I'm just a guy trying to live a decent life. A fairly driven creative type with an aggressive male streak. I yell at the TV, but I'm trying to reign that in...

I read, I pay attention, I try to be better. And I like vodka.

I have come clean about my age after going to my high school reunion, and saw what the straight version of me would have looked like now.

Big boys. Around my age. Sorry, but there is such a thing as too young and too skinny. (These days I'm really attracted to guys who look like they either want to fuck me or kill me, and haven't decided which yet.)

I like smart, sane, masculine guys who care about their bodies as well as the world around them.

Someone who wants to wrestle or teach me to box. Maybe rugby?

Someone who has a passion for something. Get excited about something and convince me that you're right.

An alpha-male, without the "asshole" part of that.

Someone I can work out with, hard, and who'll still make me do abs at the end of it.


A guy with a healthy sense of humour, some confidence and some humility. And an adventurous sexual appetite.

A decent guy who respects other people and their opinions.

And okay, I'll just say it: muscle. I don't want to sound like an asshole here, but I don't spend all that time in the gym so that you don't have to!

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