how to offer a straight guy head...

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    Feb 07, 2008 1:18 AM GMT
    suggestions on this? this guy is my best friend and he knows im gay but i really wouldnt mind a friends with benefits type thing. how can i offer it to him without totally weirding him out?
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    Feb 07, 2008 1:34 AM GMT
    When I try to think about how straight guys would perceive something, I try to reverse it and think how I would feel if a woman was coming on to me.

    So let's see....

    This woman says she's knows I am gay, but if wanted a blow job, she would love to give me one.

    Ok, I can't do this. I am so totally 100% homosexual that I would never want a woman to blow me.

    But hopefully, you see how you might try to think this through. You know the other guy and you evidently have something that he likes about you, at least as friends.

    What do you think?

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    Feb 08, 2008 1:30 PM GMT
    Don't even go thereicon_neutral.gif
  • GQjock

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    Feb 09, 2008 10:25 AM GMT
    Ya might wanna try

    Err...can I help ya with that?
  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 09, 2008 12:18 PM GMT
    Agree with Caslon,

    Why on earth a straight guy want to offer his most private part for some gay enjoyment. Unless he is at least bisexual. I got nervous when a female doctor unbutton my shirt. You need to be careful there, you might end up with a broken nose.
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    Feb 09, 2008 12:25 PM GMT
    You will lose your friend. Straight guys are off limits until they approach you.

    ... i think icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 15, 2008 7:46 PM GMT
    Try a parallel conversation. Tell your friend you were approached by a friend at work, school, gym,...etc. and said they were straight but would really like a BJ. Really talk it up that you were shocked that this guy would ask you such a thing but you were kind of interested etc.... Then ask him how he would feel if a gay guy asked him the same? Be careful though. Don't force the questions too quickly. Talk about it and around it first and feel him out. Then base your decision on his answer.

    Let us know what happens. icon_wink.gif
  • Cndpup

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    Feb 16, 2008 4:36 AM GMT
    Ha! Get him drunk first! lol j/k although I shit you not, the other day while on the bus coming home from the office there was a young girl SCREAMING at this guy on her cell phone for blowing another guy while drunk HA! I couldn't help but smirk even though I felt sorry for the guy...and all straight men in general...women are scary!

    But seriously, he's straight. Unless he drops clues then I'd most definitely not approach him in that way or you could lose a friend or worse.
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    Feb 16, 2008 6:24 AM GMT
    Maybe this will help


  • Timbales

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    Feb 17, 2008 12:31 AM GMT
    Say to him "You know what would be funny? If I tripped and fell and landed with my mouth open on your exposed erection."
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    Feb 17, 2008 7:25 AM GMT
    Timberoo saidSay to him "You know what would be funny? If I tripped and fell and landed with my mouth open on your exposed erection."


    LOL .. hilarious!! icon_lol.gif It sounds like you are an expert using this way Timberoo!