Scenario...opinions please

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    Jun 23, 2010 6:22 PM GMT
    So...i go up to a guy at this bar/club...he rejects me..kinda mean about it but i'm used to it so i was like "fine...back to my friend" over the night, I find this guy..he's cute...we talk, flirt, we go back to his place...have an amazing time. Next week, i see both the hottie and the cute guy I hooked up with at a friend's party...apparently they all know each other (small world i guess..kinda creepy).

    Now... the hottie comes up to me being all flirty and nice (mind you...he was a total jerk last week so i don't find him attractive anymore..if he was nice about it, things may have been a little different)...I ignore him...make it clear that I don't want to sleep with him, or talk to him...or really look at him....but he figures that his being persistent would pay off...i'm confused, my whole night was ruined...i go home pissed off and confused.

    What makes it worse is that that part was my last night of "freedom" before going into hermit mode for my GRRRRRR.

    So...has anyone had a similar situation???
    Why the sudden change of heart on this guy's part???
    Would you have gone home with him??

    Oh..and thanks for letting me kinda vent.

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    Jun 23, 2010 6:29 PM GMT
    Who's to say why the hottie rejected you in the first place. Perhaps he was simply having a bad night. I'm not saying you should have gone home with at the second meeting, but you could have chatted with him a bit to get a better understanding of who he might be. You definitely shouldn't have let it ruin your night.
  • Laurence

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    Jun 23, 2010 6:42 PM GMT
    Men.... you'll never work them out, so don't bother trying.

    Be a nice guy and hold your head up high, let others play games if they like but don't get involved.