Losing interest in men?!

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    Jun 25, 2010 5:44 AM GMT
    For a few years now I've slowly started to lose interest in men, sure I've had the occasional one nighters, and quite a few of dates, some that went on for months, but nothing really came out of it. I've started to just lose interest in gay men. My libido is fine, I would say average, and my hormone levels are slightly above average for free testosterone.

    Is this normal? Has this been happening to others? I'm curious cause I feel alone in this one. icon_eek.gif

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    Jun 25, 2010 5:56 AM GMT
    Perhaps you're just actually waiting for someone *really* special to come along into your life? Sure, dating others is fun, and hooking up can be fun, but unless it's someone that really just comes along and rocks your world, there's a limit to just how exciting it can be.
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    Jun 25, 2010 5:57 AM GMT
    You're just getting old.
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    Jun 25, 2010 6:09 AM GMT
    It's probably not so much a loss of interest in men as an increased focus on other things. I did that at 25 and I suspect a lot of guys on here did.

    Attraction and love work on a pendulum that swings by the weight of interest and motivation. It's just not always there, but as sure as we'll all get our hearts broken again, it'll come back around.

    Profit from the break! Men are mostly a waste of energy anyway.
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    Jun 25, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    Pyrotech saidPerhaps you're just actually waiting for someone *really* special to come along into your life? Sure, dating others is fun, and hooking up can be fun, but unless it's someone that really just comes along and rocks your world, there's a limit to just how exciting it can be.


    It's hard to tell if its me or if it's the void of someone special.




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    Jun 25, 2010 6:26 AM GMT
    I feel the same way. I have a sex drive left, and I still date, but, I am losing interest in trying to really date. I honestly don't feel like I like guys the way I used to, or girls, and I just feel as though I don't really want any special someone in my life. I don't know if this is the way you feel, but I feel as though I would rather die alone than to try and find someone, or have someone find me.
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    Jun 25, 2010 1:57 PM GMT
    Andre_SD saidFor a few years now I've slowly started to lose interest in men, sure I've had the occasional one nighters, and quite a few of dates, some that went on for months, but nothing really came out of it. I've started to just lose interest in gay men. My libido is fine, I would say average, and my hormone levels are slightly above average for free testosterone.

    Is this normal? Has this been happening to others? I'm curious cause I feel alone in this one. icon_eek.gif

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    I am not sure about what you are meaning... Are talking about rampant sex with men or are you starting to become attracted to other things like women, objects or animals.( just covering all bases ) ....

    If you are feeling alone and want to fall in love. There should be that kind of feeling along with the lost of interest in having sex with many men.
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    Jun 25, 2010 1:59 PM GMT
    Asexuality is slowly creeping in in our day and age.