Can I become a Top?

  • shinji082

    Posts: 19

    Jul 06, 2010 7:27 PM GMT
    Hey guys!
    I have a question for u all, i'm 28 and have always been a bottom, but for a cople of years, i've dated guys who r 50/50, which is really fun... so i have penetrate them, but i lose my erection very easily, i've always use protection (which i think has nothing to do with it), but i've never come to get an orgasm in them.
    So... is there a way to become a Top? any excercises or i dont know... i wonder for example in the different ways i masturbate... i don't know if it is only psycological or i am meant to be bottom, what do u think?
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    Jul 06, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    Cocks are like puppies: they need training. You have trained your cock to respond beautifully to bottoming. Now that you want to top this is going to require a few changes.

    First, try ultra-thin polyurethane condoms. You may find you are a bit more responsive.

    Second, use a cock ring. A little help maintaining an erection is perfectly fine.

    Third, kegel exercises are your best friend.

    But, sex is not all about physical response to physical stimuli. It is also a psychological experience. Perhaps anxiety related to your lack of topping experience is getting in the way. Just keep trying. Not with a goal of topping, but with a goal of having fun. Don't make sex objective-oriented. Have fun. Enjoy yourself. Send me pics. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 06, 2010 7:57 PM GMT
    practice having erections and keeping them hahaha

    that is your homework....
  • shinji082

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    Sep 07, 2010 8:55 PM GMT
    Thanks Munchs, i will keep that in mind... and will look for kegel exercise (which i dont know what r they =P)

    I'm still on my way, but it's been lots of fun!!!

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    Sep 07, 2010 10:58 PM GMT
    Put a little lube inside the condome, will help keep ya going icon_biggrin.gif:
  • safety43_mma1...

    Posts: 4251

    Sep 09, 2010 8:33 PM GMT
    i dont see why not i figure i was a top when i came out and now i prefer to bottom so i dont see why it wouldnt work the other way either