Tips for sex with a really THICK cock (esp oral)

  • tolomeon

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    Jun 27, 2010 10:03 PM GMT
    hey homos,

    so i've been playing around with this guy recently who's great, really hot, and possibly even bf material... only "problem" (if you can call it that) is the huge, girthy piece of meat in between his legs. i mean sure, it's really sexy to look at and very nice to hold, but it makes sex a bit of a challenge on my side (i'm a bottom, btw)... even though i get really turned on by the idea of his huge cock inside of me, it's obviously REALLY uncomfortable to get fucked, to the point where i lose my erection.
    what's more annoying, however, is trying to give him a blowjob... there's NO way i can get my mouth past the very tip of his cock without having my teeth scrape him. which really sucks, because i usually love sucking cock and it's frustrating not to be able to please him icon_razz.gif

    so, i'm wondering if any of you have tips for dealing with really thick cocks? especially any oral techniques or whatever?

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    Jun 27, 2010 10:08 PM GMT
    Have all your teeth pulled and get dentures
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    Jun 27, 2010 10:27 PM GMT
    No pics. It didnt happen.
  • tolomeon

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    Jun 29, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    man, you guys suck!! icon_razz.gif come on, help a brotha out... i'm really desperate for any advice....

    as per the previous post... i will send a pic of the girthy cock in question (it's a very nice looking one icon_wink.gif ) to anyone who gives good advice! haha...

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    Jun 29, 2010 10:29 PM GMT
    There is a lot that you can do with your lips and tongue around the head, the rim, the frenum. Let your tongue go to town. You can use your hand at the same time to massage the parts of the shaft you can't reach. If you do it well, he won't be able to tell what is mouth and what is hand unless he looks.

    As for bottoming, don't be afraid to keep on adding lube. Hopefully practice will make perfect, and with some patience you'll get used to it.

    Okay, now do I get my cock? icon_lol.gif

  • tolomeon

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    Jun 29, 2010 10:37 PM GMT
    sent ;) thanks again.
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    Jun 29, 2010 11:26 PM GMT
    My advice for bottoming would be to lay on your back with your legs on his shoulders, that's the best and less painful way for him to penetrate you at first, trust me, I've tried this method with a 10' cock that was really thick icon_twisted.gif and of course, lots of lube.
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    Jun 30, 2010 1:26 AM GMT
    When I take bigger *ahem* items as a bottom, I use Crisco as lube. It seems to help things go in smoothly. I wouldn't dream of using a water-based lube on some bigger items.

    As for scraping your teeth, wrap your lips around those teeth! Better to have your teeth scrape your lips than someone's head if they're not into teeth. I agree also with using your hands a lot. You can even run your lips and tongue along the bottom of his shaft while your lubed hand runs along the top, pressing down to increase sensation, as if there were 2 mouths going to work. icon_wink.gif
  • Gaymer

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    Jun 30, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    Another good tip for making sure that you can successfully have anal sex with your rather impressive man there, is to have lots of fun foreplay. If he's into it, start off with a good rim job, then move on to fingering (with however many fingers you feel comfortable with). If that's not enough, keep going and maybe play around with (if you have one) your preferred sex toy.

    Just gotta get relaxed. Once you are worked up and relaxed, his big cock is just one step bigger. If you still have problems, maybe buy a toy that's a size in between your man and your existing toys/ or practice with a few more fingers? Work your way up nice and slow. Work it into the sex. Believe me, it will be kinky as hell and you'll have amazing sex once you can fit mr. massive in there. icon_lol.gif

    So, about that pic? icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:00 AM GMT
    omg im having the same problem i been going out with my bf for about a month now and we take showers together and he has a huge thick dick like it has to be 8 when soft omg and im a virgin so he said he would wait wtf am i going to do when that moment comes...y cant i be a top lmfao
  • Bunjamon

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    Jun 30, 2010 3:09 AM GMT
    Pyrotech saidWhen I take bigger *ahem* items as a bottom, I use Crisco as lube. It seems to help things go in smoothly. I wouldn't dream of using a water-based lube on some bigger items.

    As for scraping your teeth, wrap your lips around those teeth! Better to have your teeth scrape your lips than someone's head if they're not into teeth. I agree also with using your hands a lot. You can even run your lips and tongue along the bottom of his shaft while your lubed hand runs along the top, pressing down to increase sensation, as if there were 2 mouths going to work. icon_wink.gif


    Just remember that Crisco, along with other oil-based lubes, can make condoms disintegrate. Play safe.
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    Jun 30, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    Bunjamon said
    Pyrotech saidWhen I take bigger *ahem* items as a bottom, I use Crisco as lube. It seems to help things go in smoothly. I wouldn't dream of using a water-based lube on some bigger items.

    As for scraping your teeth, wrap your lips around those teeth! Better to have your teeth scrape your lips than someone's head if they're not into teeth. I agree also with using your hands a lot. You can even run your lips and tongue along the bottom of his shaft while your lubed hand runs along the top, pressing down to increase sensation, as if there were 2 mouths going to work. icon_wink.gif


    Just remember that Crisco, along with other oil-based lubes, can make condoms disintegrate. Play safe.


