i have a co-worker who adopted one of her daughters. she told me that while all her kids she had "accidentally" as you will, her adopted daughter was the one she actually chose to have. you have noted this too. LOVE your parents for having done that because you are the special one to them. (i know that sounds cheesy).
as for them not telling you, maybe they were waiting for the right time...maybe for you to be a little older...a little wiser, like you are now, to handle the news. i would be more pissed at your friend for breaking the news to you before giving your parents the chance to.
as for the original topic, i have a thing for guys who used to be blonde as a kid but now have a dark head of hair and blue eyes. i like how they have a dark head of hair but light blonde peach fuzz on their body...i know it's a weird combination.
Just because you were adopted doesn't mean that they don't LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE you....they went out of their way for you to be in their family. Be happier in your Rarity in the family...you are the only one...the special one....the diamond in the ruff. All the best bro
Thanks, I know my parents love me and I feel really bad for the hell I put them through for so many years after I found out that I was adopted. I know now that I should have been happy that my parents chose to adopt ME, to raise me in a good home with LOTS of love but I was so angry that they didn't tell me themselves that I was mad at them and really mean to them FOR YEARS.
Although I was finally able to work out most of my issues I am still angry with my parents for not telling me themselves that I was adopted. I don't know what the hell they were thinking! My relationship with my parents is much improved but I still have anger towards them for this one mistake they made. Hopefully someday I will finally be able to work through it.