When I send mail to people, why do they look at my profile but don't respond?

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    Jun 29, 2010 10:49 PM GMT
    I don't really understand that, quite a few people have already done that now. I refuse to believe that they are so into themselves that they feel it's not worth responding. But why even check out my profile? Does that somehow help them decide whether to respond or not? Perhaps they have soo many emails that they don't have time...but then how would you have enough time to check out my profile?

    I must add: I never mention anything sexual or anything suggestive of sex, after all I'm only here for friends. I really don't believe that I look freaky or creepy in any way (my opinion). So what other reasons could there be: I'd actually rather they sent me a mail back saying 'you're so f**cking ugly I can't even associate with you' than to not respond LOL. Ignorance is rude.

    So does this ever happen to you?

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    Jun 29, 2010 10:54 PM GMT
    Some people just don't have basic communication skills or shy themselves...don't take it personally, just keep putting yourself out there.
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    Jun 29, 2010 10:59 PM GMT
    well, they prob wanna see what u look like first of all. .

    I mean let's be real. We live in a shallow world and if you are anything short of a model than u are yesterday's garbage. .

    Now, I personally think you're a cute guy and would respond to one of ur msgs, but perhaps the models among us get sooo many messages that they can't simply respond to all their endearing fans, , , it just simply isn't possible
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    Jun 29, 2010 11:25 PM GMT
    Import saidwell, they prob wanna see what u look like first of all. .

    I mean let's be real. We live in a shallow world and if you are anything short of a model than u are yesterday's garbage. .

    Now, I personally think you're a cute guy and would respond to one of ur msgs, but perhaps the models among us get sooo many messages that they can't simply respond to all their endearing fans, , , it just simply isn't possible


    I really refuse to accept that as a possible answer lol. I would never dream of picking which emails to respond to or not based on how good looking they are! That would be ludicrously lame. I even respond to people without pics, unless of course they say stuff like 'cam2cam' etc.

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    Jun 29, 2010 11:28 PM GMT
    JeffR saidSome people just don't have basic communication skills or shy themselves...don't take it personally, just keep putting yourself out there.


    Basic communication skills such as 'hello, thanks for sending me a mail, how are you'? Yeah, not too convinced on that one lol.

    And about shyness, c'mon it's the internet, you can't be thaat shy icon_biggrin.gif


    Nah of course I don't take it personally, I don't even know them icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 29, 2010 11:29 PM GMT
    if they dont respond who cares their not worth it just keep moving and your really hot so idk y they dont,i personally dont send no one messages so i wouldnt know but keep your head up brush off your shoulder and smile =)
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    Jun 29, 2010 11:30 PM GMT
    But why even check out my profile? Does that somehow help them decide whether to respond or not?


    Yes

    I really refuse to accept that as a possible answer lol. I would never dream of picking which emails to respond to or not based on how good looking they are!

    I agree with you but not everyone thinks that way, if you're not good looking enough for some of the guys you've emailed, they won't email u back
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    Jun 29, 2010 11:40 PM GMT


    They have to check if you're Hot to them, When not, you get no response..Simple icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:08 AM GMT
    Its all about looks on this site..realjock website has its share of individuals who will def not say hi to you if they think your not hot enough...which is silly and kinda shows what type of person they are. If they dont reply just move on...as last time i checked there are multiple persons joining each day.
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:10 AM GMT
    Just be patient and they'll eventually respond once they're done fapping to your pics.
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:11 AM GMT
    Gbob saidI don't really understand that, quite a few people have already done that now. I refuse to believe that they are so into themselves that they feel it's not worth responding. But why even check out my profile? Does that somehow help them decide whether to respond or not? Perhaps they have soo many emails that they don't have time...but then how would you have enough time to check out my profile?

    I must add: I never mention anything sexual or anything suggestive of sex, after all I'm only here for friends. I really don't believe that I look freaky or creepy in any way (my opinion). So what other reasons could there be: I'd actually rather they sent me a mail back saying 'you're so f**cking ugly I can't even associate with you' than to not respond LOL. Ignorance is rude.

    So does this ever happen to you?


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    Jun 30, 2010 2:14 AM GMT
    oh stop being so pea brained, your far away, you don't fit the typical physical caricaturists for desirability in this community and you seem a little whiny.
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:15 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidoh stop being so pea brained, your far away, you don't fit the typical physical caricaturists for desirability in this community and you seem a little whiny.


    HAHAHAHAHAHA
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:20 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidoh stop being so pea brained, your far away, you don't fit the typical physical caricaturists for desirability in this community and you seem a little whiny.

    Dont pay him any mind. ... He tends to be a little cranky. ... I think it comes from standing upside down all the time.
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    Jun 30, 2010 3:03 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidoh stop being so pea brained, your far away, you don't fit the typical physical caricaturists for desirability in this community and you seem a little whiny.


