Ok - So here is the thing...
God blessed some people with excellent genetics, other people ended up with the kitchen scraps.
The thing is you're 33 already, your basal metabolic rate slows down 10% every decade after age 30.
From your photo's you look good for your age.
But it's next to impossible for you to look like a totally ripped and shredded 19-21 yo. anymore. Not naturally anyway. And it will become increasingly more difficult. Hey - I'm 45; think how I feel.
Much of it really is finding the right balance of natural diet and exercise to get your body as healthy as you can be.
But at age 33, that probably means working 10+ % harder at it than you did when you were 23 - IF YOU WERE PERFECT THEN. At age 43 it will mean working roughly 30% harder - JUST TO MAINTAIN.
Do your best with what you've got. Eat healthy, get plenty of sleep, exercise.
I am not saying don't work on you 'love handles', what I am saying is worry about the important stuff, don't sweat the small stuff.
Much of the rest of it is self perception and vanity.