No Sex??!!

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    Feb 07, 2008 2:00 PM GMT
    Ive heard of some people losing their sex drive when they are going thru a rough time in their life and I just dont get it. No matter what is going on in my life I still want sex, unless the problem is my partner.

    The only thing that has ever affected me like that was when I left a guy that I loved and he was very abusive physically and emotionally. Finally when I left I couldnt be with anyone for about 6 months...I didnt even masturbate.


    If a problem that has nothing to do with you or your partner comes up and it makes you feel less of a man, for example losing your job, does it affect your love life or sex drive?

    And if your partner did lose his sex drive due to a personal problem/depression how do you not take it personal and feel rejected?
  • GQjock

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    Feb 09, 2008 10:24 AM GMT
    Usually when there is something going on in a relationship the first thing that goes is the sex

    it's not always the case...but usually
    sometimes the people involved aren't even aware of it
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    Feb 21, 2008 8:30 PM GMT
    I've had instances, where I just wasn't in the mood for sex, but I had to be really down for something like that to occur....like a break up, or death in the family. Just wanted to be alone with myself and my feelings including naked with another dude.
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    Feb 21, 2008 8:50 PM GMT

    Or when your parents start making a big noise around your sex life...
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    Feb 22, 2008 3:09 AM GMT
    the only time when i didnt want sex was when i was with my girlfriend. Nothing against her but when i was with her i was "playing it straight" but realized that i could no longer perform...so when she told me i had to wait for sex....I was all for it. She wanted to wait 8 months. We broke up after 2 because i couldnt perform properly.