Total Top/Total Bottom

  • scottmet99

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    Jul 12, 2010 8:36 PM GMT
    Just figured I'd throw this topic out there since on the profiles there seems to be no place to categorize ones sexual position. Is anyone reading this either a total top or a total bottom? I'm definitely 100% total bottom and comfortable that way, and, while masculine, lean submissive in and out of the bedroom. Curious as to others views, thoughts, etc.

    Of course, if anyone sees my profile and likes it would especially love to hear from you icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
    Neither actually.

    Maybe for the right guy I would...

    the whole "what you don't do in the bedroom, someone else will" idea...
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    Agreed, I state on my profile that I'm a total bottom, sex isn't everything but it's a very important part of a relationship so, yes, that should be a part of our profiles.
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidChainers please don't start with me.


    icon_sad.gif. I was being sincere icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    SxyDrkHair saidIn my opinion that is too personal. You can tell a guy when you are ready.


    I felt this way too until I dated another sub bottom for a month. It wasn't too personal then!
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    SxyDrkHair saidIn my opinion that is too personal. You can tell a guy when you are ready.


    It's less personal than HIV status but that's my opinion.
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    SxyDrkHair saidIn my opinion that is too personal. You can tell a guy when you are ready.



    BOTTOM REPLY!
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    jrunner25 said
    SxyDrkHair saidIn my opinion that is too personal. You can tell a guy when you are ready.



    ASHAMED BOTTOM REPLY!


    Fixed. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    Chainers said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidChainers please don't start with me.


    icon_sad.gif. I was being sincere icon_sad.gif


    Really? Then why did you delete it?


    Because you seemed to be mad and I want you on my side (my back side) so I got rid of it...
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    Guys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    Lol you clearly haven't had sex with a whore like me icon_smile.gif
  • SactownItalia...

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    Oct 11, 2011 4:41 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    I don't agree. I am a 100 percent bottom and I have never in my life had boring sex. Sex is boring when the person allows it to get boring...
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    yep. total anything is a total turn off.
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    SactownItalian said
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    I don't agree. I am a 100 percent bottom and I have never in my life had boring sex. Sex is boring when the person allows it to get boring...


    ?

    You've never had boring sex because you are a total bottom, you have no desire to top. I have a desire to do both so being with a guy who is strictly one or the other is of course going to be unsatisfying for me.

    I was just stating my opinion not a sexual absolute. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:44 AM GMT
    SactownItalian said
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    I don't agree. I am a 100 percent bottom and I have never in my life had boring sex. Sex is boring when the person allows it to get boring...


    ITA, if the guy you just had sex with doesn't beg for you to meet again while kissing your neck... you're doing it wrong, I'm a total bottom and I've elicited that reaction many times icon_lol.gificon_cool.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    SactownItalian said
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore,






    I was just stating my opinion not a sexual absolute. icon_rolleyes.gif


    You were.
  • SactownItalia...

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    Oct 11, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    SactownItalian said
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    I don't agree. I am a 100 percent bottom and I have never in my life had boring sex. Sex is boring when the person allows it to get boring...


    ?

    You've never had boring sex because you are a total bottom, you have no desire to top. I have a desire to do both so being with a guy who is strictly one or the other is of course going to be unsatisfying for me.

    I was just stating my opinion not a sexual absolute. icon_rolleyes.gif


    Well see I understand your statment better now. You should fix it to read " Since I am a verse, guys who are total bottoms tend to bore me"
    otherwise it comes across as a sexual absolute icon_biggrin.gif
  • JFitNC

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    Oct 11, 2011 4:47 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    I actually agree. I don't mind if a guy leans one way or the other more often but to be completely on one side almost guarantees a lack of variety. Personally my preference for position relies more on how I feel with the individual but I can't say that I have gotten serious or didn't lose interest in someone that was "total" top or bottom.
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    Oct 11, 2011 4:51 AM GMT
    Lol.

    We are discussing preferences in the bedroom, it should be intuitive that regardless of what anyone says it is completely subjective. I shouldn't have to spell out that what I said is a matter of opinion when it should be obvious that it is.
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    Oct 11, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    SactownItalian said
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    I don't agree. I am a 100 percent bottom and I have never in my life had boring sex. Sex is boring when the person allows it to get boring...


    ?

    You've never had boring sex because you are a total bottom, you have no desire to top. I have a desire to do both so being with a guy who is strictly one or the other is of course going to be unsatisfying for me.

    I was just stating my opinion not a sexual absolute. icon_rolleyes.gif


    He's hard to satisfy. We had to let him top with a sounding rod while being dp'd last time, icon_neutral.gif

    it was scary
  • sonnet129

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    Oct 11, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    Well, I totally agree with this.
  • coastguy90814

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    Oct 11, 2011 5:06 AM GMT
    To each their own but I've always found it a bit odd and or interesting with people that identify themselves as a total top or total bottom. I guess it's mainly because for me, versatility is much more fulfilling sexually. If I'm sexually attracted to my partner, there really shouldn't any boundaries you shouldn't cross, short of too weird and too kinky of course, lol.

    I took some human sexuality classes in college and I think there may be a 'mental' aspect (neither bad or good) when it comes to Gay men who are strictly one way or the other. It'd be interesting to get some personal feedback as to why an individual is strictly one way or the other as I've never really had that convo with someone.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Oct 11, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    not really 100% bottom but i am like 95% bottom and love it.
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    Oct 11, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    got to agree.... why not try it all... icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 5:22 AM GMT
    hairyandym said
    KardioKing saidGuys who are total anything in the bedroom are such a bore, sex becomes monotonous and... and... Zzzzzzzzzz.


    got to agree.... why not try it all... icon_smile.gif


    Because I tried it and I much prefer to bottom...