Anal sex is demeaning..(he said)

  • Nayro

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    Jun 25, 2010 1:20 PM GMT
    I was in a (normal) bar yesterday and it was closing up, time to go home. But there was this guy with his gf sitting at the bar and starting a discussion with the bartender. The music was off so I could hear everything he said. I don't know why but he started to talk about anal sex. And he was kindof yelling that it was demeaning and that it has nothing to do with making love blabla bla. You know, the regular bullshit. So the bartender didn't agree. He said if the girl wants it then why would it be demeaning. So the guy at the bar just kept repeating it was demeaning and its the perfect wat to humiliate someone.

    I know in some situations it is meant to be demeaning but I was very annoyed by the closed-mindedness of the guy. Some people just don't look further than their own small world... Bah!

    What would you have done if you heared this discussion going on?
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    Jun 25, 2010 1:40 PM GMT
    He's probably g0y.
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    Jun 25, 2010 1:46 PM GMT
    Some people aren't worth your time. If the girlfriend has any sense she'll dump his bigoted virgin ass, and not only because he isn't sexually fulfilling her.
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    Jun 25, 2010 2:21 PM GMT


    Well, that's not an unusual straight attitude. It was explained to me this way.


    Anal sex.

    Guys have prostates. Guy on guy means happy x 2.


    Girls have no prostate. Guy on girl means guy happy, girl go ow-ow-ow-ow-ow-ow-youfinishedyet?-ow-ow-ow-ow. It means all the climax for the guy, none for the girl. Compare that to flipping her over and insertion where they not only both feel good, but she gets to climax too, and even at the same time.

    -Doug
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    Jun 25, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
    Ignore him. Not worth it.
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    Jun 25, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    sexually uneducated
  • rnch

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    Jun 25, 2010 7:39 PM GMT
    Daelin said...What would you have done if you heared this discussion going on?


    mentally cross him off my personal "fuckable" list, no matter how good he looked. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • jgymnast733

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    Jun 25, 2010 8:03 PM GMT
    charlitos saidsexually uneducated

    I agree, i'd just listen without commenting....Its funny how damn stupid some people are........
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    Jun 25, 2010 8:37 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    Well, that's not an unusual straight attitude. It was explained to me this way.


    Anal sex.

    Guys have prostates. Guy on guy means happy x 2.


    Girls have no prostate. Guy on girl means guy happy, girl go ow-ow-ow-ow-ow-ow-youfinishedyet?-ow-ow-ow-ow. It means all the climax for the guy, none for the girl. Compare that to flipping her over and insertion where they not only both feel good, but she gets to climax too, and even at the same time.

    -Doug


    Best reply!
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    Jun 25, 2010 10:19 PM GMT
    His GF should dump him, a guy I was seeing some time ago said facials were demeaning and refused to give me one, I stopped talking to him LOL
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    Jun 25, 2010 10:30 PM GMT
    Im not into anal sex but I never thought of it as demeaning, I just personally wouldn't do it
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    Jun 25, 2010 10:32 PM GMT
    I like to be tossed around like a plaything by the whims of the wind and the sea

    windsurfing-introduction.jpg

    (metaphor, yall)
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    Jun 26, 2010 3:30 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    Well, that's not an unusual straight attitude. It was explained to me this way.


    Anal sex.

    Guys have prostates. Guy on guy means happy x 2.


    Girls have no prostate. Guy on girl means guy happy, girl go ow-ow-ow-ow-ow-ow-youfinishedyet?-ow-ow-ow-ow. It means all the climax for the guy, none for the girl. Compare that to flipping her over and insertion where they not only both feel good, but she gets to climax too, and even at the same time.

    -Doug


    I know a girl who told me quite frankly during dinner, that she liked anal... she like how it approached sensitive spots wthout getting there and that excited her...

    Kinda awkward, she was my brothers ex! icon_razz.gif
  • DarkSensation

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    Jun 26, 2010 11:27 AM GMT


    Anale sex Demeaning not Really...but Emasculating,,,Yes
  • Nayro

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    Jun 29, 2010 2:16 PM GMT
    DarkSeduction said

    Anale sex Demeaning not Really...but Emasculating,,,Yes


    Emasculating?
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    Jun 29, 2010 2:24 PM GMT
    i know up-the-butt girls who would completely disagree with all this. i know one or two whose happy places are positioned such that their g-spots are titillated from either direction.

    sounds like dude was repeating what he was told.
  • rnch

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    Jun 29, 2010 2:24 PM GMT
    Daelin said
    DarkSeduction said

    Anale sex Demeaning not Really...but Emasculating,,,Yes


    Emasculating?
    more like empowering! icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 29, 2010 2:47 PM GMT
    Wan2GetBigR said
    meninlove said
    Guys have prostates. Guy on guy means happy x 2.


    That's a weak argument I've been hearing for years. More like gay propaganda. And if true, every one of us would be a bottom or at least versatile. "


    Talk to a doctor.


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    Jun 29, 2010 2:58 PM GMT
    You're making an assumption. Some women don't like vaginal intercourse. Just oral. Think about it.

    Bill's Dad was a very well known Urologist, and we both suggest a little research.

    -Doug
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    Jun 29, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    Perhaps the guy had a gay experience and didn't like it (but the girl and the bartender liked it?). Or maybe he, like some people including gays think that anal sex is 'dirty' and unsanitary. Or perhaps he thinks that anal sex is for the submissive to bend over and 'get screwed in the ass' by the dominant partner. Who knows what his logic is. It's his opinion and he shouldn't be knocked for it.

    If you were to say that you don't like fucking a vagina because it's (she's) 'gross', would we think of you as close-minded? No, we say that you have a PREFERENCE just like the guy has.

    Interesting to note that you were in a normal bar as oppose to what? A gay bar? My friend, that sounds close-minded.
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    Jun 29, 2010 3:08 PM GMT
    Well, you're bored and wanting an argument.
  • Nayro

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    Jun 29, 2010 10:21 PM GMT
    bigeasydude saidPerhaps the guy had a gay experience and didn't like it (but the girl and the bartender liked it?). Or maybe he, like some people including gays think that anal sex is 'dirty' and unsanitary. Or perhaps he thinks that anal sex is for the submissive to bend over and 'get screwed in the ass' by the dominant partner. Who knows what his logic is. It's his opinion and he shouldn't be knocked for it.

    If you were to say that you don't like fucking a vagina because it's (she's) 'gross', would we think of you as close-minded? No, we say that you have a PREFERENCE just like the guy has.

    Interesting to note that you were in a normal bar as oppose to what? A gay bar? My friend, that sounds close-minded.


    HA i knew that one would come back to bite me again. But if you have a good look at it i put (normal) instead of normal like you did.
    Im not close-minded at all. I just wanted to mention it so you didnt think I was in a gay bar, where this conversation would be even weirder (imo)