Cuddle buddies instead of fuck buddies.

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    Jun 29, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    Hey Jocks,

    I been out the loop for sometime because I been in a relationship for sometime then I found myself without one. Now i'm running into these guys who tell me that they are not interested in having a relationship with me but would love to get together and cuddle naked. I love cuddling with someone who I am attracted to. I like the intimacy but what about the sex? I'm afraid that this cuddle relationship might effect me emotional. I just can't be intimate then unload my feelings. It just seems i'm finding guys not much into sex but having intimacy. I'm at a lost in choosing if it's right to be intimate with a person who doesn't love you?
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    Jun 29, 2010 5:59 PM GMT
    So you're saying you're not able to be intimate with someone unless you're in love with them? Why's that?

    Share the love, man!
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    Jun 29, 2010 7:49 PM GMT
    Some people are very touchy-feely. They can have that physical intimacy without the emotional intimacy. Personally, I am not like that. I can fuck all night and not be friends in the morning but cuddling is way too intimate and emotional for me. Just tell them that it is too intimate for you at this stage.

    That said, I have been invited over for many "cuddles" before. Some people just don't want to say they want to fuck. Caveat Emptor.
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    Jul 13, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    I don't see what's wrong with having a cuddle buddy. We all need human touch sometimes. You don't have to like the person, you don't have to fuck them (or have them fuck you), but all you have to do is to be naked together for about a couple of hours, without the fear of STDs? I say go for it. A lot of guys are really just using sex to get to the cuddling part. I say just skip the entree and go directly to dessert. Yum.