    I guess I didn't realize Crisco would break down a condom. I've always used it with latex gloves, which in retrospect would be stronger than a condom. Good catch.
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    Jun 30, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    Pyrotech said
    Bunjamon said
    Pyrotech saidWhen I take bigger *ahem* items as a bottom, I use Crisco as lube. It seems to help things go in smoothly. I wouldn't dream of using a water-based lube on some bigger items.


    Just remember that Crisco, along with other oil-based lubes, can make condoms disintegrate. Play safe.


    I guess I didn't realize Crisco would break down a condom. I've always used it with latex gloves, which in retrospect would be stronger than a condom. Good catch.


    You can use a polyurethane condom with oil-based lube.

    But, I think an even better choice would be silicone lube. That stuff lasts all day and is condom safe.

    As for the OP's problem, you are not a snake. You cannot unhinge your jaw and suck down something bigger than your mouth, sadly. Use your mouth up and down his shaft and around the head. Use your hands to simulate your throat while sucking at the head. With anal, you can sit on that cock the same way you get to Broadway: practice, practice, practice. I had a lover once with a huge cock. To get ready I would stick in a butt plug an hour before so I was good and warmed up.
  • rnch

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    Jun 30, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    dare i say the word that will get all the "holier than thou" queens screaching...

    and pecking out indignant replies...

    awwww....wot da hale....

    after that thick dick stud has rimmed, fingured and loosened you as much as he can, about 10 seconds before he sticks it in you, sniff on a new bottle of good quality poppers.

    you'll open up and he will slidddeeee right in!

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    (waiting for the queens to slam me here)...


    5..

    4...

    3......

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    Jul 01, 2010 4:58 AM GMT
    rnch saiddare i say the word that will get all the "holier than thou" queens screaching...
    (waiting for the queens to slam me here)...


    5..

    4...

    3......

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    I have always respectfully disagreed with you on certain uses of poppers. I hope you are not referring to me here.
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    Jul 01, 2010 6:25 AM GMT
    Dude,

    Getting fuck with huge cock is not much fun until used to it. My recipe was clean the ass first, use wet silicone lube with fat dildo prior to get fuck. You cannot control that live big cock (he will pound you unlimited!!!!), so you can use dildo to stretch your anal muscle and also lube inside at the same time. That's ready condition for challenge with fat meat. I'm not really big fan of big cock but unfortunately most guys I hooked up with have XL cock, so I discovered that recipe and it's work. Good luck!

    M
  • rnch

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    Jul 01, 2010 3:26 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]MunchingZombie said...
    I have always respectfully disagreed with you on certain uses of poppers. I hope you are not referring to me here. [/quote]

    nahhh...you never came to mind.
  • HOTWEILLER

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    Jul 01, 2010 3:44 PM GMT
    i was going to give an ironic answer but i got very hard reading some comments. am i too horny?
  • rnch

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    Jul 01, 2010 3:59 PM GMT
    WRESTLINGGUY saidi was going to give an ironic answer but i got very hard reading some comments. am i too horny?


    too horny...for what? icon_wink.gif
  • HOTWEILLER

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    Jul 01, 2010 4:21 PM GMT
    rnch


    too horny...for what?


    Well, all i can say is that i cummed 2 times reading this thread. Now i have to jerk off more 3 times to finish my day well.

    Thanks guys.
  • rnch

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    Jul 01, 2010 4:51 PM GMT
    WRESTLINGGUY said
    rnch


    too horny...for what?


    Well, all i can say is that i cummed 2 times reading this thread. Now i have to jerk off more 3 times to finish my day well.

    Thanks guys.


    brag

    bragg

    BRAGGGGG!!

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  • HOTWEILLER

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    Jul 01, 2010 5:28 PM GMT
    sorry :-(
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    Jul 01, 2010 7:29 PM GMT
    This thread was obviously posted to make us "smaller" guys feel worthless!

    I'm proud to say that if I ever topped a guy, it wouldn't hurt him one bit!icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 03, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    Supermatty saidDude,

    Getting fuck with huge cock is not much fun until used to it. My recipe was clean the ass first, use wet silicone lube with fat dildo prior to get fuck. You cannot control that live big cock (he will pound you unlimited!!!!), so you can use dildo to stretch your anal muscle and also lube inside at the same time. That's ready condition for challenge with fat meat. I'm not really big fan of big cock but unfortunately most guys I hooked up with have XL cock, so I discovered that recipe and it's work. Good luck!

    M


    I TOTALLY understand this. I'm the opposite from a size queen. I prefer my dicks on the smaller size. I don't have much space in the garage for a fucking Excursion. The best tricks I've ever had were between 5.5" and 6". It was long enough to hit, but not long enough to rip. Girthy is also a problem I try to stay away from.

    UNFORTUNATELY, most of the guys who I trick end up being the Ron Jeremy's of the world. And I just end up thinking (or trying to think) of butterflies and daisies.

    Aren't there any nice, tall-ish, guys out there with rather smaller dicks?
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    Jul 03, 2010 6:17 AM GMT
    well you take his waawaa and you put it in your booboo with lots of lube and a great deal of patience!