What do you do when your gaydar starts to tick?

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    Jun 28, 2010 12:02 AM GMT
    My gaydar rarely ever goes off because most of the time, I don't spend much time sociallizing with men in the store, school, etc. But when my gaydar does go off, it's pretty interesting. I don't flirt in public with men, so I rarely do anything about that tick in my gaydar. What do you do? icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 28, 2010 12:04 AM GMT
    I don't do anything. If he doesn't make a move, he doesn't get laid by me.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jun 28, 2010 12:04 AM GMT
    Depends on how I'm inclined at that moment.... sometimes nothing, somtimes start a conversation to see if the gaydar continues to "sound" so to speak.
  • cowboyathlete

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    Jun 28, 2010 1:06 AM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidDepends on how I'm inclined at that moment.... sometimes nothing, somtimes start a conversation to see if the gaydar continues to "sound" so to speak.
    Exactly. Safe conversation is the best way to test for any more blips.
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    Jun 28, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    Ignore it generally, don't need to get my ass kicked at work by wackos icon_razz.gif

    If someone digs dudes it generally manifests itself in other ways.
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    Jun 28, 2010 1:19 AM GMT
    My gaydar's broken and I can't fix it! WAAAH!!!!
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Jun 28, 2010 1:23 AM GMT
    My gaydar is all about the eyes... they have always given guys away. I perfected the system in college, but I never actually approached anyone on the basis of my "gaydar." I am glad to report that every guy I ever suspected was gay based on his eyes always turned out to be gay/bi. Now that I am in the "real world" and not in the microcosm of college, I seriously doubt I'll ever approach a guy base on my gaydar 'vibe.'
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    Jun 28, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    Since I'm partnered and not looking, I usually don't do anything when my gaydar alerts. Except maybe smile to myself when it's a guy who wants everyone to think he's straight, but I suspect differently. But even though I believe I have very accurate gaydar, it's certainly not infallible, so I keep my opinions to myself.
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    Jun 28, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
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    I usually ignore it or maybe try to make eye contact with the guy if he's hot.
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    Jun 28, 2010 2:18 AM GMT
    I went into a pet store a few weeks ago and I spotted this really cute guy. We made eye contact and my gaydar starts to tick. He has gorgeous blue eyes. Blue like sapphire. I asked for an application and he handed me one. As I left the store in my car, I spotted him looking right at me in my car. I caught him looking at me, but he didn't turn away. I should have gone back into the store and asked him what he was looking at icon_razz.gif But he's going to see me in the store soon enough. If I get the job I applied for, he'll see me quite often icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 28, 2010 3:23 AM GMT
    I trot off like a frightened fawn.
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    Jun 28, 2010 3:32 AM GMT
    Meh. Go about my merry way. My gaydar does me no good if the spark factor isn't there.
  • sportsjockla

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    Jun 28, 2010 3:48 AM GMT
    Mines broken. Anyone know of good gaydar repair shop in L.A.?
  • NyRuinz

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    Jun 28, 2010 3:57 AM GMT
    I don't do anything, because just cause you can spot that a guy is gay, does not mean he will admit it to you or himself. If he does not approach me, I keep it moving
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    Jun 28, 2010 4:16 AM GMT
    sportsjockla saidMines broken. Anyone know of good gaydar repair shop in L.A.?


    Your gaydar isn't broken bub icon_razz.gif You have to truly look into a person in order for your gaydar to work. It can be a certain way that a guy looks at you or the way he postures his body when you're around. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 28, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    I just try to make a good amount of eye contact. If I notice that he does the same... (or the opposite, outwardly becomes shy or happily embarrassed).. then I take that as probable cause and suspect the gay. icon_razz.gif
  • Regina_Guy

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    Jun 28, 2010 4:28 AM GMT
    I'm pretty shy, so I usually just make a bit of eye contact and give a smile.
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    Jun 28, 2010 4:32 AM GMT
    My gaydar only works correctly half the time so I don't take the risk off pissing someone off if I'm wrong.
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    Jun 28, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidI trot off like a frightened fawn.


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    Jun 28, 2010 7:14 AM GMT
    Nothing.

    My Gaydar needs serious calibration.

    Guys I think are gay are usually the ones I end up hoping are gay but really are not gay. Say that really fast 3x.icon_neutral.gificon_cry.gif
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    Jun 28, 2010 7:50 AM GMT
    At this stage in my life, I really don't care.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Jun 28, 2010 7:52 AM GMT
    Wow .Mister self-centred.
  • Sayrnas

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    Jun 28, 2010 9:42 AM GMT
    Long Extended Eye contact. Best.Game.Ever.

    It takes ruul skillz to pull it off without pissing them off.


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    Jun 28, 2010 12:29 PM GMT
    if it goes off i wont do anything as guys are unpredictable....case and point...i am getting my driving license and i had to take this 5 hour class...the minute i walked through the door this guy caught my eye.....for the next 4 hours he would keep looking at me and when the class reached a break period i went outside and he directly followed me. We chatted and he asked me questions on why am i getting my intl license and whether or not i lived in the area and if i hang out in the city....bla bla bla...went back in after the break and he would keep checking me out.....so when the class was over and we were both left in the room alone....him just sitting there pretending like he was doing something...i thought i should give him my number and be bold as it would be a shame to not do anything and he might be "the one" lol. i asked him if he wanted my number and he replied why? And i said to keep in contact...he said no as he had a girlfriend...i was like u fucking liar in my mind....and that was the end of that..i said ok and when i was leaving to get into my brothers car i saw him walked out and he was looking around and just standing there.
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    Jun 28, 2010 12:31 PM GMT
    Im a wee bit skittish. If a guy makes the first move though, I'm all over him like sand on shit