very frustrating incident

  • Hunter9

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    Jul 12, 2010 2:28 AM GMT
    i went to a gay sports bar with a friend to watch the world cup finale. my friend and i started talking with two others during halftime and in between overtimes and intermittently throughout the game as we were all rooting for holland. one of the guys was unbelievably good-looking and was very friendly with me. it did not seem like the two of them were together so i figured id ask for his number once the game ended. even before it ended, he began entering "my personal space" and making leg contact, so i was even more confident that he would be interested.

    after the game (so sad for NL), while his friend was turned, i asked if they were together. he said 'no'. so i asked if i could get his number, and he kinda winked, but then shook his head like he didn't want to be having this conversation in front of his friend. so i just dropped it and was hoping either id get him alone or he would make some sort of move to let me know what the situation was. neither of those happened, so my friend and i said good bye to both of them and the guy was giving me a look of interest (at least that's how i interpreted it) but i felt like i had played my cards.

    he very well could have been disinterested and just trying to get me off his back but it really didn't seem like that was the case.... now im just frustrated.

    vent over
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    Jul 12, 2010 2:35 AM GMT
    The guy was either lying about being with his friend, or his bf is at home and he didn't want his friend to tell his bf that he's out cheating.
  • GQjock

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    Jul 12, 2010 3:10 AM GMT
    but then shook his head like he didn't want to be having this conversation in front of his friend

    Someone's not giving you correct info
    But hey, you could have given him your number and let Him deal with the aftermath
    You're single ... if he's with a bf that's His problem
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    Jul 12, 2010 5:58 AM GMT
    LOL, man I hate this game... I like straighfowardness
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    Jul 12, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    A man shaking his head at you is not a good sign. Move on.
  • Hunter9

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    Jul 12, 2010 6:10 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidA man shaking his head at you is not a good sign. Move on.


    and what does a man rubbing his leg against yours and winking at you mean, Dr. Phil?
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    Jul 12, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    Welcome to the world of flirting.

    Move on.
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    Jul 12, 2010 6:25 AM GMT
    Hunter9 said
    Ciarsolo saidA man shaking his head at you is not a good sign. Move on.


    and what does a man rubbing his leg against yours and winking at you mean, Dr. Phil?


    GAME!! Grrrr icon_mad.gif
  • mtneerman

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    Jul 12, 2010 6:45 AM GMT
    if a guys interested in you, but doesn't have the balls to tell you directly and resorts to 3rd grade antics you don't want him anyway.