When guys refer to your ass as a pussy/vag/cunt...

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    Jun 29, 2010 2:36 AM GMT
    So on a couple of occasions I've heard gay guys who prefer to top refer to their partner's asses using words to describe the female vagina.

    It's curious as to why they do this. On the one hand it could do with a dom/sub fantasy that follows the 1950s mindset that a woman is automatically submissive to the man. On the other hand it could signify that the guy in question has hang ups regarding his own sexuality/gayness. Or even yet maybe some straight guy who's down on his luck and does it with another man out of desperation might refer to his butt as a pussy to preserve his straightness.

    What do you all think? Have any of you ever referred to another man's ass using feminine terminology?

    And to those who have had your butt referred to as a pussy, how did it make you feel? Were you turned on, grossed out, etc?
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    Jun 29, 2010 6:11 AM GMT
    first, wtf is with the toronto escorts? secondly, ive heard it, and its a turn off. im a man, i have an ass not a pussy cunt vagina etc. Anyone who uses the terminology with me in bed gets tossed out. Girls have assholes too, guys dont have pussy's. its kind of aggravating to assume im submissive just cuz im bottoming, or that im effeminate.
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    Jun 29, 2010 3:23 PM GMT
    It is a tool, like any other, to get you into the right head-space. For you it doesn't work; for others it makes them melt. Can't blame a guy for trying. The polite and constructive thing to do is let them know after you are done and move on. If you like the guy and they really like it, perhaps it is time to become more flexible with your ass terminology.
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    Jun 29, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    I also don't like the word "mangina" which is supposed to imply a male vagina. As the OP and Jonno say, female anatomical terms shouldn't be applied to a man, either figuratively or literally. A man is a man, not a substitute woman, and I like to keep it that way.

    It's the main reason my interest in drag has declined in recent years, despite my once having justified it as a unique entertainment genre, and as being a tradition within the gay community that can remind us of our roots. Faux females in general, and faux female body parts in particular, hold no attraction for me.
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    Jun 29, 2010 4:52 PM GMT
    Even when I'm being a sub, saying those terms (especially "boy pussy") is a major turn off, and will make me end a scene in an instant. I've called off scenes before because someone told me they were going to take my "boy pussy." I do not have sex with guys who use those terms.

    That said, I know it's all a mental game, and I'm sure somewhere deep down there's something fucked up in me that makes me not tolerate those terms for my ass. I've just never given myself a chance to figure out what it is, and as of yet I've had no interest in exploring it.
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    Jun 29, 2010 8:46 PM GMT
    Well I'm gonna say what I like and what I don't

    I like it when they refer to my ass as boipussy, or boihole. It's a turn on for me.

    I don't like mangina icon_eek.gif YUK!

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    Jul 12, 2010 4:58 PM GMT
    Its not for me. AT ALL. You get one correction and the second time youre tossed out of bed.
    no offense to the guys who do like it, if its for you, then go for it. I'm just not into it.......not even remotely.
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    Jul 12, 2010 5:12 PM GMT
    It is a turnoff.

    But if the guy is hot enough, he can say whatever he likes to me. It is not as if I can pick and choose much around here....
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    Jul 13, 2010 4:50 PM GMT
    CrushCrushCrush saidi like it xD

    Boy Pussy!!

    Yeah, and then suck on some Boy Clit! YUMMY!!!

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    Jul 13, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    Wilton said
    CrushCrushCrush saidi like it xD

    Boy Pussy!!

    Yeah, and then suck on some Boy Clit! YUMMY!!!

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    that ruined it all.
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    Jul 17, 2010 7:33 PM GMT
    boy clit? ewww! wtf wud that even be?
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    Jul 23, 2010 6:04 PM GMT
    We are all different but I don't like my arsehole being called a boy pussy or anything female related..... nope!

    Depends on my mood if the guy is "romantic" = I want to make love to you.... will work

    Or

    If we are in dirty mode = I wanna fuck you deep and hard until I shoot my load - will work!
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    Jul 26, 2010 6:17 AM GMT
    an ass is an ass, wouldn't like to call it anything else.
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    Jul 26, 2010 6:58 PM GMT
    boy pussy
    JTR1123 saidan ass is an ass, wouldn't like to call it anything else.
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    Jul 27, 2010 8:03 AM GMT
    CrushCrushCrush saidboy pussy
    JTR1123 saidan ass is an ass, wouldn't like to call it anything else.


    yea no..
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    Jul 27, 2010 8:34 AM GMT
    I definitely lose interest and most often cut the conversation short when it goes in the man-vagina direction... just not my idea of fun terms and it's macho in a sourly ironic way .... icon_idea.gif
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    Jul 27, 2010 9:11 AM GMT
    first of all i am a man so i have a ass and if a guy refers to it by anyother thing then it is a major turn off and they need to go.
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    Jul 27, 2010 9:49 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidIt is a tool, like any other, to get you into the right head-space. For you it doesn't work; for others it makes them melt. Can't blame a guy for trying. The polite and constructive thing to do is let them know after you are done and move on. If you like the guy and they really like it, perhaps it is time to become more flexible with your ass terminology.


    Exactly! One man's "fish" is another man's "poisson".
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    Jul 27, 2010 10:27 AM GMT
    I am a man... I have a cock and an ass... If you want pussy, vagina, clit, mangina or whatever the fuck... go elsewhere
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    Jul 27, 2010 5:34 PM GMT
    a guy refered to it as my man pussy, so needless to say the date ended there.
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    Jul 27, 2010 9:52 PM GMT
    boy clit icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 28, 2010 1:18 PM GMT
    CrushCrushCrush saidboy clit icon_wink.gif


    A boy clit is a hemorrhoid.

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    Aug 01, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    Balljunkie said

    A boy clit is a hemorrhoid.


    SICK...... & a little awesome
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    Aug 08, 2010 3:22 AM GMT

    I hate it, big turn off

    A woman is a woman, a man is a man

    It's little thinking like boipussy that makes straights think we are really confused and men really do want to be women

    A womans vagina-pussy is where life happens, babies are birthed thru etc etc

    An ass (M & F) is where waiste is disposed off, I hate the comparison
  • drypin

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    Aug 08, 2010 10:40 PM GMT
    If the guy's really into in he can call mine whatever suits his fancy and I'll go along. Can't get enough of that dirty talk.