Comfortable meeting someone in person from RJ?

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    Feb 05, 2008 10:13 PM GMT
    Okay, we've all met really cool people on this site and exchanged screen names, right? But how many of you actually meet these cool people in person? I've made some great internet buds but never thought about meeting them in person until lately. Of course I would never meet someone that I haven't talked to for a while and am 100% certain they're real. I know it happens often, but do you guys ever worry about it? What if they turn out to be some psycho killer? lol I think I watch to much tv icon_razz.gif

    Thanks!
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:08 PM GMT
    I am about to meet my first RJ member in a few days. I am excited. We have been talking for a long time and it will be fun to hang out together in person. I a not worried that he will be a psycho killer. Like I said we have been talking for a long time.
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:12 PM GMT
    ok, gig...come across with it...who are you meeting and will we be able to see the video on xtube or youtube? lol

    I actually met a RJer a couple weeks ago. We've talked for a LONG time and we finally decided to get off the pot, so to speak.

    It was great...we had a good time and uhh, other stuff...
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 05, 2008 11:17 PM GMT
    I have no problem meeting someone from this site if I'm inclined and comfortable in doing so. This is a great site, but there are member exceptions. I'm just glad we have so many I'd enjoying meeting.
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:17 PM GMT
    Tommy - I cant say who it is I am going to be meeting. I don't know if he want you to know. I will tell you one hint...he is on my hot list. And I would never post a video of myself on the web. I'm not that much of a slut!
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:21 PM GMT
    ok, I guess I have to respect that...but if you want ME to post the video for you, I will be happy too. Then you can pretend to be outraged.

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    Feb 05, 2008 11:22 PM GMT
    LOL. Ok I will let you know if that ever happens...
  • ShawnTX

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    Feb 05, 2008 11:25 PM GMT
    I've only met one person in real life that I met online, and I had to fly to Texas to do it! I really wasn't worried about something terrible happening since we had been talking for 9 months before I flew down. With that being said, like any normal person, a few days before I left, I thought 'what if?'

    Alas, I'm alive to tell the tale. Had a great time and I can't wait to go back.
  • ShawnTX

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    Feb 05, 2008 11:27 PM GMT
    Tommy, you asked Gig, so I'm gonna ask you. Who'd you meet?
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:30 PM GMT
    I haven't yet met anyone from RJ in person, but if any of you ever find your way to Louisville - look me up. Always willing to show someone around town and there's always cold beer in the fridge.
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:33 PM GMT
    naughtymcnaughty...TO...we met and then he took me into his tent and knew me...

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    Feb 05, 2008 11:35 PM GMT
    I'd love to meet a few guys from RJ. I think it would be awesome. Alot of people would assume it would be for sex but I say nigh. It would just be nice to meet them for the sheer pleasure of knowing that they really exsist. It's always nice to hang out with people who share the same interests and goals as you. Dare I say it's nice meeting new people because they always bring something new to the table, be it good or bad.

    Should anything else happen after meeting then that's just an added bonus but not soley expected nor suggested (but always appreciated. LOL.)
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:35 PM GMT
    I'm KIDDING!! you pervs...there is no naughtymcnaughty!

    tho that is a good name...
  • ShawnTX

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    Feb 05, 2008 11:39 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidI'm KIDDING!! you pervs...there is no naughtymcnaughty!

    tho that is a good name...


    Awww, what a let down. icon_cry.gif
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:41 PM GMT
    At the risk of sounding like a WHORE, I'm ALWAYS up for meeting new people! I mean, with the intention of NO expectations and see what happens once in person, you chemistry and all that mumbo jumbo stuff... It's always cool to add another person to your circle or notch on your belt; ok NOW I sounded like a WHORE! Ooops!
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:43 PM GMT
    you don't sound like a whore, 72...a whore takes money. you are a slut...







    (kidding icon_redface.gif)
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:45 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidyou don't sound like a whore, 72...a whore takes money. you are a slut...



    Awe thanks for having my back there Tommy!! By the way you still owe me!! icon_lol.gif THANKS man!
  • jarhead5536

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    Feb 05, 2008 11:46 PM GMT
    No problem meeting anyone here. I have been an open book, so I have nothing to hide or worry about...
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:47 PM GMT
    I owe you? what do I owe you? I showed u me naughty bits in my private pics...

    thats gotta be worth something!
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:48 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidI'm KIDDING!! you pervs...there is no naughtymcnaughty!

    tho that is a good name...


    Actually, that's a great name! You should change yours to that tommy haha
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    Feb 05, 2008 11:51 PM GMT
    Hi guys,

    Im looking forward to making some real friends that I can meet in person and hangout with. Internet buddies are geat and I have met some real cool guys who one day if im in their home town i would like to grab a drink with.

    A few good local gym buds would be cool
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    Feb 06, 2008 12:20 AM GMT
    If it's somebody I've already been talking to regularly and getting along with, I might be up for visiting them if I were in the area. I think that's decently safe to do. 'Course, it wouldn't be for sex. That's not why I talk to people on here, anyway.
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    Feb 06, 2008 12:28 AM GMT
    Most of the guys on here I click with live about 1000 miles away. I suppose if I were to psychoanalyze this I would find I'm subconsciously "not clicking" with the locals because then I don't run the risk of being disappointed or rejectedicon_lol.gif
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    Feb 06, 2008 1:16 AM GMT
    I've met enough cool guys on here that I either want to move to RJVille or else take my private jet and fly around and see them all. Oh wait, I don't own a private jet. Too bad.

    I am probably going to go hang out with a few of the guys in SF. Should be fun.

    I still think that MikeSW's idea of starting a village on a beach in Maui is a good one...

    And don't worry RBY, I get that from my friends too: "The reason you click with the ones 1000 miles away is that you're afraid of commitment!!!" Uhh. No. It's because they're really cool.

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    Feb 06, 2008 1:25 AM GMT
    I think it would be fun to live out a "Lost" scenario with RJers just to see how people would interact. I think some of us would start by wacking the people that annoyed us and blaming it on polar bears and mysterious clouds of black mist.icon_lol.gif "I totally swear to God guys(said with over the top affectation and lisp) this polar bear just came outta nowhere and ate so-and-so while he had his britches dropped to inject his deca!"