SWM, 49, 6', approx. 218lbs., Salt/Pepper Brn, blu. Athletic.
I'm a graphic artist by profession. Fine arts/traditionally trained (pencil, pen-n-ink, brush, etc.) I do Computer and Traditional art, as well.

I enjoy working out. (5-6x a week) I hope you do too, because that will be a very big part of our relationship.
I am currently working with a private, professional, ex-competitive bodybuilder/trainer/nutritionist to build a bigger body.

I also like hiking, biking & volleyball. Walks along the beach, the great outdoors, et al.

I would like to find a guy, a mature, sane 18(?) to 45+ for an LTR. I would like to find a workout/life partner to be my friend, soulmate, mentor, lover, my equal.

The few guys I've dated (not many, truthfully...), all have said I was one of the nicest guys they've ever met.

I love to be active, but also enjoy cuddling, spooning, caressing while watching a movie, or talking in bed on a lazy Sunday morning, or watching a sunset on the beach (cliche, I know, sorry, I'm old-fashioned)....

Sex is GREAT, of course, but is NOT the end all, be all, of my loving a guy... in fact, I hope I can find someone that I can fall in love with after the physical attraction.
In shape, defined, muscular, yes, but smart and intelligent, absolutely.

I'm an incurable romantic.

Been told I'm a GREAT/EXCELLENT kisser. (not into wet, slobbery kisses, but those old-fashioned Hollywood kind, the kind you fall in love to...)

I love live concerts, anything from Classical, to Rock.
I love music, from the Renaissance/Baroque Eras to the Beatles. From B.B. King to Queen. Oasis to Enigma. To Journey on a Zeppelin. To jive to Jazz, to cry to the Blues. Groove to Motown and get down to 70s Funk.

I love history (specifically, anything maritime/nautical, sailing ships, etc.), almost any period.
Sci-Fi (I am a Trekker, yes, but also loose it for Battlestar Gallactica), art museums (remember, I am an artist), art galleries, sidewalk cafes, too.

I love humor & comedy, Robin Williams, Lewis Black; British comedy(i.e., Monty Python, BlackAdder, Are You Being Served?, Benny Hill, AbFab).

I totally believe that TRUST and COMMUNICATION are THE most important things in a relationship! (talking through problems is the brave thing to do, it's too easy to say, "I quit", when it gets rough...)

Oh, I am also ex-military (US Navy, 10yrs), so I know very well about discretion, (and/or being on the DL) if that is important to any active-duty military guy, so if you are interested, I welcome your inquiry or response.
Also, any student is welcome to respond as well.

But please, please, please... absolutely NO fats (If I can loose it, so can you), fems (why are some men more female than a female, WTF?????) or bears (if a guy has a fuck-gorgeous body, worked it out to perfection, why, why, cover it in a rug?????). (sorry, NOT interested...) -Todd

I'm looking for a lean/defined to muscular/defined guy, mature, sane 18(?) to 45+...
(sorry, I don't date my age, or older..... Well, that's been my mantra for a good 10 years or more. But you know something guys, this site has started to change my mind. There are some really nice, and HOT guys here, my age or older... So, let me know if you are interested, we just might....), who wants to build up his mind, now that he has built up his body. Who would help me continue to build up my body, now that I have built up my mind.

Yes, my ONE superficiality, I guess, is that I love a guy with a great in-shape, lean-to-muscular, or defined body. I LOVE definition!!! (I always have. I can't remember a time since childhood that I didn't love muscles and definition...) There's just something about a guy with a great body that gets my attention and admiration. I don't know, it could be a holdover from being an artist & loving the ancient Classical world's Ideal of a symmetrically perfect, well-defined guy... or knowing from my own feeble (LOL) workouts just what it took for him to look so good.

I am a totally masculine man. (almost all the people I've ever come out to, have all said about the same thing... "Damn, Todd, I would never have known!!!").

oh, yes, and I'm HIV- & STD-, please, you be too!

To re-iterate, I'm looking for a lean-to-muscular/defined guy, 18(?) to 45+, for an LTR.

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