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- Member since: 07/04/14
- Last active: This week
- Age: 53
- First location: Atlanta, Georgia, United States
- Second location: Los Angeles, California, United States
- Travel location: New Orleans, Daskasan, United States
- Relationship Status: Single
My Stats and Info
- Build: Slim
- Height: 6' 2''
- Weight: 180 lbs
- Waist: 33 inches
- Chest: 42 inches
- Hair color: Red
- Eye color: Blue
- Ethnicity: White
- My gym: home/street
- Weight training: 4 times per week
25 minutes per session
- Cardio training: 2 times per week
45 minutes per session
- Sports I like:
- Other sports I like: Caveat, sorry:
In middle school and high school, I haaaaa-ated sports. Didn't get into being fit until college, lifting weights, etc. Loved PE in college because I could take badminton and volleyball at Barnard (still an all-girls' college) and had my own locker room.
The only guy in the class.
Would like to try crossfit, or get back to yoga, which I really liked.
- HIV status: HIV -
- Safer sex?: Always
I'll dispense with the foto-challenged-ness off the top, by saying I've let myself get out of shape, am addressing it, but don't want to strip until I feel better about how I'm lookin'. 
I'm an artist, though it has taken many forms. Trained as an architect , only got license very recently, and doing a mid-life 2nd Masters in Digital Design and Fabrication, a way of making things that I played with for many years, long before the tech arrived to do it, so I am lucky to finally have a huge toolbox of virtual and robotic toys at my disposal. Recent work has been much more engineering-ish, but with a high degree of design strategy and artisanship that (Sorry!) you don't get in engineering so much. Architects are just a different breed.
My other two main pursuits have been writing and acting. Wrote in a newsroom for a few years at the dawn of cable, then returned after 9/11 to a neighboring venue (hint). Took a lot of ironic pride in the huge shift in technology, but the corporate disenfranchisement of journalism kinda made me puke; however, there were still so many colleagues who were great, talented, and down-to-earth folk. So it was seven additional years, but not wasted. Also have written for a lot of gay rags back in the day when there were those (or when I still went out; maybe they're still there). And... I like to leave carnage, garbage and snark on FB  like there's no tomorrow.
As for acting, this August would have marked ten years since doing anything on stage or on set. As Atlanta explodes with film and television production, I just got plumb sick of all my old buddies booking like crazy, so I says, "Got damn, I'm throwing my hat back in the ring, y'all!" One of my first classes was an on-camera comedy class; teacher and I, we laughed that we were both in that last show in 2004: a truly tragic production of The Scottish Play. Tragic, get it?
Secondary to those above, I've done some painting and would love to get back into that, which wouldn't be had at all, just take doin' it. Some solid ideas and material stand a-waitin'. Also, living in New Orleans for three years post-K, I got totally addicted to costuming and have produced some really unique items, all of then either obsessive, ironic or both. LOVE Mardi Gras and Carnival season, probably more than any other day/season of the year.
My idea of exercise is not so group-competitive, as it is solitary: bike, hike, but when I have had gym partners, I have really loved that (more collaborative, less competitive). Gym partner: always the best.
Well, that's it, y'all. If I think of more clever things to say, fret not, I will.
 Footnoting, since I said "dispense": ...Comes easier for some than others, though I don't besmirch the latter folk. For those guys for whom that's an immediate filter, I respect that completely. Giving what you want to get is implicitly part of the game (sure thought so myself when younger, so...); and if same folk think that not playing fair amounts to trolling for titillation, then I cop to it. Would cop as well to some of the really prurient remarks I often leave on some guys photos, which may be really unfair; but I'm a dyed-in-the-wool Scorpio, so the line between clever and carnal gets kinda fuzzy sometimes. But in my defense, Jesus, there are SO many Hot Guys on this site, I mean fuck me, as anyone would have to admit. (Which is, of course, a Good thing.)
 The best-trained strategizers (sp?) and collaborators out there.
 ...which I think should be converted into a non-profit or publicly-traded utility. Enough people have made enough money, already. Stop the Suggested Posts!
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
I think that guys are the most beautiful creatures. Though I am very sexual, I go for long periods of celibacy, but think that being intimate with other guys... nothing surpasses it. And I even count the gym/bar/spa encounters, which were more a part of my youth.
I like handsome men, and I am a muscle-worshipper, though body hotness can take a lot of forms. I'm usually right at my melting point with guys my height and "it goes down from there" as they get taller; but by the same token I find guys on the opposite end of the scale really, really attractive.
Aside from looks, there's different things that will attract me about guys, that is, make me want to be around them, spend more time and get to know them. Kindness covers so much ground. I also like very clever people, smart people, but a sense of humor goes a long way, as do dudes who just get a genuine enjoyment out of everything.
But I do like a guy who is very funny, or at least appreciates it. Beyond that, I'm embarrassed I'm so easy to please, but for me it's just a guy who is cute (to me), clever, makes me chubby and enjoys being companions.
For myself, I'd say I used to be very handsome and "pretty boy" and should have been a model because I had a shot at it, and it would have been shitloads of fun; now, I am kinda holding onto the handsome, but the approach of 50 takes the smoothness out of a lot of guys' sails, though I should be more grateful. As for build, my really narrow frame makes it hard to carry a good bod, but if I got back up above 190, solidly, I'd be killer. Something to aim to.
If I think of any grand causes or deal breakers (unlikely), I will list. OH: can't stand people who go on, and on, and ON, and never get to the point, right? (Don't you just HATE that?)
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