A first for me at the gym- "It's time for us to shower."

  • silverfox

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    Jun 26, 2010 6:41 PM GMT
    It is strange to even write this. When I go to the gym, there is not a lot of opportunity to talk to me. I walk in with my ear buds in place, whether I am listening to music or not. I work out by myself, and honestly....I don't look up all that much!

    So yesterday, I had just finished doing my abs (last part of workout), and was about to stretch when this guy (attractive) comes over and taps my shoulder, I pulled my ear buds off and he says----

    'It's time for us to shower."

    Out of the blue. Never saw him before in my life. And what did I say? I was so dumbfounded all I could blurt out was.....

    "But....I have to stretch!"

    To which he said.....

    "I'll wait,"

    He walked away (presumably to the locker room)......My heart was beating so fast.....but I just ran out of the gym when I was done stretching! I came back hours later to get my stuff out of my locker.

    I have to admit....it was a turn on. But something like that...when it comes out of nowhere....I have absolutely no idea how to respond.....except the way that I did.

    I am curious....what would you have done?


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    Jun 26, 2010 6:51 PM GMT
    Ok, let me go add your name to the thread on RJ Losers. ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    God sends you a fuvking bf, even has him tap you on the fucking shoulder, and you flub it. No wonder you are single. God and all of Heaven must have facepalmed at that moment...in unison! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    The next time you see him you should apologize profusely and offer him your ass in apology.

    I would been extremely curious and gone to shower. Being sure to keep everything on the up and up until I knew this guy's story.
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    Jun 26, 2010 6:53 PM GMT
    I would have gone to that locker room (with my heart beating out of my chest) and AT LEAST had a short chat with the guy.
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    Jun 26, 2010 7:12 PM GMT
    Mmmm.. tricky... I would have chatted to him on the floor, try to work out if he was a stalker or a hottie icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
    One dude at the club came up to me out of nowhere, threw his arms around me, and laid a huge lip lock on me. What did I do? Started groping on and said "let's go somewhere we can do more."

    There...now you can learn from my experience. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
    silverfox1 saidI am curious....what would you have done?

    I dunno. Well, I know what I would do today -- decline, because I'm in a monogamous relationship. But what would I have done when I was single?

    Probably considered it, depending on whether or not I liked his looks and demeanor (you didn't mention those). My reservations would be about just what he had in mind in the shower, because I'm not going to take chances with a stranger in a straight locker room, as I presume this is. (I don't suppose vice cops ever do sting operations this way, do they?)

    And also if I'd visibly show my "interest" in him once we got naked, and maybe he would get stiff, too, just as another guy walks in on us, almost as bad as getting caught doing each other. You also don't say what kind of showers these are -- open gang?

    A lot to go through one's mind in a split second. Maybe you suffered a moment of "gay panic" -- LOL! And this has never happened to me in a straight gym, except at gay resorts when I was single, and then the answer was easy, because that's part of the reason most of us were there in the first place.

    But wow, the more I write & think about this, that guy was pretty bold. I can easily see his motivation & interest in you, but how was he certain you wouldn't take a swing at him, or report him? He must have known you somehow, or is supremely confident in his gaydar.
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    Jun 26, 2010 7:17 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidOne dude at the club came up to me out of nowhere, threw his arms around me, and laid a huge lip lock on me. What did I do? Started groping on and said "let's go somewhere we can do more."

    There...now you can learn from my experience. icon_biggrin.gif

    Ok, now that is just slutty. ... icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 9:08 PM GMT
    LMAOicon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
    Mr.Thing, i cant belive you ran out ouf the gym,, i would have said ' maybe we should have a drink and get to know each other first.. but i was actually kissed in the steamroom by a trainor once, and that boy had a nice phat ass on him too....I took him home and DUG deep into that manpussy like never before..icon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 9:16 PM GMT
    Caslon14000 said

    God sends you a fuvking bf, even has him tap you on the fucking shoulder, and you flub it. No wonder you are single. God and all of Heaven must have facepalmed at that moment...in unison! ... icon_rolleyes.gif


    This. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 9:18 PM GMT
    ROFLFAO


    Who knew you were such a teas?
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    Jun 26, 2010 9:20 PM GMT
    Caslon14000 said
    paulflexes saidOne dude at the club came up to me out of nowhere, threw his arms around me, and laid a huge lip lock on me. What did I do? Started groping on and said "let's go somewhere we can do more."

    There...now you can learn from my experience. icon_biggrin.gif

    Ok, now that is just slutty. ... icon_wink.gif
    He was hot, and I'm single. It's only slutty if I do it all the time. icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 9:21 PM GMT
    So, Mr. Fox, how gay is your gym?
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    Caslon14000 saidOk, let me go add your name to the thread on RJ Losers. ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    God sends you a fuvking bf, even has him tap you on the fucking shoulder, and you flub it. No wonder you are single. God and all of Heaven must have facepalmed at that moment...in unison! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    The next time you see him you should apologize profusely and offer him your ass in apology.

