Check out the 'straight' bars/pubs/clubs... you'd be surprised!

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    Feb 07, 2008 7:42 AM GMT
    Heya guys, I went out last night to one of the more 'hideous' clubs here and just doing my normal stuff on the dancefloor 'til closing and I was approached by this 'touchy' young bloke... was taken off guard when he asked me if I wanna make out with him. Both pissed, we were kissing on the way out of the club and in the parking lot (that's big deal in this part of the world)!!! icon_wink.gif

    Point is, widen your reach... you may just get lucky everywhere. Oh don't get me started on mall foodcourtsicon_eek.gif

    This is ironic considering three threads that may somehow seem relavant to this are still very much happening:
    "Those random conversations"
    "if you saw the guy above you in a club..."
    "would you kiss the dude above you???"
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    Feb 08, 2008 12:55 AM GMT
    Haha, it's great to see a gay man come into the light about clubs and bars that are not gay specific!

    I've had most of my fun and sexy experiences at regular joints. I always tell my gay friends, if you want to live in a world that isn't homophobic, engage with it, don't run from it.

    Whenever I go out and dance girls are all over me, I love it! And they are some of the hottest girls in the club mind you icon_smile.gif This always gets the guys attention and boy is it a treat when one has curiosities.

    One of my best kisses was by this pizza delivery boy who delivered pizza to a frat party I went to on New Years 2000...hubba hubba!
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    Feb 08, 2008 1:08 AM GMT
    devildog....I think I just fell in love with you.

    I spend all my time in str8 joints...in fact, when I go out of town, I usually do better in str8 bars than in gay bars...just cause the dudes aren't as...well...swishy or whatever.

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    Feb 08, 2008 1:26 AM GMT
    Agreed.

    I often enjoy a nice relaxed bar over a crowded dance club anyways, and when college is in session, a lot of the bars here are perfect... not too few, not too many people.

    My only problem is that no one ever thinks Im gay for some stupid reason. Ive had a few guys tell me that they were afraid to talk to me at the bar because they didnt know.
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    Feb 08, 2008 1:30 AM GMT
    Wait...how do these people know you're gay? Is there a special gay bat-signal that you have? I've never been picked up on by a pizza man or in a straight club/bar! The best I've ever had was in a starbucks...but it was in a gay part of the city so hardly counts. Show me your secret! I'm curious now.

    I have my decoder ring ready.
  • xKorix

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    Feb 08, 2008 1:33 AM GMT
    Hehe yeah I spend most of my time at straight clubs. I have more friends who go, and I don't have to worry about the gay cliques/drama or my 'reputation' in the small gay community. I'm not the type of person who goes home with somebody every night but I'd rather just chill at the straight bars carefree, and the guys are pretty hot there too, not that I'd ever go there though.
  • DrStorm

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    Feb 08, 2008 1:43 AM GMT
    One of my best friends and I hang out at a very straight bar/restaurant in Sausalito (north of San Francisco across the Golden Gate Bridge, for those who don't know it). We usually hang out there on a SUN afternoon for cocktails and in winter we watch NFL. in summer it's great to sit out on the deck overlooking San Francisco Bay. Sometimes we have a couple of friends with us, else just the two of us.

    After a few margaritas (:lolicon_smile.gif we're not that shy nor are we too quiet (:twistedicon_smile.gif. Well, we're just having a great time....time after time really hot women who are there with friends will come over and hang out with us and sometimes their boyfriends. I always get a kick out of the fact that sometimes the the male friends or boyfriends or even hunky husbands seem more interested in us than than their girlfriends/wives....always a thrill of the unknown.

    I have a few straight girlfriends and we go out on occasion and I totally love it - these girls are hot and we go out and I get other straight guys envying me - if only they knew - LOL!

    Have to agree that when you are tired of what Stephen King refers to as SSDD (Same Shit Different Day) - head out to a STRAIGHT BAR with some friends...the butch ones preferably else it defeats the whole purpose of "gay-anonymity"...

