Why Do I Have A Thing For Older Guy's?

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    Jun 24, 2010 7:12 AM GMT
    So I noticed I have a thing for older guys and I dont know why I mean I see all these hot young guys my age and yeah they are hot but when I see an older guy it turns me on,maybe because hes older and can give me protection or at least the feeling of being protected or because I know he has his stuff together

    Does this happen to anyone else or am I the only species?
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    Jun 24, 2010 2:33 PM GMT
    I can't stand guys my age or worse, younger. Even 10 years older than me is on the young side.
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    Jun 24, 2010 2:36 PM GMT
    There are many like you. Good news for me, since I like younger men. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 24, 2010 2:41 PM GMT
    Definitely not the only one. In fact I think it's somewhat common... I think older guys are hot too. It could be for so many reasons- they're generally more mature, better in bed/more in-tune to your needs sexually, and yeah, I think that whole "safety" thing does come into play. But that's where it gets too Freudian for me, and I stop talking. icon_razz.gif
  • NashRugger

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    Jun 24, 2010 2:45 PM GMT
    tonylover saidSo I noticed I have a thing for older guys and I dont know why I mean I see all these hot young guys my age and yeah they are hot but when I see an older guy it turns me on,maybe because hes older and can give me protection or at least the feeling of being protected or because I know he has his stuff together

    Does this happen to anyone else or am I the only species?

    No, you're far from the only one, and it seems to becoming much more common in the gay community.

    I'm an example, my most recent bf is 44, and the 3 before that were all 37. Yes, guys my age can be hot and all, but most don't want anything but good times and no substance. Age is just numbers anyways and it only means anything it you want it to. Hell, the guy I kinda have my eyes on right now is 44 and everything I look for in a man.

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    Jun 24, 2010 2:59 PM GMT
    When I was younger I liked older guys, but there were exceptions.

    Now I like younger guys, but there are still exceptions.

    I think this is quite common.
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    Jun 24, 2010 3:03 PM GMT
    yep, i cant stand guys my own age or around.
  • mynyun

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    Jun 24, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    I am also attracted to guys who are older than I am.
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    Jun 24, 2010 6:55 PM GMT
    Good to know im not the only one lol, yeah guys my age are so immature and still live with their parents lmfao,plus I love a guy with a hairy chest for some reason huge turn on for me =)icon_redface.gif
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:00 PM GMT
    Your profile says you are 97... they don't come too much older than you!
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:00 PM GMT
    well you are 97 so what are you dating fossils??lol

    Younger older is hot some younger guys get it some don't!!
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:14 PM GMT
    lol come on im not the only one who doesnt show their age on here but im 18 it says at the bottom if you actually read my profile lol
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:15 PM GMT
    I agree...older is better..although nowadays, some ppl consider me old so i guess my age or older is good for me, mostly because the yungunz don't seem to really be clear on what they want.

    On top of that, i like someone I can have some sort of a conversation with, and I don't find that with the younger crowds (which is people under 25 for me). Unintelligent conversations REALLLY piss me off (unless its being purposely done to be silly).

    Financial security isn't really and issue (knock on wood)...of course no one wants to be with a leech...but still, my preference for someone a little older, or my age at least, is based on sheer intelligence and maturity. Also all those years adds up to LOTS of experience in the sack.

    So at the end of the day, stupidity turns me off. Now, although stupidity doesn't discriminate based on age or looks, it definitely seems to have a fetish for the younger and prettier folks.
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:20 PM GMT
    tonylover saidlol come on im not the only one who doesnt show their age on here but im 18 it says at the bottom if you actually read my profile lol


    i saw that last
    saw your pics first after i read your post and had to run home from work and jackoff not sure why lol
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:20 PM GMT
    tonylover saidSo I noticed I have a thing for older guys and I dont know why I mean I see all these hot young guys my age and yeah they are hot but when I see an older guy it turns me on,maybe because hes older and can give me protection or at least the feeling of being protected or because I know he has his stuff together

    Does this happen to anyone else or am I the only species?


    Don't worry about it. It's a gay growing up thing that i think every guy goes through. when you are in your 40s and 50s you will find guys your current age are into you.

    it's the circle of life
  • owen19832006

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    Jun 24, 2010 7:23 PM GMT
    i like older, usedto date a guy who was 42 for a year! i was 25
    now my bf is 29 im 27 never dated anyone younger...and i dont really like people my age, i like them older and more mature
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:26 PM GMT
    Probably because you had a distant father and now you want them to fulfill that role for you. icon_confused.gif You're so naughty.
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:39 PM GMT
    tonylover saidSo I noticed I have a thing for older guys and I dont know why I mean I see all these hot young guys my age and yeah they are hot but when I see an older guy it turns me on,maybe because hes older and can give me protection or at least the feeling of being protected or because I know he has his stuff together

    Does this happen to anyone else or am I the only species?

    You need to seek professional counseling. Older gays are putrid, sick and repulsive. This is repeatedly stated here.

    The only gays you should be interested in are 20-somethings -- young, hot and brainless. Again, this is constantly stressed here.

    Older guys are disgusting and creepy, as frequently stated on this site. You need to shift your focus to young twinks, as everyone here agrees, the younger the better (within legal limits). An interest in older men is demented, as other threads here will tell you.
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:48 PM GMT
    hahaha nah it doesnt matter how old you are everyone is a creep and I am twink so I really dont like twinks lol I prefer a bigger guy taller and older.
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:49 PM GMT
    suthrnstud said
    tonylover saidlol come on im not the only one who doesnt show their age on here but im 18 it says at the bottom if you actually read my profile lol


    i saw that last
    saw your pics first after i read your post and had to run home from work and jackoff not sure why lol


    You are making me blush icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.giflol
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    Jun 24, 2010 7:53 PM GMT
    tonylover said
    suthrnstud said
    tonylover saidlol come on im not the only one who doesnt show their age on here but im 18 it says at the bottom if you actually read my profile lol


    i saw that last
    saw your pics first after i read your post and had to run home from work and jackoff not sure why lol


    You are making me blush icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.giflol


    Your making me late for workicon_wink.gificon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
    uh oh something coming up againicon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
  • EricLA

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    Jun 24, 2010 8:00 PM GMT
    One can't always explain attraction. If you find someone that makes you happy, go for it.
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    Jun 24, 2010 8:00 PM GMT
    Your not alone i love older guys too..i think it has to do with ..they are more experienced at whatever they do lol..in all areas of life and i like learning from them. Plus im a total pleaser if i actually find one i like.
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    Jun 24, 2010 8:15 PM GMT
    Yeah, older can be often better. Or certainly more appealing. My own personal tastes are more ... diverse in the sense that I don't go for simply older or younger, but that I can find people I like in both and several categories.

    Boys are boys, men are men. Unfortunately, not everyone achieves maturity with age; but statistically, there are likely to be more mature men who are older than younger.

    Besides, something about the idea of bagging oneself a hot older man is very appealing. Like Yin and Yang, it has the potential to just... 'fit'.
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    Jun 24, 2010 8:20 PM GMT
    But what are you going to do when YOU are the older guy?

    Do you think you will catch up with your taste in men, or will you always like guys who are older than you?