Jul 01, 2010 9:42 PM GMT
First of all when a lot of ppl think of the stereotypical "jock" they think of uber straight athletic cocky jerks (mainly str. This has become the epitome of gay porn and gay desire and it is warped. I see so many gay dudes work their ass off in the gym to get the perfect body, and some achieve it. They then only seek similar types of guys (I have seen this more times than anything else) and see anything but that as "weak". But essentially you're saying that your security obviously comes only from your body. You're saying if you didn't have your athletic buff body you'd be weak like everyone else too. That is what worries me. Any guy who feels that way is gay or on his way to becoming gay if all that has to happen is for a bigger, stronger, buffer guy has to come along to make u feel "less than". If so, in ur mind you're weak already. You have no idea how many academic studies have been done on gay men's obsession with this.