    PEACE

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    Feb 08, 2008 1:44 AM GMT
    One of my best friends and I hang out at a very straight bar/restaurant in Sausalito (north of San Francisco across the Golden Gate Bridge, for those who don't know it). We usually hang out there on a SUN afternoon for cocktails and in winter we watch NFL. in summer it's great to sit out on the deck overlooking San Francisco Bay. Sometimes we have a couple of friends with us, else just the two of us.

    After a few margaritas icon_razz.gif we're not that shy nor are we too quiet icon_twisted.gif. Well, we're just having a great time....time after time really hot women who are there with friends will come over and hang out with us and sometimes their boyfriends. I always get a kick out of the fact that sometimes the male friends or boyfriends or even hunky husbands seem more interested in us than than their girlfriends/wives....always a thrill of the unknown.

    I have a few straight girlfriends and we go out on occasion and I totally love it - these girls are hot and we go out and I get other straight guys envying me - if only they knew - LOL!

    Have to agree that when you are tired of what Stephen King refers to as SSDD (Same Shit Different Day) - head out to a STRAIGHT BAR with some friends...the butch ones preferably else it defeats the whole purpose of "gay-anonymity"...

    PEACE

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    Feb 08, 2008 2:08 AM GMT
    Straight bars always worked for me. Less competition.
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    Feb 08, 2008 2:27 AM GMT
    you don't get "hit on" like you would in a gay, bar NYman...you just check out the goods...you notice them checking out the goods and then you go home and compare your goods. It's not complicated, really...its just more covert.

    I'll tell ya what. I'm in New York for the weekend...I'll take you to a str8 bar and help u tag a hot str8 boy, lol...
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    Feb 08, 2008 8:00 AM GMT
    tommysguns2000you just check out the goods...you notice them checking out the goods and then you go home and compare your goods.


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    Feb 08, 2008 8:12 AM GMT
    Devildog78 saidHaha, it's great to see a gay man come into the light about clubs and bars that are not gay specific!

    I've had most of my fun and sexy experiences at regular joints. I always tell my gay friends, if you want to live in a world that isn't homophobic, engage with it, don't run from it.

    Whenever I go out and dance girls are all over me, I love it! And they are some of the hottest girls in the club mind you icon_smile.gif This always gets the guys attention and boy is it a treat when one has curiosities.

    One of my best kisses was by this pizza delivery boy who delivered pizza to a frat party I went to on New Years 2000...hubba hubba!


    DETAILSSSSS PLEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!

    i gave head to one handsome and hung jordanian who was a delivery guy at burger king back in 2002! ooof, i thought it was a happy mealicon_razz.gif x
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    Feb 08, 2008 8:21 AM GMT
    NYMan saidWait...how do these people know you're gay? Is there a special gay bat-signal that you have? I've never been picked up on by a pizza man or in a straight club/bar! The best I've ever had was in a starbucks...but it was in a gay part of the city so hardly counts. Show me your secret! I'm curious now.

    I have my decoder ring ready.


    I offered him a back rub otherwise known to native arabic speakers as "You like massage?" I wish you can hear it the way it's spoken as it is such dumbass-speak accompanied by body language of the acticon_lol.gif
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    Feb 09, 2008 7:13 AM GMT
    I went up to about 12 straight guys and had them french kiss me, when I was leaving the party I ran into the pizza boy and said "kiss me!" He said "what the heck, it's new years" and french kissed me. He had braces, lol!!!!!!

    I guess what my thing is, is that I'm not afraid of shit and don't have a shy passive personality. So if I want do something I'll usually just go and do it. I'm also a real ball buster and love to use my sexuality to challenge and push people's buttons in the name of fun.

    Guys are not as hung up as one might think. I mean, when I'm out and having fun sex isn't really on my mind. Sexuality however is and I love to play and flirt and have a ball. That said, I make out with chicks all the time in public. Kissing is about all a girl can do with her mouth. icon_twisted.gif