Virginity

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    Jul 11, 2010 4:50 AM GMT
    Is holding out for that "special someone" worth it or does it not really matter? I know this is really a question of your own personal scruples, but I'm curious as to what u guys think. Do you ever regret having your first time when you did?
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    Jul 11, 2010 4:53 AM GMT
    to me it matters alot i am a virgin and im waiting for mr right to do it,i mean i have done other things just not sex, my current bf cheated on me with my friend cause i didnt give him sex and i threw him to the street,no matter wt my friends tell me i will wait for my other half to give myself to him.
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    Jul 11, 2010 1:07 PM GMT
    what do u mean virginity? giving butt sex or receiving butt sex?
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    Jul 11, 2010 1:38 PM GMT
    Men can't have any sex that matters, that is ,creates a human being so don't sweat it and stop copying heterosexual behavior. In the big picture "sex" should not be that important in a well balanced life. You are making it too important by denying it.
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    Jul 11, 2010 2:19 PM GMT
    I was a virgin until I was 24. I held out for many reasons, among them because I wasn't sure what to do - I've never messed around with guys before, only chicks, and I wasn't sure HOW to have...er...gay sex. Actually, it was the "I don't know if I'm a top or bottom" dilemma.

    But I also held out because I wanted to share it with a very special person. Eventually, I was talking to this guy and he and I eventually met up - he was staying here temporarily for a photo shoot (he was the photographer) - and things got down and heavy and...whoop, I experienced bottoming for the first time. I don't regret losing my virginity in room 101 (behind the pool) of Motel Six up in Scotts Valley. He was really gentle and seemed to know I still had the shrink wrap on. To this day, I've never had sex quite as good as him.

    The first experience will stay with you forever. To this day, I still remember the smell, the feel, the textures, the sounds, the tastes. There are certain things that if they come up, say the smell of fresh sheets mixed with the smell of a certain body wash, I will IMMEDIATELY tent and twitch.

    I ALWAYS tell virgins that they should hold on to it as long as they can or would want to. It's a personal choice as to when you want to lose it, but know that it changes your perception of everything around you.

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    Jul 11, 2010 2:25 PM GMT
    I'm all for just having fun and later you could always have a hymenoplasty.
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    Jul 11, 2010 4:03 PM GMT
    i was 17..he was 24... it was amazing... never looked back on it... we dated for a while until i finished high school and then i moved on.
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    Jul 12, 2010 10:57 AM GMT
    I lost it both ways with my first bf when I was 18. Don't regret it at all, and I'm glad I did wait until it meant something not just a random hook-up. However I don't think you have to wait, just do it when YOU feel ready, regardless of what anyone else thinks/does.
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    Jul 12, 2010 10:59 AM GMT
    BELLO saidto me it matters alot i am a virgin and im waiting for mr right to do it,i mean i have done other things just not sex, my current bf cheated on me with my friend cause i didnt give him sex and i threw him to the street,no matter wt my friends tell me i will wait for my other half to give myself to him.


    other things are sex to oral included
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    Jul 14, 2010 2:04 AM GMT
    it depends on what sex means to you.

    sex is a natural function which doesn't have to involve love but some sort of attraction does make it better (if not the person, then the scenario).
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    Jul 14, 2010 2:09 AM GMT
    Sex requires practice and repetition to get good. Get crackin'.
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    Jul 15, 2010 12:11 AM GMT
    mmmm thanks god I'm still virgin.
    there's a time when a guy in his 40s was going around me asking for sex lool I wasn't sure what to do cause he was my trainer then I decided to fuck off and change my gym lol.

    and still virgin till now icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 15, 2010 12:13 AM GMT
    rocking the virgin hat till now lol.

    only have fucked two girls but that doesnt count icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 15, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    I used to believe in that whole "someone special story" but I dont anymore.. so I dont know what I will do.... I lost it once to a guy who approached me when I was piss drunk, so I still have no idea what it actually feels like.... Id still like to know.... but I think Im just gonna go with the flow... fuck planning things.... anything.... so it'll happen if it happens when it happens.....but one thing I know for sure, Im not into flings or hook-ups... I need to trust, and that is something I find very hard to do of someone is looking for a one-night thing... not to mention they make me feel like a disposable one-time-use object.... for fucks sake, Im not a camera, a condom, a tampon, or a garbage bag
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    Jul 15, 2010 12:26 AM GMT
    I'm not dying to get out there and sleep around, so I have no problem waiting for the right guy. Hook-ups are not for me.
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    Jul 15, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    Who cares. If you're both hot for each other, then root already!
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    Jul 15, 2010 12:49 AM GMT
    I am still waiting until the time is right with that special someone. I think the first time should be with someone you have feelings for and are serious about.