Jul 12, 2010 9:29 AM GMT
i live in a small town so virtually all my dates come from online meetings. i state clearly in my profiles that i'm interested in dates and not hook-ups, so the guys that chat with me tell me they are interested in a date with me. lately there has been several guys that feel the need to share their current sex lives with me. one guy, while talking to him on the phone, told me he had to get off the phone so he could go to the college bar to find a hookup, then proceeds to tell me what he does and doesn't do with these hookups. just yesterday a guy told me about his friend, and how much of a pig he was in bed, including sounding...ouch! i am not at all bothered that these guys are having sex, but why the need to tell me? especially after chatting just a short time and wanting a date. i find it a complete turnoff and stop chatting with them. is it common now to tell a potential date this much info? am i overreacting?