Djrizzy14 saidSo my partner and i tried having anal sex today and it just DIDNT work . we tried missionary and i tried sitting on his penis but after countless efforts it didnt work. we are both virgins and very new to this but we have fooled around. he LOVES fingering my ass but him being 6 feet something and me being 5 foot two. let alone his penis is pretty...girthy. well the major thing is that we didnt have lube but we wanted to try anyway, next time we are gonna use lube but do any bottoms or tops have any advice for first timers like us ?
USE LUBE! And a slippery one meant for sex, not for cooking or babies' bottoms. I find those that contain glycerin to be the best.
I couldn't bottom with my first BF, either. But he was very understanding, plus versatile, so topping him and blowing him kept him happy.
About 5 years later I thought I'd try it again and finally bust my cherry, after I met a guy who was very small. Not a BF, but a guy I thought I could trust to use a condom, stop when I said stop, and take it easy.
He did that, and I had a great time, pounding right back at him during my first fuck, which kinda surprised him for a butt virgin. His small size was the key for me. So here's my suggestion for you, since your BF is well hung:
- USE LUBE!
- Get a slender dildo smaller than him, and practice with lube.
- When you can comfortably handle that dildo, get a bigger one. If it takes a few more steps to work your way up to his size, fine, nothing wrong with that.
- When you finally master his size with a comparable dildo, drop to all fours and enjoy him!