    I would been extremely curious and gone to shower. Being sure to keep everything on the up and up until I knew this guy's story.


    Hmm wow, like how you think that someone that walks up to you in a gym asking to shower(hook up) is BF material...would love to see what your hook-up requirements are...Or better yet, lets not I am scared they have even less class...
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:26 PM GMT
    silverfox1 saidIt is strange to even write this. When I go to the gym, there is not a lot of opportunity to talk to me. I walk in with my ear buds in place, whether I am listening to music or not. I work out by myself, and honestly....I don't look up all that much!

    So yesterday, I had just finished doing my abs (last part of workout), and was about to stretch when this guy (attractive) comes over and taps my shoulder, I pulled my ear buds off and he says----

    'It's time for us to shower."

    Out of the blue. Never saw him before in my life. And what did I say? I was so dumbfounded all I could blurt out was.....

    "But....I have to stretch!"

    To which he said.....

    "I'll wait,"

    He walked away (presumably to the locker room)......My heart was beating so fast.....but I just ran out of the gym when I was done stretching! I came back hours later to get my stuff out of my locker.

    I have to admit....it was a turn on. But something like that...when it comes out of nowhere....I have absolutely no idea how to respond.....except the way that I did.

    I am curious....what would you have done?

    We need closure on this story. What happened? icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:32 PM GMT
    Caslon14000 saidOk, let me go add your name to the thread on RJ Losers. ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    God sends you a fuvking bf, even has him tap you on the fucking shoulder, and you flub it. No wonder you are single. God and all of Heaven must have facepalmed at that moment...in unison! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    The next time you see him you should apologize profusely and offer him your ass in apology.

    I would been extremely curious and gone to shower. Being sure to keep everything on the up and up until I knew this guy's story.



    BF?? I don't know about that. It seems to me that all this guy was to get in the shower and fuck. That would have been a nice experience. I like yourself have am like that all the time at the gym. The gym i go to is very chill and each man keeps to himself. Yeah occasionally i will run into a friend of mine and we will shoot the shit for a bit. No invite to get into the shower, so i guess i would not know what to do either. I'd like it if a guy did that though. Take life by the horns lol
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:35 PM GMT
    icon_redface.gificon_eek.gif......make a trip to "GOODWILL" to drop off all of your "gay shit" and then burn your "gay card"icon_exclaim.gif......you apparently slept through that part of the class....Shame on you! Bad Boy!(sound of rolled up newspapers smacking butt!) ...NO Dance Music for you! (SNAP!) ..now get you ass back to the gym and workout until he shows up again and then BEG him to let you wash his back, until you get it right!icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:35 PM GMT
    silverfox1 said

    So yesterday, I had just finished doing my abs (last part of workout), and was about to stretch when this guy (attractive) comes over and taps my shoulder, I pulled my ear buds off and he says----

    'It's time for us to shower."

    Out of the blue. Never saw him before in my life. And what did I say? I was so dumbfounded all I could blurt out was.....

    "But....I have to stretch!"

    To which he said.....

    "I'll wait,"




    that is such hot line. I would have went for it for sure!

    I think I'm going to use that too lol..
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:36 PM GMT
    I might have talked with him a bit. But shower with a complete stranger? Pfft.. no. I wonder if he does this often.. force his way into semi-sexual situations with complete strangers.

    The extreme version of this scenario is trying to make a boyfriend out of a male hooker. C'mon guys.. I get that the dude was just trying to hit on the OP. But whatever happened to class?
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:37 PM GMT
    Gee Wizz.....that's quite the scenario. Lucky lol.

    Well, I would have at least talked to him a lil bit. Guys that are that quick to get sexual normally turn me off....unless they're smokin hot lol.
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:37 PM GMT
    I dream of something like that happening! But, like you, I think I would have been totally thrown off and done exactly what you did.
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:40 PM GMT
    Depends on what he looks like:

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    Probably YES

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    Probably NO
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:42 PM GMT
    are you kidding me???????????


    " I have to stretch"????????

    Where is my Beat you senseless stick!!!!

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    Jun 26, 2010 10:50 PM GMT
    I'm sorry..I didn't mean to scare you.
  • Jerbeasley

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    Jun 26, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    similar situation for me....but not for a shower.....started chatting up this guy in the sauna, and out of nowhere he began stroking himself.....
    which in turn got me hard..(.it was already hot in there).
    before long he was reaching over and stroking me til I shot a huge load!
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    Jun 26, 2010 10:52 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidI would have gone to that locker room (with my heart beating out of my chest) and AT LEAST had a short chat with the guy.


    I think he'd be more nervous than you.