why hot guys are considered to be slutz?


  • Feb 07, 2008 11:23 PM GMT
    i mean can't a hot guy be desperate ? if he is like into someone from the first date " oh no he is too easy" he must be some kinda, sort of a.... freak! or if he talks to everybody, again:" too easy to approach" , fckin life and stereotypes !!!!!!icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 07, 2008 11:51 PM GMT
    oddly, I have been told exactly the opposite..."pretty boys go home alone"...simply because:

    1. Others are too intimidated to ask them out/dance/what have you.
    2. They are too picky about who they would go home with.

    ...so they end up just going home alone or with friends...

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    Feb 08, 2008 8:25 AM GMT
    I agree with dfrourke, seeing a hot guy just scares away folks.
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    Feb 08, 2008 9:47 AM GMT
    dfrourke saidoddly, I have been told exactly the opposite..."pretty boys go home alone"...simply because:

    1. Others are too intimidated to ask them out/dance/what have you.
    2. They are too picky about who they would go home with.

    ...so they end up just going home alone or with friends...

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    HA! I'll think of it THAT way from now on...
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    Feb 08, 2008 2:10 PM GMT
    From my experience, ANYONE can be a slut. No matter how hot. It isn't hard to get into a horny gay mans pants.

    I do agree with some of the guys above, a lot of people are intimidated by a good looking guy.

    I've had a lot of my friends tell me that when they first met me they were very intimidated. I think i just come across mean. lol.
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    Feb 08, 2008 6:29 PM GMT
    dfrourke saidoddly, I have been told exactly the opposite..."pretty boys go home alone"...simply because:

    1. Others are too intimidated to ask them out/dance/what have you.
    2. They are too picky about who they would go home with.

    ...so they end up just going home alone or with friends...

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    It's true. I've met some seriously hot guys with major confidence issues. Once I went out with a guy who was almost universally praised as the hottest guy at the club we were at, yet he was amazed that I would give him the time of day because nobody ever approached him.

    And...well...I don't think hot guys are sluttier than any other sort of guy in principle. Maybe they just seem to get what they want more often.

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    Feb 08, 2008 6:43 PM GMT
    anyone can be hot, and anyone can be a slut.

    Sure, the beer guzzling obese guy might not be attractive to you but he could have a harem of chubby chasers chained up in his basement.

    And of you want to see people as hot as the gentlemen above or as hideous as Quasimodo being total sluts, just check out craig's list.
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    Feb 08, 2008 6:58 PM GMT
    Is it me or is this sort of a strange conversation for some of the hottest guys I've seen lately to be having...

    My friends tell me that I'm intimidating but I dunno... I'm beginning to think they're just being nice b/c i never do get approached at bars.

  • Feb 09, 2008 11:11 PM GMT
    and you're just cool with it ? i mean don't you get tired of being just watched and not going further icon_sad.gif ,
    but that too would not be such a problem if it wasn't for the too short interest in a too easy to catch ...(call it whatever you want)
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    Feb 09, 2008 11:25 PM GMT
    I dunno, I think I might actually just be oblivious to it. I've definitely found myself being stared at a couple times, so I smile back, but then they avert their eyes to quickly for me to gauge the situation. I think another part of it is I come off as straight. When my roommate (a woman) and I used to go out, strangers would say "How long have you guys been together?" And I'd be like "Umm... I'm gay."

    We used to joke that I should get a t-shirt that said "I'm not with her." and another one that said "Heauxmeauxsexual" (its an LSU thing. Spelled the "cajun" way, but pronounced "homosexual") cause apparently I was a bit of a cock-block for her.