Jun 24, 2010 10:24 AM GMT
OK, not looking for advice here. Just need to vent and get this off my chest.
Over the past week, I've been on 2 dates with guys that I have met on different singles/chat sites.
Neither of them were spontaneous-spur-of-the-moment things. I had been talking/texting/chatting with each of them for at least a month. Decided it was time to get my feet wet again, and jump in. So, I made plans with each of them.
First guy: We decided to get a drink at a local bar and hang out. I get to his house, because he was on my way and I offered to drive. He invites me in for a drink. We're getting along famously, laughing, having a good time.
Then he drops the bomb: "If we're gonna go, we probably should go now. MY BOYFRIEND WILL BE HOME SOON."
I'm sorry... WTF??
Second guy: Actually talked with him/chatted/ texted for more than 2 months before we decided the time was right to meet face to face. he drove to my house, then we walked to a cute little greek place in the neighborhood. We had discovered early on that we had several friends in common, so we chatted about that and things in general. Then, we got to talking about the things we find most attractive in a mate. I tell him my wants and desires, then it's his turn. He tells me how he's attracted to older men (like me), and what he finds most attractive in said men....to which he adds, "Just like my boyfriend. He's 17 years older than me".
I'm sorry... WTF??
Did you say...boyfriend, or EX boyfriend??
First guy: "Boyfriend. Don't you remember? We actually chatted several months ago on (website). You kinda blew me off when I told you I had a BF, but we play around."
Yeah? Well, here's me blowing you off again.
I left.
Second guy: "I didn't mention I had a BF? I thought I did. Yeah, we just moved in together. That's weird...I thought I told you."
No, douchebag. You didn't tell me.
"Well, things aren't going all that well anyway. So I'm trying to meet new people. Just in case"
I'm sorry....What the F did you just say?? Just in case of what??
Check please!!
Thanked him for a nice lunch, and went home.
F-ing douchebag texts me later:
Him: Hey, what's up?
Me: I'm drinking with friends.
Him: I'm really bored. (BF) is out drinking with his friends too. Might not be home tonight. I'm stuck here all alone with nothing to do. You wanna maybe come over? Watch a movie or something?
Me: No. I really don't. Text your BF instead. Good night.
What the F is wrong with guys??
I don't cheat. I'm not a cheater. I don't want to be with a cheater. Cause if he's cheating on someone to be with me....why on EARTH would I believe he wouldn't do the same thing to me??
Ok, I feel much better. Thanks for listening.
Over the past week, I've been on 2 dates with guys that I have met on different singles/chat sites.
Neither of them were spontaneous-spur-of-the-moment things. I had been talking/texting/chatting with each of them for at least a month. Decided it was time to get my feet wet again, and jump in. So, I made plans with each of them.
First guy: We decided to get a drink at a local bar and hang out. I get to his house, because he was on my way and I offered to drive. He invites me in for a drink. We're getting along famously, laughing, having a good time.
Then he drops the bomb: "If we're gonna go, we probably should go now. MY BOYFRIEND WILL BE HOME SOON."
I'm sorry... WTF??
Second guy: Actually talked with him/chatted/ texted for more than 2 months before we decided the time was right to meet face to face. he drove to my house, then we walked to a cute little greek place in the neighborhood. We had discovered early on that we had several friends in common, so we chatted about that and things in general. Then, we got to talking about the things we find most attractive in a mate. I tell him my wants and desires, then it's his turn. He tells me how he's attracted to older men (like me), and what he finds most attractive in said men....to which he adds, "Just like my boyfriend. He's 17 years older than me".
I'm sorry... WTF??
Did you say...boyfriend, or EX boyfriend??
First guy: "Boyfriend. Don't you remember? We actually chatted several months ago on (website). You kinda blew me off when I told you I had a BF, but we play around."
Yeah? Well, here's me blowing you off again.
I left.
Second guy: "I didn't mention I had a BF? I thought I did. Yeah, we just moved in together. That's weird...I thought I told you."
No, douchebag. You didn't tell me.
"Well, things aren't going all that well anyway. So I'm trying to meet new people. Just in case"
I'm sorry....What the F did you just say?? Just in case of what??
Check please!!
Thanked him for a nice lunch, and went home.
F-ing douchebag texts me later:
Him: Hey, what's up?
Me: I'm drinking with friends.
Him: I'm really bored. (BF) is out drinking with his friends too. Might not be home tonight. I'm stuck here all alone with nothing to do. You wanna maybe come over? Watch a movie or something?
Me: No. I really don't. Text your BF instead. Good night.
What the F is wrong with guys??
I don't cheat. I'm not a cheater. I don't want to be with a cheater. Cause if he's cheating on someone to be with me....why on EARTH would I believe he wouldn't do the same thing to me??
Ok, I feel much better. Thanks for listening.
