I couldn't possibly agree more... it's sad, however, that some of us don't get it until we're so much older...and wiser (?). If more men actually knew this when they go into a relationship, we could show straight people how it should be done!!! That would be a jewel in any man's crown!!
I played it with my partner and we were both nodding throughout the whole thing. I think it also helps when I remind myself of the things that drive him crazy and not worry so much about the things he does that drive me crazy. In the long run, those things are unimportant and sometimes become the things we love most about the other person.