I Don't Get It???

  • NyRuinz

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    Jun 29, 2010 7:58 AM GMT
    One of my door neighbors has been giving obvious signs that he likes me for the past year. He seems very shy, but he always finds the courage to say hello when he would see me. Besides that I am always catching him staring at me, yet he would always put his head down and start blushing. I've been told my some of my other neighbors that he is constantly asking about me (how am I doing etc.). but whenever he would see me the most I would get is a hello. I have tried starting conversations with him but he seemed really nervous and would dart off after five minutes of talking.

    I recently moved, but before I did I asked him would he like to hang out and he seemed ecstatic and quickly gave me his number, but when I called him to see if was available on a specific day, he never responded to my voicemail. When I saw him I didn't say anything about it and neither did he, he's back to the staring again. I recently moved, so I doubt I will be seeing him again, but I am really perplexed by his behavior, I know he may be shy and all but damn, any insighticon_question.gif
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    Jun 29, 2010 2:33 PM GMT
    Maybe he just freaked out, maybe he was intimidated, or maybe he just convinced himself that whatever he would do wouldn't work out, so he gave up before he even started. Or maybe he's just a sick fuck strange dude and this is his way of fucking with you.

    There's a lot of crazy people out there, to begin to guess at the complexities of human decisions is a never-ending endeavor that can only be answered by the subject in question.

    A million possibilities.
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    Jun 29, 2010 2:39 PM GMT
    I agree with deon...I have learned not to bother with people who are not upfront and play games. I got a life to live and I am not gonna spend it figuring out what you are thinking.
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    Jun 29, 2010 7:56 PM GMT
    He might be painfully shy...it sounds like he's interested in you, but scared at the same time. I actually think it's kind of cute.
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    Jun 29, 2010 8:30 PM GMT
    i think that would be annoying, i like guys with backbone
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    Jun 29, 2010 8:53 PM GMT
    met a hot guy we clicked right off had hot sex ya yada yada
    He begged(and i do mean begged he mentioned giving it to me i acted like i didn't hear) me to take his number and call again to meet.


    So after less than a week i'm thinking don't call don't call don't call...what do i do i call get dead air. couple weeks past i though maybe he's just shy chicken whatever or was busy so i called again. he actually called back and i told him who i was where we met and he was "why are you calling me?" i said you gave me your number i thought i call be fun to meet again

    Why was i wrong to call i didn't ask for it (almost said dude no cause i knew this would be the scenario)

    for the record this was for sex but i've had the same scenario met a guy playing pool we clicked talked 5 plus hours didn't make any moves we exchanged number at his request. i waited couple days called never called back ran into him at B and N he said he was busy with school yada yada ya
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    Jun 29, 2010 10:13 PM GMT
    suthrnstud saidmet a hot guy we clicked right off had hot sex ya yada yada
    He begged(and i do mean begged he mentioned giving it to me i acted like i didn't hear) me to take his number and call again to meet.


    So after less than a week i'm thinking don't call don't call don't call...what do i do i call get dead air. couple weeks past i though maybe he's just shy chicken whatever or was busy so i called again. he actually called back and i told him who i was where we met and he was "why are you calling me?" i said you gave me your number i thought i call be fun to meet again

    Why was i wrong to call i didn't ask for it (almost said dude no cause i knew this would be the scenario)

    for the record this was for sex but i've had the same scenario met a guy playing pool we clicked talked 5 plus hours didn't make any moves we exchanged number at his request. i waited couple days called never called back ran into him at B and N he said he was busy with school yada yada ya


    you live in gulfport, i think there's the answer for that one... course, guys are shallow everywhere....

    And for ny, move on, it wont go anywhere, and pulling a guy anywhere is exhausting....
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    Jun 29, 2010 10:59 PM GMT
    NyRuinz saidOne of my door neighbors has been giving obvious signs that he likes me for the past year. He seems very shy, but he always finds the courage to say hello when he would see me. Besides that I am always catching him staring at me, yet he would always put his head down and start blushing. I've been told my some of my other neighbors that he is constantly asking about me (how am I doing etc.). but whenever he would see me the most I would get is a hello. I have tried starting conversations with him but he seemed really nervous and would dart off after five minutes of talking.

    I recently moved, but before I did I asked him would he like to hang out and he seemed ecstatic and quickly gave me his number, but when I called him to see if was available on a specific day, he never responded to my voicemail. When I saw him I didn't say anything about it and neither did he, he's back to the staring again. I recently moved, so I doubt I will be seeing him again, but I am really perplexed by his behavior, I know he may be shy and all but damn, any insighticon_question.gif


    It sounds like he's suffering social anxiety disorder.
  • NyRuinz

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    Jun 30, 2010 1:51 AM GMT
    Thanks Fellas for all of your feedback, i was thinking either he is extremely shy, or was just looking for an ego boost, but either way he has my number and the ball is in his court.
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:13 AM GMT
    WTH is a "door neighbor"?