- Vote him Man of the Day
- Member since: 01/04/12
- Last active: More than a week ago
- Age: 36
- First location: Washington, District Of Columbia, United States
- Second location: Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
- Travel location: Dublin, Dublin, Ireland
- Relationship Status: Single
- Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Hookup
My Stats and Info
- Build: Athletic
- Height: 5' 9''
- Weight: 175 lbs
- Waist: 31 inches
- Hair color: Black
- Eye color: Brown
- Ethnicity: Mixed Race
- My gym: VIDA
- Weight training: 4 times per week
60 minutes per session
- Cardio training: 4 times per week
30 minutes per session
- Sports I like: Baseball, Basketball, Bodybuilding, Hiking, Hockey, Snowboarding, Surfing, Swimming, Volleyball, Weight training
- Other sports I like:
- HIV status: HIV +
- Safer sex?:
I'm 32, have what I consider to be average good looks, masculine but not because I act masculine, educated, fit/stay active, and a major technology, science fiction, book reading, video game playing, anime watching nerd who loves to cook/eat amazing food. I'm a big and little brother to four others, uncle to four more, and proud father of the most handsome solid black pure bred German Shepard there ever was.
In my spare time I enjoy volunteering, long walks on the beach at sunset, spending time with my nieces and nephews, and reading porn to the blind.
Ok, that's a load of crap, in my spare time I enjoying sleeping as much as possible (naps are awesome), drinking aged scotch neat (usually before a nap), watching romcoms (romantic comedies), eating Chinese food (usually while watching romcoms), and wanking it to porn or having my brains fucked out (usually after a nap, some scotch, during or while still watching a romcom, with some Chinese to celebrate after).
I'm open about being HIV positive and that I serosort (only date and have sex with other healthy none-drug using poz men) so please don't get pissy when I tell you I'm not interested or we can only be friends because you're neg and didn't get past the pics in my profile. Some of us spend the time filling these things out to avoid avoidable situations like that.
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
Attractions? I don't have an ideal 'type'. I learned early in life that it isn't the packaging but the product that matters. With that being said there are a few things I look for and find attractive in men:
a great smile
solid sense of humor (meaning you can laugh at yourself as easily as you can laugh at others)
thinks a good passionate kiss is the sexiest thing on the planet (because it is)
doesn't use drugs or PNPs
men at least my age or older (no kids/twinks please)
stays in shape/active but doesn't obsess about maintaining the perfect body
loves to hug his guy from behind
understands the difference between romance and lust
has a career
is secure in his sexuality (meaning he isn’t scared of sex, vanilla or kink)
loves real dogs (I have a real dog, and by 'real dog' I mean anything with a body weight over 50 lbs)
loves good food/travel and
is a doer
I find it comical how many guys try to date me but constantly wait for me to tell them what to. You're not asking me out or taking me on a date if all you do is ask me out but I have to pick the time, place, and activities mate. A little chivalry and creativity never killed anyone…not to my knowledge anyway.
So word of advice: Don't wait, DO! It's much easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. Unless we're talking rape. Rape is never cool. So don't do rape.
I think I’ve rambled on enough.