Yes, I know I have been lame and haven't updated my profile for a long time. Here it is: I come across as very serious, mature, and intense. Behind the facade I am actually a chill guy who likes to goof off and be anything but serious. I am reserved vs outgoing. It takes me a while to become friends with someone, but once I do I am very loyal and generous. My career comes first and everything else comes second... hey, at least I am honest about my priorities. I work long hours - partly by choice, as I enjoy what I do. I am a straight forward, no b.s. person who would rather have a tough conversation vs. let issues/problems fester.

Been an athlete my entire life. The recession has given me some free time to work out - not much but more free time is better than less. So I have been able to put on some more muscle... pretty happy about that.... pretty happy I still have a good paying job too! I strongly believe that: unless you test yourself, you stagnate. Unless you try to go way beyond what you've been able to do before, you won't develop and grow. When you go for it 110%, when you don't have the fear of "what if I fail", that's when you learn.

I think NYC is the best place to live although I think Vegas is awesome and may want to live there some day. I have been lucky to make some awesome friends and work with some very talented professionals.

I like straight looking and acting frat boy types - All American, apple pie eating boys. Athletic but not body builder style muscular. You must be discreet, honest and trust worthy. I like guys who are outgoing, energetic, goofy and don't take life too seriously. I generally like hanging out with guys who are younger than me because they help keep me young (gotta keep up with the youngsters) as they are less jaded by life/work. I am a no drama person - so if you are needy, high maintenance, a diva, or a drama queen don't waste what little free time I have. You people know who you are. Also you can't be a 'knuckle-head' aka dumb. I am pretty intellectual and need someone to match my mental pace - college educated, well read, well traveled etc. Looks are definitely important but that there are lots of hot bodies around in NYC so you have to have some mental horsepower included in your package.

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