Is he a player? Rant included.

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    Jun 23, 2010 10:04 PM GMT
    So here's the bitch. There's this guy I like. He more or less likes me. LOL. He sends me mixed signals and it changes from me getting a super sweet email from him to not hearing from him at all for like 2 weeks. Even though we are not dating, I feel like a friends should communicate with each other more, and it's like 90% of the time me initiating conversation. Then I don't hear anything for awhile and I'm like okay fuck that dude, but then I get a really nice note from him. Its like that Dolly Parton song 'Here you come again' or whatever. So annoying.

    We don't live near each other, but I am going to visit him soon. Probably he is expecting me to sleep with him, but actually I'm kind of annoyed that he ignores me so much. What advice do you sluts have for me? Fuck his brains out? Hit it and quit it? Tease and leave him alone with his right hand?
  • gaydocalex

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    Jun 23, 2010 10:34 PM GMT
    If you have to ask this question then the answer is always..."He's just not into you"!!

    The faster you accept this and get over it, the better.

    There are three requirements I expect when dating somebody:

    1. Affection
    2. Consistency
    3. Humor


    All the rest is extra (ie money, brains, friends etc). It seems like he is failing in point #2.

    If you accept nothing less than the three mentioned requirements you will more likely not be disappointed.

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  • BarettaB80

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    Jun 23, 2010 10:49 PM GMT
    Classic player. Run. Don't touch his dirty dick.
  • calibro

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    Jun 24, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    why don't you talk to him instead of asking strangers what they think?
  • lozano86

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    Jun 24, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    the dude would just feed him some BS. That why

    He's a player. And your his little puppy that he gives attention to when he wants

    Get a blowjob from him then say you have to go home.

    Fuck that dude.. Sorry im kind pissed off at someone else right now lol
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    Jun 24, 2010 2:18 AM GMT
    What's up with gays and dolly parton? maybe if you have big boobs like her, he'll respond more consistently. Even those aren't real. lol ok jokes aside. if you have to iniatate everytime, he's probably not interested in you. My straight friends do that to me everytime, which means that they are not interested in me, naturally. So, I don't expect anything else from them either beside dinner once in awhile to catch up or hang out. Just that, nothing else. You should date me intead. ;) Peace out.
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    Jun 24, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    I can so relate to this - I met someone two weeks ago who was all about meeting me in person. We chatted several times with great conversations and then he just disappeared for a week. Then he re-appeared to say he was "overwhelmed" so I said alright, and decided to give him another chance. We had another great conversation and now he has disappeared again. Doesn't answer emails, or texts so my decision is to forget it. I'm not about to play games with anyone. It just sucks! icon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 24, 2010 2:27 AM GMT
    I wouldn't know if he's a player, but it seems like he's just not that into you. And yes, he probably is expecting sex, and nothing more. I say, don't do it. I've been there, and it won't make you feel any better, and certainly won't make you feel like you have the upper hand if you "hit it and quit it." But, if you can separate your emotions and get over him, then by all means, fuck his brains out and move on!
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    Jun 24, 2010 4:19 AM GMT
    I'd skip the visit to see him.
  • josephmovie

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    Jun 24, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    Say you are going to visit and don't show.
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    Jun 25, 2010 7:00 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    Listen up, junior slut !!(yes, you Kev) icon_smile.gif


    I would prefer the title of "slut-in-training" please....
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    Jun 25, 2010 7:03 AM GMT
    Thanks for all the advice, guys. I myself pretty much already knew the answer, but these last-minute mindfuck apologies always seem to reel me back in. After the last one, I even just came staight out and told him that he can be honest with me - I'm a completely rational guy. But as of now I haven't even heard from him in 2 weeks. He really is a nice guy, though. Oh well. I guess time will help.
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    Jun 25, 2010 7:04 AM GMT
    Well, as a slut here is my pennysworth.

    He is not into you. But you could always shag him to see if he's got a big willy.
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    Jun 25, 2010 7:34 AM GMT
    He's a guy who is confused on what he wants and, yes, he is sending you mixed signals. From what you've said it sounds like there is no spark which means he's probably only somewhat interested in for only one thing.

    Now that you know this you have options. You can either "hit and quit it" or just drop him like a bad habit and movie on. Ask yourself what do you have time for and the answer will come easy.

    Personally I wouldn't entertain something like this so I would let him seek his jollies else way. Who has times for those kind of games? No me and you shouldn't either.