I was a virgin until I was 24. I held out for many reasons, among them because I wasn't sure what to do - I've never messed around with guys before, only chicks, and I wasn't sure HOW to have...er...gay sex. Actually, it was the "I don't know if I'm a top or bottom" dilemma.
But I also held out because I wanted to share it with a very special person. Eventually, I was talking to this guy and he and I eventually met up - he was staying here temporarily for a photo shoot (he was the photographer) - and things got down and heavy and...whoop, I experienced bottoming for the first time. I don't regret losing my virginity in room 101 (behind the pool) of Motel Six up in Scotts Valley. He was really gentle and seemed to know I still had the shrink wrap on. To this day, I've never had sex quite as good as him.
The first experience will stay with you forever. To this day, I still remember the smell, the feel, the textures, the sounds, the tastes. There are certain things that if they come up, say the smell of fresh sheets mixed with the smell of a certain body wash, I will IMMEDIATELY tent and twitch.
I ALWAYS tell virgins that they should hold on to it as long as they can or would want to. It's a personal choice as to when you want to lose it, but know that it changes your perception of everything around you.
Damn. No more replying when hungover.
