistry'...that undefinable element that my body(senses)seems to know better than my eyes. However, lately, I've come to learn that 'chemistry' is another way of saying:
'I don't know what IT is, but it works and I don't care anymore than that/don't want to fix it if it ain't broke.' This strikes me as lazy. Why?

A sense of humor is a good way to take life seriously.
Tired of standard gay fare.
It doesn't work for me. Like to scratch the surface and see what really makes you and I tick!

For initial contact, 'chemistry' is exciting, motivating and seems enough to move forward. Possibly. For longevity, chemistry is not enough.

"The purpose of life, after all, is to live it. To reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience."
-Eleanor Roosevelt

If we stop the search at 'chemistry', (DEFINITION: sexual attraction) then we cannot learn for the next time. Learn what? Answer: if this guy does NOT work out, and it usually doesn't, what can I learn to be more satisfied the next time. Wanna chat on this?: Feel free to message me. I've done some research...
MUSTS: Empathic, caring, considerate guys.
PLEASE NO IM's UNLESS YOU HAVE LOADED A PHOTO!!

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