Jul 12, 2010 5:09 AM GMT
ok so heres the situation, i live with roomates who are married, they are both very good friends we have fun and they are easy going. well they are having problems in their marriage, they have been together for 10 years. we went to LA for the weekend everything was great it was all good until this morning, shit hit the fan.... and i was there to see it..... not good. i guess she got a text from a guy shes been talking to at five in the morning, she saids the guys a freind or whatever but they do hangout a lot...the text read "i still want to fuck you" from what he was yelling....so im sleeping and he wakes me and was like lets go...lets go....im like whats going on...then shes all like dont get him invloved in our problems....so then it was an all out screaming match...she was throwing shit it got heated...i literally just grabbed some shorts and walked out of the hotel....so i was in the car trying to sleep and then i hear a tap in the window at ten am....so they were argiung for like five hours.... she gets in the car and were like this is it were so done...im done with him....were divorcing and she starts talking to about the "guy friend" and confessed to me that they have fucked once....i was like ok you know what i dont want to know anymore you guys are both good friends and you guys need to figure out shit on your own...when we got back home they were lovey dovy one second and fighting the next.... so i left..... later he calls me crying me and comes to my friends house and starts balling to me that he doesnt want this and what did he do wrong....he was like all up on me... then he got a phone call and left...i dont know what to do??? they both keep on asking me what should they do??? and not to leave them.... that they both need me right now...i dont know what to tell them.....im at a loss for words....and im talking to one and the other is blowing up my phone.....i keep on telling them to leave me alone i cant make the decisions for them....they need to figure shit out on their own...... should i look for another place to live???? im getting so tired of hearing about their problems....im trying to be a good friend but i have my own life..... they always want to talk to me..if its not one its the other... he just called me telling me that he leaving....hes gonna stay at a friends.... im scared that this going to make this worse and im going to be torn between them.... should i just stay and see what happens??? what do you think???