    Hes always like this when he misses the peen...
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    Jun 30, 2010 8:22 AM GMT
    I get where you are coming from. I thought about this when I first joined the site, but grew numb to it after awhile. I leave pic comments, emails, etc and I notice that they looked at me and then didn't respond. Just brush it off. Most of the reasons given are pretty valid from my experience. Sad, but true nonetheless.
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:04 PM GMT
    tereseus1 saidIts all about looks on this site..realjock website has its share of individuals who will def not say hi to you if they think your not hot enough...which is silly and kinda shows what type of person they are. If they dont reply just move on...as last time i checked there are multiple persons joining each day.


    Oh right. Lol apparently I'm not 'hot' enough to be spoken to then haha.

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    Jun 30, 2010 2:12 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidoh stop being so pea brained, your far away, you don't fit the typical physical caricaturists for desirability in this community and you seem a little whiny.


    Aw so what are these 'typical physical caricaturists for desirability' you're referring to?? To be honest I really couldn't care how people think I look but I would be rather concerned if people judged whether I'm deserving to be spoken to based on my looks!

    P.S I'm a little whiny, you're a little bitchy.
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    Jun 30, 2010 2:29 PM GMT
    because maybe they aren't attracted to you or find anything they relate to in your profile. don't get your feelings hurt. just move on.
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    Jun 30, 2010 3:55 PM GMT
    realman77 saidbecause maybe they aren't attracted to you or find anything they relate to in your profile. don't get your feelings hurt. just move on.


    Well that could be true if I was 'coming onto them'. But the emails I send are only on a friendship basis...i.e. only trying to make some friends on here. Not interested in hooking up or any of that stuff at all to be honest icon_smile.gif

    Nah my feelings aren't hurt, but it just seems a bit rude. It's sort of like saying 'hi there how was your day today?' to someone (in a really non-flirtatious, friendly way) and then the other person looks you up and down, and then decides to walk off. Just because someone emails you doesn't mean they're necessarily interested in you lol. icon_lol.gif

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    Jun 30, 2010 11:29 PM GMT
    Speaking of perception and the unspoken, you keep refuting everyone's possible explanations with a "no, that would be blah blah etc..." Not sure how long you've been here but the "I don't get responded to/nobody likes me" thread has been done to death and just puts a big target on the the OP. And not a good one.
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    Jul 01, 2010 12:46 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidSpeaking of perception and the unspoken, you keep refuting everyone's possible explanations with a "no, that would be blah blah etc..." Not sure how long you've been here but the "I don't get responded to/nobody likes me" thread has been done to death and just puts a big target on the the OP. And not a good one.


    Right ok. I'm really not trying to refute anyone's explanations/opinions if that's how it comes across. I hear what they say but I just try to argue their points from a critical point of view.

    It was just a question. I'v only joined recently but I'm not at all concerned whether my posts place me in a good/bad light on here. I had a question so I asked it. It seems like you're rather irritated by my posts, you don't have to respond to them if that's the case. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 01, 2010 2:12 AM GMT

    At some point validation frm pretty faces and toned bodies will be irrelevant. If you drop compliments in someones mailbox and they need to base a response by the measurement of your attractiveness on their scale... Do you need to know more? hopefully NOTicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 01, 2010 2:38 AM GMT
    Gbob saidI'm really not trying to refute anyone's explanations/opinions . . . I just try to argue their points from a critical point of view.


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    Look, most of those guys probably weren't into your looks. (Look differentiation is one of the tragedies of human existence, but that fact doesn't mean it doesn't exist.) Some probably weren't interested in corresponding with someone far away. Some probably weren't interested in communicating with random strangers but curious to see if they could figure out what could prompt someone else to be. Or maybe they just weren't in the mood for an online correspondence but were curious about your profile just to see. You might have better luck in the chatrooms, which has guys who by selection are looking to chat with strangers. Barring that, you could read people's forum posts and see if you have anything deeper in common to discuss, which might elicit more replies.
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    Jul 01, 2010 3:01 AM GMT
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    Gbob saidI'm really not trying to refute anyone's explanations/opinions . . . I just try to argue their points from a critical point of view.


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    Look, most of those guys probably weren't into your looks. (Look differentiation is one of the tragedies of human existence, but that fact doesn't mean it doesn't exist.) Some probably weren't interested in corresponding with someone far away. Some probably weren't interested in communicating with random strangers but curious to see if they could figure out what could prompt someone else to be. Or maybe they just weren't in the mood for an online correspondence but were curious about your profile just to see. You might have better luck in the chatrooms, which has guys who by selection are looking to chat with strangers. Barring that, you could read people's forum posts and see if you have anything deeper in common to discuss, which might elicit more replies.


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    See, I do accept answers on here lol.