cubbie036 | Cubbie in Castro

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  • cubbie036
  • Dec 14, 2017 - 7:07 PM


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    About Me

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    • Member since: 07/27/06
    • Last active: More than a week ago
    • Age: 42
    • First location: San Francisco, California, United States
    • Second location: San Jose, California, United States
    • Relationship Status: Single
    • Looking for: Friends, Hookup, Training Buddies, Online Chat
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    My Stats and Info

    • Build: Muscular
    • Height: 5' 9''
    • Weight: 198 lbs
    • Waist: 33 inches
    • Chest: 42 inches
    • Arms: 16 inches
    • Hair color: Black
    • Eye color: Brown
    • Ethnicity: White
    • My gym: Golds SOMA/Castro & Apple Fitness
    • Weight training: 5 times per week
      60 minutes per session
    • Cardio training: 5 times per week
      30 minutes per session
    • Sports I like: Bodybuilding, Hockey, Kickboxing, Martial arts, Rugby, Sailing, Soccer, Weight training, Kayaking
    • Other sports I like: UFC- Ultimate Fighter Championship
      MMA - Mixed Martial Arts
    • HIV status: HIV +
    • Safer sex?: Sometimes


    I've been in CA since Sept '03 I am always looking to make new friends. At this time I am not really looking for a relationship as I'm very focused on other areas of my life, thou not ruling it out :-) I am a very masculine, romantic, playful, and energetic man. I love the outdoors, the beach, working out, hiking, and to laughing a lot. Enjoy sports like rugby, hockey, mixed martial arts. Love going on motorcycle rides on weekends. I also sing with a small ensemble group in SF, baritone (not soprano... wise-guy). I grew up in Massachusetts and have the cutting smart-ass mouth to prove it (100% east coast). I am honest almost to a fault. I am a family centered guy and have a great relationship with my parents and brothers. I am not really into drugs and don't smoke. I have an edge to me and I'm not ashamed of it. I am very self aware. If you want to know more just ask. My nickname "Cubbie" is from my Fraternity Days as a Sigma Nu, and interestingly enough has nothing to do with my Cub-like looks, just a coincidence.

    Guys I'm Looking To Meet

    What I look for in general: I am looking to meet honest guys. Men that hold integrity to the highest level. Guys that know how to communicate thoughts and feelings with out fear of judgment; that respect other's options regardless of whether they agree with them. I don't believe in playing games or beating around the bush, so I like men who are direct and expect the same back. If you can't take my blunt approach then we wouldn't likely get along anyway. If you're looking to be chased don't look at me to pursue. If I like you, you'll know it. If you like me let me know. Why screw around, chasing is for cats and dogs, not men. If I just want to be friends please respect that. Chemistry is a two-way street. Trust me I've been in situations where I was more "into" a guy. All I can say is that he knew how I felt. (hope that didn't sound conceited, just being honest.)

    In a relationship I'd like a man who does his best to accept me for who I am and doesn't try to change me. Yet he is not afraid to point out things that will help me be a better man and wants the same in return. One that will challenge me to be more than I am. I am very affectionate and like PDA (Public Displays of Affection). I need someone who is comfortable with that and good is at reciprocating. A man that can express himself as well verbally as he can physically. A guy that can give me a quick look from across a crowded room and sees only the two of us at that moment. Someone who is playful and likes to laugh. A guy that will wrestle me to the ground for awhile, then gives me a kiss and walks away. One who can be a shoulder to cry on, a voice of reason when I'm being ridiculous and/or over reacting, and is not scared by emotion. He knows that sometimes it's okay not to have "words" for a situation, that a hug sometimes has more impact. A guy who has a gentle touch. He knows to give me a massage when I need it the most, yet don't ask. A man that knows there is a difference between fucking and making love; and that both are good. Wants to explore sexual boundaries while being respectful and understanding. To be honest, I don't know if I'm built for monogamy. I do feel that the topic is one that is always up for discussion. It is the two to decide what will work. I don't believe that gay relationships fall under the same rules as straight ones. Masculinity is very important to me in a relationship. I generally go for guys my age, older (mid-30's to early 40's), that are usually taller and more muscular than me (Musclebears / Football Jocks = WOOF). I love muscles, facial hair, chest and body hair (lots of it), tattoos, and piercings. Not looking for perfection, lord knows I'm not, but in the confines of a relationship someone who actively takes care of themselves is very important to me. I'm a sucker for deep voices and accents. VERY IMPORTANT- A man that knows how to kiss! Not the tongue bath approach. The "if I had one last breath in my dying body I'd give it to you kiss." ;-) At this point in my life I have a good idea of what works for me and make no apologies for it! Maybe I'm crazy to have such expectations, I'm okay with that. While I would really like to eventually be in a relationship, I'm content to just do my thing. The right guy at the right time. The one thing I ask for above all else, is that you be yourself! if you spend your life acting, how do you know who you "really" are?! and moreover ... how I am supposed to know?


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